Do you always want to prove yourself? But after you do it, you will find that people who don't look down on you will never look down on you. We can't make everybody like it, and 99% of what happens to you doesn't mean anything to anyone else. So".Don't please the indifference, don't live up to the enthusiasm。"You must know that people who look down on you in their hearts will do the following three behaviors to you, don't be unclear. 01 Speak and act without taking into account your feelingsAll human beings are equal, but there is a difference in the strength of each person. Some people rely on their own strength, so they don't take the "little people" seriously。Always likes to interrupt you while you are talking, and interject at will without considering your feelings; deliberately making fun of you and not taking into account your feelings; They look down on you in their hearts, and they will always go around you for everything; Speaking of you, it can always pull things on you; At the end of the day,He just doesn't think you're the one he cares about, so he often doesn't think about your feelings。He thinks he's joking, but he always puts your shortcomings and your old things on the table; He is happy, but you are uncomfortable, and he will not care. Normal people know that they have to have scruples when they speak, considering the sensitivities and embarrassments of others, but he always exposes your shortcomings, indicating that he looks down on you. This is something that many people don't know aboutthought that the other party didn't notice it for a while, and even played a round for himself。In fact, the other person doesn't even think about your feelings. 
02 I often use busyness to perfunctory youPeople who don't have you in their hearts will often perfunctory you with busyness and take your sincerity for granted. “Busy, that is, the big rule of emotion, lethality**, is synonymous with bastard, a bastard is someone who is busy perfunctory to you. "When you're not feeling well, he tells you to drink plenty of hot water; You said a lot, and he only replied with an "oh", or a perfunctory "haha", or simply did not reply; Busy and perfunctory are two different thingsDon't use busyness as an excuse, and don't fool yourself with his busyness。The feeling of being comfortable with each other is: there is a response to everything, everything is settled, everything is explained, you don't get tired of getting along for a long time, you don't get tired of gossiping, you don't have to be perfunctory or lazy. There is nothing vigorous and eventful, it is all a small daily life that you come and go, and the attention and intention are mutual. None of us are good actors, you can't hide your enthusiasm, he can't play like。But a simple rejection is more respectable than a perfunctory liking. 03 Ignore you often and ignore your lovePeople who look down on you from the bottom of their hearts will put you last; Whether you ask him for help or ask him to eat, drink and have fun, he has a kind of attitude of ignoring him; WeChat is unwilling to reply to you, **unwilling to answer, you invite him, he rejects you；You have the impression that he is always busy, busy with this and that, busy making friends, busy making money and working, but there is no time left for you; When getting along with each other in daily life, they are always hypocritical, and they don't respect you on the surface; For your affairs, he is always perfunctory, all kinds of shirks, and discriminate；Even if you greet him warmly, he will ignore you and ignore you. In fact, such a person, don't bother anymore, they really look down on you, so they don't have time for you. Author: Yan Jiu, 99 years of Dachang naked resignation in the text, working life, healthy life, make money and save money, pay attention to me, grow together!
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