There was a loud bang in the sky, and the talk show Hades made its debut.
happened to meet the time when everyone didn't want to go to work the most, and it was still a scumbag cheating actor sleeping powder, and it was difficult for netizens not to be enthusiastic.
In addition, Yang Bo himself frantically pulled his girlfriend out to block the gun, and often "my girlfriend is a very good person" and "my girlfriend is not at fault".
It also made the majority of netizens incarnate the king of real talk shows, and the spicy comments were one after another:"Your girlfriend can't stand you kissing other girls and can't stand it**, that's really fragile and extraordinary. ”
The specific situation points to her sister's article yesterday: kissing crazy, suicide and quitting the circle, Yang Bo broke through the imagination of the cheating man, friends who haven't seen it can revisit it, and I won't talk about it here.
Let's talk about this from another perspective today
Why do men love to set up their girlfriends so much? How did a man cheat while showing off his true love?
Her sister chatted with the girls about their experiences of being a junior, or being a junior, and she can only say that it was an eye-opener.
"My girlfriend is so fierce".
A while ago, Lin Haha experienced the most outrageous "being a junior" in his life.
A project contact person I knew at work, and after adding WeChat, I started to joke without chatting a few words.
first greeted him every morning and good night, and then began to post some ambiguous emojis, when he did this, his avatar was still an intimate photo with his girlfriend hugging each other, and there were many traces of his girlfriend in the circle of friends.
Lin Haha was full of question marks, and he was worried that he was thinking too much, and people might just express friendship, so he endured the discomfort and repeatedly pulled the topic to his girlfriend.
Have you eaten today? ”
Have you eaten it, are you with your girlfriend? ”
Be careful on the way to work."
Uh-huh, you and your girlfriend too. ”
But unexpectedly, after such a few times, the man began to pour bitter water with her. Including but not limited to the fact that the girlfriend is very strict with herself, has been urged to marry by the girlfriend, and the other party's parents are difficult to handle.
In short, there is nothing wrong with the men themselves, it is all the girlfriend's problem that makes them want to come out and find some respite.
Lin Haha rolled his eyes and complained that he never thought that being afraid of his wife could become one of the disguises for men to come out and chat.
But something even more outrageous happened later, Lin Haha complained to his boss after being harassed a few times, and as a result, he received a man's WeChat that night, which seemed to be **:
Obviously, he didn't dare to admit that he had done something wrong, and he took his girlfriend out to block the gun again.
There are those who are "juniors", and there are those who are "smacked wives".
An Yu never dreamed that she had been evaluated by her friends for more than 20 years, with a gentle personality and stable emotions, and she would become a tigress who went crazy at any time in her boyfriend's (who had broken up) mobile phone.
The ex-boyfriend's cheating object is a junior sister from the same school, and after the junior sister graduated, he helped introduce people to jobs, and naturally became acquainted.
In the chat log, the ex-boyfriend simply came up with the words to evaluate prehistoric monsters to describe An Yu.
An Yu looked at the man's beautiful figures all over the wall in disbelief, the almost unreported chat dialogs, and the table of meals he had prepared
Fortunately, this time she really lifted the table, did the downstairs neighbor think **I don't know, but her world is really **.
"Seriously, I wasn't angry at him for cheating at that time, so I thought how could he say that about me? ”
Before that, the man's avatar and the background of the circle of friends were related to her, which also became An Yu's sense of security, at that time, she thought, it is so obvious that there are people with objects, no one should be worried.
Who would have thought that the man's explanation to his junior sister was: "If I don't change it, she will threaten me with suicide." ”
After arguing with the man, An Yu was completely sad. Long after the breakup, I saw the man's WeChat again from a mutual friend.
The background and avatar were changed to another girl, or a wedding photo.
I don't know what his wife will be arranged behind his back this time. An Yu sighed.
Whether it's showing affection or setting up a fear of wife, those intimate photos in the circle of friends help men avoid conflicts in reality, make their partners less vigilant against them, and make girls more easily deceived.
Efficient compliance testing
In addition, what many people don't expect is that having a regular partner can become a safe card for them to mess with.
Xiaoyu shared his experience of selling idle in the community group.
At that time, she was in a hurry to move away, and hung idle items such as wardrobes and tables in the group, not asking for how much to sell, just thinking about not wasting things. A person quickly came to the door and said that he wanted to make a face-to-face relationship, and Xiaoyu found out that it was a boy after applying through his friend, and he was still a little resistant.
But perhaps seeing her uneasiness, the boy took the initiative to say, "I live with my girlfriend, and I want to buy this for her." "Click in and take a look, the background of the boy's circle of friends is intimacy with a girl**.
After saying this, Xiao Yu completely dispelled his doubts.
The two traded smoothly, and the boy also moved the cabinet, and later, the boy behaved exceptionally friendly and offered to help Xiaoyu move. Throughout the process, the guy mentions his girlfriend from time to time.
I came to Beijing for my girlfriend", "She had a hard time moving alone before", "We have a good relationship, she understands me very well"...
After the whole conversation, Xiao Yu's good impression of the boy rubbed down, and his vigilance and precaution also fell down little by little, and at the end of the conversation, Xiao Yu even took the initiative to thank the boy for helping him move, saying that he wanted to invite the boy to eat with his girlfriend when he was free.
The boy went down the slope very quickly, and directly scheduled the next night, and when Xiaoyu went to the appointment, only the boy was alone: "My girlfriend is shy, but she has a curfew haha, I have to go back before ten o'clock." ”
Although Xiaoyu was a little uncomfortable, the other party said so and still sat down.
No one expected that in the middle of the meal, the boy sat next to Xiaoyu, picked up vegetables for a while, touched his head for a while, and began to move his hands and feet. Xiaoyu bounced away from him in shock and asked in disbelief, "Don't you have a girlfriend?" ”
The boy replied, "Oh, we're in an open relationship, I thought you didn't care." ”
Xiao Yu was so frightened that he quickly packed up his things and left the restaurant, and along the way he was still reflecting on whether he had misunderstood the boy and whether his sense of boundary was not good enough.
But when she came to her senses from the panic, she realized that this was a premeditated situation.
The fact that there is a fixed partner is enough for women to unload their mental defenses, and men keep exaggerating his good man character, just for the last moment to tear off the mask.
In addition, the presence of a fixed partner also sets a wide range of safety zones for men's flirtatiousness.
After Xiaoyu left, the man urgently sent a private message, in short, don't get me wrong, I have a girlfriend, I'm just on the spot, and I have a good relationship with my girlfriend.
Xiaoyu only felt physiological nausea, and immediately blocked and deleted.
Later, she told her friend about it, but her friend's first reaction was, you know that he has a girlfriend, why do you have to eat alone with him? Why do you have to be alone with him in the same space?
The little fish felt the great absurdity at that moment.
On the one hand, the fixed object allows the man to have a gold medal for avoiding death from a strange girl, and on the other hand, when a man makes an outrageous statement, he can retreat to the safe zone, saying - you think too much.
Once the incident is **, there will be people who eat melons who don't know the truth to accuse the "little three": You know that he has a target, why did you provoke him?
So after a farce ended, the man Meimei returned to the family, and only two women were hurt.
Until now, Xiaoyu still has palpitations in his heart when he thinks about it. Fortunately, she is about to move out, fortunately, the restaurant is full of people, and fortunately, the man is too anxious.
The only thing she regrets is that she didn't add the boy's girlfriend's WeChat and tell her about the boy's behavior.
She said that she would never trust any man's good boyfriend in the future.
Waiting for idle changes but old people's hearts
During this time, Yanzi Sun's sentence "I asked why, that girl sent me a text message" became popular again on the short ** platform.
With this BGM, the girls told a lot of stories about "pretending to understand because they are afraid that the truth is too naked".
Some people say that her friend has appendicitis, and her husband's face was pale when he entered the operating room, and when his friend came out of the operating room, he threw himself over and cried.
Later, when my friend divorced, I learned that the man went to sleep with netizens the night before his surgery.
Some people say that my brother-in-law is very good, and when my sister gave birth, he kept saying that he was sorry for her, and he would never give birth again.
But such a person went out to support college students when her sister was pregnant.
Others said that they had heard the story of their senior and his girlfriend many times, heard that they had been in love for many years, heard that he would brave the rain to send materials to his girlfriend, and heard that he would save money to take his girlfriend to buy gold jewelry.
But it was also him, who went to ** in the first year of work and was arrested.
When it comes to messing around outside, they have a variety of reasons: their wives are too fierce, their families are too strict, and they don't have a common language. When discovered, their justifications are always weak: impulsive, lustful, and never again.
He will beg you, he will even kneel, he will slap himself, you don't have a soft heart, he will swear again and again, men like to swear the most, their oaths are no different from a dog barking, you don't believe it. In short, you have to make him understand the cost of being amorous outside, let him live in misery every day, and make him feel that he doesn't want to live anymore, and that life is better than death
And after reading too many such stories, it is no wonder that some people ask: So what is love?
It is probably difficult to keep a sense of freshness for a person for a long time, distance, emotion, materialism, worldliness. Anything has the potential to defeat love, and everyone will usher in a variety of ** on this road.
That's why Nalan wrote: "Waiting for idle changes but old people's hearts, but old people's hearts are changeable." ”
Nothing lasts forever"Love is a long way to go, and in the end it all depends on conscience. ”
All intimacy may end up in a mess, and the only thing we can do is to have the courage and ability to withdraw at any time.
Whether it is the circle of friends he posted, or the affection he shows, it can be a spice in love, but don't take it as the whole of a sense of security.
In short, in the new year, I wish you all no more bad people.
Even if you look away for a while, you can wave your hand lightly and escape from the mire.