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Even if two people are in deep love, they will have a sense of gain and loss, for fear that this love will not last long, for fear that it is really not just a momentary impulse.
What you want is the sincerity and intentions of both parties, and beautiful love will be wrapped in a beautiful coat that will make you elusive.
Therefore, I want to test the other party's heart, how much I love myself, and the person who has you in my heart will "test" you.
First, deliberately having an affair with the opposite sex.
I was very impressed by watching a **, boys have liked girls for a long time, but the girl's ambiguity for her made him feel bottomless.
So one day, the boy deliberately pulled the suitcase into his house in front of the girl and another woman who were particularly close.
The girl was anxious, looking for the boy to "act as a crime", and declared sovereignty in front of the woman, both of them laughed, only the girl was stunned, it turned out that the two of them were brother and sister.
The boy is deliberately misleading the girl to see her reaction. Sometimes couples don't tell each other that once they meet someone who threatens their relationship, they react with their most authentic bodies.
Love is selfish after all, and no one wants others to interfere, just like a child protects food, it is his own, and others can't think about it.
Second, make you angry.
After many years of marriage, my husband told me that he had tried to provoke me many times before marriage. He wanted to see if he could coax me and see how long my anger would last.
It turned out that he was frightened by his sister-in-law, and every time the two brothers and his sister-in-law got angry and quarreled, the sister-in-law quarreled endlessly, and the cold war lasted for several weeks, not cooking, not doing housework, and only sleeping.
No one can convince him, only by opening himself for a long time can he slowly get better, give his younger brother a headache, and be careful all day long, so as not to make his sister-in-law angry and make the chicken and dog restless.
When he listed me as his marriage partner, the first thing to test was how angry I would be, but I am a heartless person, and being angry is only temporary, just coaxing me not to be angry, and I can do what I have to do.
This led to our marriage. He's right. We rarely quarrel.
Only people who have you in their hearts will deliberately provoke you to be angry, just to see if the temper between you is right and suitable, and once the test is satisfied, they will enter the wedding hall.
3. Tell you on April Fool's Day.
I remember when I was in college, on April Fool's Day, I was in the classroom, and someone said that someone was looking for me outside.
I forgot that it was April Fool's Day, so I ran outside and saw a boy from the next class standing under a tree. We met a few times and just spoke a few words.
He walked up to me and told me affectionately that he had loved me for a long time and that he had been suppressing his inner throbbing when he saw that I had a boyfriend, but now that we had broken up, he plucked up the courage to confess to me.
I stared at him blankly, to be honest, I had no feelings for him, I was just out of love and hadn't walked out of the last relationship yet, which wasn't fair to him.
I rejected him, and he smiled and said, "Fool, today is April Fool's Day, are you serious?"."I was angry at being played.
But then I learned that he wasn't joking with me, he was just covering up the embarrassment of being rejected.
When a person chooses to express his feelings on April Fool's Day, he must have you in his heart, but he is not sure if you will like him, so he uses this holiday as a cover.
Love is uncontrollable, when he puts you in his heart and wants to be with you forever, he will quietly test you to see if you get along, only two people who are in tune will get along comfortably and not get tired for a long time.