When chatting with people, responding to them with a respectful attitude can make them feel very happy and enjoyable chatting with us.
How can it be considered respectful? It is to respect the other party's intelligence, respect the other party's standards and principles, and make the other party feel worthy.
When we held a preparatory meeting for the annual meeting last month, Xiao Li, the organizer of our annual meeting, told me that she wanted to add a program after expressing her thoughts.
I didn't fully understand what she meant, so I asked her which show she was added to. She accused me and said, "Are you dreaming while we are talking?"
At that time, I felt hurt and suspected that I had something wrong with my intelligence.
If I apologize to her, your proposal just now is very good, but I just got distracted and didn't fully understand, I believe that the other party and I will be in a much better mood.
In order to master this method, I will use a respectful heart to affirm the other person's ideas or contributions when facing criticism in the next month.
In action: 1. Treat the person who criticizes us correctly, when being criticized, first apologize to the other party, then affirm the other party's thoughts, observe the other party's reaction, and your own emotions;
2. Strike up strangers with a respectful heart. When the other party ignores me, I sincerely affirm their behavior in my heart, because everyone treats others differently and has a different way of thinking.
When the other person acknowledges me, take advantage of the chat with care, curiosity, and inquiry, find the anchor of the conversation, and then listen with respect.