February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Jiang Ying, a woman born in the war era, was unique in that era. Her beauty is stunning, she was born in a famous family, her husband is Qian Xuesen, the meritorious person of "Two Bombs and One Star", and her cousin is the great writer Jin Yong.
In 1947, in the late spring and early summer, she finally returned to her homeland after a long absence. Walking out of the cabin, her bright eyes with a wanton smile and elegant and noble temperament, like a beautiful picture, walked through, as if she opened up a flower-filled road.
Jiang Ying's solo recital at the Shanghai Lyceum Theatre caused a sensation. Everyone knows that Jiang Baili's third daughter, a woman who returned from studying in Germany, is about to develop her own ** career in China.
However, just six weeks later, news spread that she was going to marry Qian Xuesen, a tenured professor at MIT. Their union is like a **, full of extraordinary atmosphere.
But behind this, it is all Qian Xuesen"Straight men"A deep pursuit of love.
Jiang Ying was born in a wealthy family, her father Jiang Baili was a famous general in modern times, and he studied in the "Qiushi Academy". During his studies, Jiang Baili became acquainted with Qian Junfu, who was Qian Xuesen's father.
Jiang Baili has five daughters in the family, while Qian Junfu has only one son in the family, so Qian Xuesen's mother has always wanted a daughter. After many negotiations, Jiang Baili and his wife finally agreed to pass on their most agile daughter Jiang Ying to Qian Junfu and his wife.
At the banquet, Qian Junfu and his wife found that Jiang Ying had an amazing voice, and the singing of "Yan Shuangfei" was beautiful and harmonious, which was unforgettable. Therefore, they decided to change Jiang Ying's name to "Qian Xueying".
Mr. and Mrs. Jiang regretted not keeping their best daughter, Jiang Ying, with them, but a few months later, Jiang Ying insisted on returning to her husband's house. The Jiang family has many brothers and sisters, but the Qian family has only one brother, Qian Xuesen, who is eight years older than Jiang Ying.
The two children have a big age gap and have no common topics, and Qian Xuesen doesn't like Jiang Ying either. He has a lot of gadgets, such as melodica, basketball, etc., and he doesn't want Jiang Ying to play.
Jiang Ying's life in the Qian family made her very unaccustomed to it.
After Jiang Ying returned to the Jiang family when she was a child, she finally regained her happy childhood, but Qian Junfu and his wife still had a deep affection for her, hoping to recognize her as a goddaughter and marry her.
As the years passed, the elders of the two families still kept in touch, but the two parties may have long forgotten the past. Sixteen-year-old Jiang Ying is already slim, she has been full of love for ** since she was a child, and plans to go abroad for further study.
In this memory of growing up, she didn't have much contact with Qian Xuesen. This year, 24-year-old Qian Xuesen obtained the qualification to study in the United States at public expense with excellent results.
Before leaving, he came to Jiang's house to bid farewell to Jiang Baili, and Jiang Ying finally saw Qian Xuesen, who grew up, again. Even though Qian Xuesen always wears a suit and has a cold and impersonal temperament, he still exudes inhuman wisdom.
The fate of Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying may have been doomed when they were sixteen years old. Although Jiang Ying is in the prime of her youth, she is not as twisted as other ladies, but is down-to-earth and generous.
In front of Qian Xuesen, she played a piano song, and the elegance and confidence made him moved. However, their fates were separated at this moment, Qian Xuesen chose the United States, and Jiang Ying chose Germany.
If it weren't for that encounter back home, their lives might have been completely different. However, fate is always full of surprises. In the early summer of 1947, 36-year-old Qian Xuesen and 28-year-old Jiang Ying both chose to return to China.
Moreover, none of them are married. Jiang Ying was already an older leftover girl at that time, and she was suspected by her family that she couldn't get married, but she was not in a hurry, but worked as a matchmaker for Qian Xuesen.
Although their fates varied over time, their fate seemed predestined. In the face of difficulties and challenges, they always adhere to their beliefs and work hard for their love and career.
Their stories tell us that love and life require courage and determination to pursue and achieve.
Qian Xuesen's personal meeting aroused the concern of his father Qian Junfu. In order to get him married as soon as possible, Qian Junfu began to look around. Due to Qian Xuesen's superior conditions, many famous nobles favored him.
Jiang Ying, as Qian Xuesen's friend, organized a dinner, hoping to help Qian Xuesen find a suitable partner. However, the development of events took her by surprise. It turned out that Qian Xuesen's eyes did not fall on the two aristocratic girls, but on her.
His eyes are direct and honest, just like his character. During this period, there was a girl who had a good impression of Qian Xuesen, her family collected a lot of famous paintings, and in order to spend more time with him, she invited Qian Xuesen to visit her home.
However, Qian Xuesen politely declined her invitation, saying that he would not have time tomorrow morning.
Qian Xuesen insisted on sending Jiang Ying home after the university lecture, but after returning home, Jiang Ying didn't know how to entertain him, so he only gave him a record. Qian Xuesen was still reluctant to leave, as if he had something to say.
Jiang Ying hadn't seen Qian Xuesen for a few years, and was embarrassed by his abnormal behavior, so she could only chat awkwardly. Suddenly, Qian Xuesen opened his mouth and invited Jiang Ying to go to the United States together. Jiang Ying was surprised, because she knew that it meant a marriage proposal, but he was not a romantic person, because he dedicated his life to his career, so he was a little emotionally puzzled.
Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying's first acquaintance did not go well. Jiang Ying's father, Jiang Baili, tried to stop them, but Qian Xuesen did not flinch and told Jiang Ying that he also already had a girlfriend.
Jiang Ying was surprised by Qian Xuesen's stubbornness, and at the same time had reservations about his character. It is said that Qian Xuesen has a bad temper and likes to scold, and the students are afraid to take his classes, and even MIT has many legends of his swearing.
However, a few days later, Qian Xuesen looked for Jiang Ying again and asked her firmly: "When will you go to the United States with me?" ”
Qian Xuesen's charm made Jiang Ying irresistible. Even though China had just started a recital, she decided to follow him to the United States and start from scratch. Although the relationship at that time was short, Qian Xuesen's serious stubbornness made Jiang Ying feel cute.
In the United States, Qian Xuesen gave her a piano, and she gradually adapted to the rhythm of his life. After dinner, he always went straight to the study, and did not come out until twelve o'clock.
Although sometimes she would wish he could spend more time with her, he was always busy with work. However, Jiang Ying understood and supported his decision, and she silently contributed to her family, providing selfless companionship and understanding for his research.
It is her existence that makes Qian Xuesen's life full of the sweetness and warmth of love.
The story of Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying tells us that everyone has their own role to play. Whether it is a wife or a husband, someone needs to pay silently behind the scenes.
They all shine in their respective fields, but they are all equally great. In 1949, when the People's Republic of China was founded, Qian Xuesen's heart was full of desire to return to the motherland.
However, when he resigned from his position in the United States and even bought his plane ticket, he was thwarted by Vice Admiral Kimbell. It is said that US Navy Secretary Dan Kim Buer once commented on Qian Xuesen and said: "Qian Xuesen is equivalent to five divisions."
If Qian Xuesen chooses to stay in the United States, he will undoubtedly be treated heavily. But he chose to return to China, and only unknown difficulties awaited him. Despite the danger, Qian Xuesen persuaded Jiang Ying to return to China with her children first, but Jiang Ying chose to stay with him because she knew that she would face more challenges next.
Shortly after Jiang Ying and Qian Xuesen got married, Qian Xuesen was detained by the United States on trumped-up charges and imprisoned in Termina Island Prison for 15 days. During this time, Jiang Ying traveled to friends for help, and finally ransomed him for $15,000.
On the fourteenth day, Jiang Ying went to visit, and the two looked at each other and smiled. She found that Qian Xuesen had lost a lot of weight, and he also noticed Jiang Ying's haggard during this time. After that, they were placed under house arrest by the United States for up to five years.
At that time, information was not good, and their situation was not known in the country. Jiang Ying silently guarded Qian Xuesen, took on all the housework, and even gave up her career, because she was busy every day.
In order to avoid spies, Qian Xuesen's family moved five times in five years. Jiang Ying often received ** from strangers asking about Qian Xuesen's condition. She knew that those people were spies, and there were many spies hidden around their house, and no matter where they moved to, someone was spying on them.
But Jiang Ying never revealed these situations to Qian Xuesen, and she hoped that Qian Xuesen would devote more time to research. In 1955, due to the intervention of the United States, the United States could not resist the pressure and could only let Qian Xuesen return to China.
Jiang Ying boarded the third-class cabin with Qian Xuesen, but they didn't dare to stop on the way because they were afraid that an accident would happen, and they were relieved until they saw the red flag.
Over the years, Jiang Ying has understood Qian Xuesen's responsibility, so she has never complained about him, but has been silently influencing him.
Before meeting Jiang Ying, Qian Xuesen was a serious, mean, and even somewhat unkind person. However, after spending time with Jiang Ying, Qian Xuesen gradually became lively and cheerful and sociable.
But soon after returning to China, Qian Xuesen was assigned to do a secret job, and he and his team worked in the desert covered with yellow sand for several months. Jiang Ying didn't know anything about it, and even if Qian Xuesen came back, he would leave home as soon as possible.
She understands Qian Xuesen's responsibility, but she still has some doubts in her heart. Therefore, she went to ask the leaders of the Ministry of National Defense: "Qian Xuesen has gone to **, there has been no news for so long, does he still want this home?" ”
The leader explained with a pleasant face: "Dean Qian is on a business trip in the field, he is safe and sound, but he is too busy with work and cannot go home for the time being, please rest assured." ”
Jiang Ying and Qian Xuesen looked at each other and smiled, Qian Xuesen knew in his heart that his wife understood and supported his career. At the award ceremony in 1991, Qian Xuesen said affectionately: "Everyone knows my career, but what I want everyone to know is that my wife is mainly engaged in the teaching of classical art songs.
Her understanding and support have been an important reason why I was able to achieve this honor. One of his books begins with the words "Dedicated to Ying", and Jiang Ying smiles and says, "This is his reward for me." ”
Although Jiang Ying has a ** career that she loves, after marrying Qian Xuesen, she chose to give up her dream, because she believes that Qian Xuesen's career is more important.
Mr. Qian is a real scientist, and I am just a ** professor, and I dare not call it 'home'." However, Jiang Ying is not just Qian Xuesen's wife, she also has her own independent identity.
In order to take care of Qian Xuesen's life, Jiang Ying rarely performed on stage in person, but chose to take a leadership position in *** college and devote more time to education work.
Even at the age of seventy-two, she still maintains an elegant posture when teaching students, she sits in front of the piano with her waist straight, and every note is filled with the temperature of the years, which surprises the students who come to class.
No matter how the years passed, it could not take away her temperament and grace.
Ms. Jiang Ying treats every student with an equal attitude, regardless of their family background, and gives them the same educational opportunities and guidance according to their aptitude to help them develop better.
Her hard work and selfless dedication have earned her deep appreciation from her students. On September 5, 2009, in order to pay tribute to her teacher, her students held a special performance in the ** hall in Beijing.
They want to use their talents and achievements to make teachers proud of themselves. After the performance, Ms. Jiang Ying wore a royal blue Chinese dress and silently enjoyed the students' performance, full of emotion.
In the blink of an eye, her students also have their own students, which makes her deeply relieved and proud.
The love story of Jiang Ying and Qian Xuesen is touching. Although Qian Xuesen passed away, Jiang Ying insisted on living in the old apartment where they had spent decades together, and although people in that era were accustomed to a simple life, she did not need to add anything, and her monthly pension was enough.
Their stories tell us that true happiness lies not in material abundance, but in the companionship of each other and the simplicity of life.
Jiang Ying is an age who has already experienced life and death, and has witnessed the ups and downs of life, compared to which material things seem insignificant.
There are still many precious memories stored in those old houses, and in old age, people are left with memories of the past, and the familiar surroundings can bring deep comfort.