From a metaphysical point of view, it must be a love catastrophe.
Basically, after I have been in contact with it for a few years, most people can really be reborn, and what they have shed is to cross the love calamity.
Love, the first hurdle in life.
If you can't get over it, God will keep repeating all kinds of experiences and torturing you with different people, until your body and mind are close to collapse, doubting the world, complaining about everything, giving birth to all kinds of evil thoughts, and then you start to feel like ashes, and then slowly you begin to touch the Tao.
As the saying goes, if the heart does not die, the Tao will not be born.
Do you think the heavens are against you?
Actually, no, heaven and earth regard all things as dogs, and God doesn't care about these at all, they are all equal.
The reason why you are allowed to experience it is because you don't go through these pains, you can't understand the darkness of human nature in the future, and you can't pass the hell level at all, which is all tempering your mind, your character, and your cognition.
It is only under the most extreme pain that you can be transformed.
And the love relationship is the most painful level, which is different from the relationship between parents and wealth.
He is the person you really put your heart and soul into but is let down, deceived, toyed with, ridiculed, and loved the most, and this torture is a great exercise for you to realize.
Whoever makes you feel that you will be rewarded for your efforts, and this is when you ask.
Whoever makes you feel that the other person must belong to you, and this is your possession.
Whoever makes you always in love with the brain, thinking that everything is simple, this is your ignorance.
People always have to experience something to understand that there is a world of difference between when you were a child and when you grow up, and the school will not teach you this, but you will have to experience it yourself, because people can't teach people, but things will teach people as soon as they teach.
If not, then fall again, suffer again. Heaven has an infinite number of pain templates for you to experience.
Let's talk about another interesting one.
People are here to play games, in the early stage of the novice village, you can get all kinds of protection, don't think too much, but once you step out of the novice village, the various abilities you lack will have corresponding experiences to improve for you.
If you don't know how to socialize, you have to endure loneliness, you have no connections, no resources, no more ways to meet girls, you are easy to fall in love, once you meet one, you cherish it very much, hand over your all, and then be hurt all over your body.
If you don't like to learn, you have to endure the fence of others, and you need to cling to others in order to survive in the world.
If you don't like to exercise, you're going to suffer physically.
You remember that all the skills you don't have are going to improve in the future.
It's a game, you need to keep improving yourself, you just use everything in this game, you don't need to have it.
All things are not owned by me, all things are used by me.
Once you have an attachment to possession, you have to bear the pain of loss, because you can't take everything from this game world.
All you can take away is your ever-perfecting soul.
Back to the topic, many people who are very obsessed, after a love catastrophe, it is like a different person.
Because when you break through this hurdle, you will find that all that comes is debt, and everything has to be repaid.
I met because you had a debt to pay off before, and you were matched with him to give you a catastrophe, and if you left, it was proved that you paid it off. But you haven't fully realized this time, and next time he may come back to torture you. Until your state of mind changes, and everything turns upside down.
In fact, love is like a small hill, unattainable in the eyes of ants, and not worth mentioning in the eyes of giants.
The mountain is small from afar, and the mountain is large from near. Love is also like a long stream of mountains and rivers, the mountains are still there, you just have to go away, I just like it. When you become enlightened, your frequency increases, and if this person is yours, even if they are separated, they will somehow come back to you again. And resonate with you, but if you don't come to your senses, his return will be torture. Repeating the torture of the past again.
If this person is not yours, you believe me, what you can't keep is really the origin, I saw you in the crowd, and I saw you in the crowd and returned you to the sea of people.
From now on, liking someone is no longer obsessed with possession, you will sincerely hope that he will live well, but you will not preset how to spend your life with this person.
Live yourself, live in the moment, and I hope that one day you will be able to truly reconcile with your heart.
The blessing is immeasurable.