In my country, there is an old saying that "a female junior holds gold bricks", but when the age gap between husband and wife is too large, it often attracts some doubts and discussions. For example, in Zhengzhou, Henan Province, Su Jianjun and Li Qiaolin are such examples, they are known as a pair of "bitter mandarin ducks".
In 2010, 46-year-old Li Qiaolin was a female boss with a net worth of tens of millions, but she chose to enter the palace of marriage with her subordinate Su Jianjun, who was 19 years younger. Four years later, 50-year-old Li Qiaolin bravely gave birth to triplets for Su Jianjun, which was shocking.
So, how did these lovers, who have a huge age difference, meet and fall in love? What is their living situation today?
In 2005, Li Qiaolin founded a pharmaceutical company in Zhengzhou, Henan Province, which was the result of a joint effort between her and her husband. They used to work in a small hospital in Inner Mongolia, and seeing the rapid development of the country's economy, they decided to start a business.
After many difficulties and challenges, they eventually put down roots in Zhengzhou and successfully ran the pharmaceutical company. Now, their company has excellent performance, assets of more than 10 million, two children, and a happy life.
Unlike the usual male and female protagonists, Li Qiaolin is the real leader of the company, whether it is business negotiations or factory management, she is hands-on. As a result, she earned the title of "strong woman", and the whole company respected her very much.
At the end of 2005, the company hit a historic performance peak, for which Li Qiaolin decided to hold the company's first annual meeting. However, there was an awkward episode at the party.
Two drunken employees got into an argument in public, attacking each other, escalating and even scuffling with each other. At that time, no one expected such a situation, and everyone was afraid of getting hurt, so no one stepped forward to stop it.
At that moment, a bold young man stepped forward, and without hesitation, he pulled the two apart and persuaded them to stop arguing. His actions, while well-intentioned, angered one of the employees.
The employee picked up a bottle and threw it at the young man without hesitation, and the young man instantly fell to the ground with blood flowing down. That's right, this brave young man is Su Jianjun, who is only 22 years old and joined Li Qiaolin's company just after graduating from university.
Take good care of your injuries, and if you have any problems in the future, you can come directly to me." In fact, for a recent graduate, it is very fortunate to be able to receive such attention from the boss.
However, Su Jianjun had already fallen in love with Li Qiaolin at first sight, completely ignored the development of his career, and only wanted to confess to Li Qiaolin. However, Li Qiaolin's family is happy and his career is successful, how can he fall in love with such a young man?
In the next two years, although Su Jianjun often secretly sent Qiu Bo, Li Qiaolin rarely responded, and the two have maintained a normal relationship between the boss and the employee. It wasn't until 2007 that bad luck befell Li Qiaolin, and the relationship between the two finally took a turn for the better.
Li Qiaolin used to be the pride of the company and the center of the family. However, when she found out that her husband was messing around outside the company, she chose to divorce, which was her decision for herself and the company.
Although Li Qiaolin's light waned after the divorce, she decided to find herself in a new way. She worked hard to rebuild her self-confidence and prove to the world that she is an independent woman who does not depend on anyone.
Everyone can see that the breakdown of her marriage has had a deep impact on her, but for Su Jianjun, this is a once-in-a-century opportunity. He takes care of Li Qiaolin meticulously, and every bit of his life is full of care for her.
Li Qiaolin naturally understands Su Jianjun's intentions, but she has just experienced a failed marriage, and the age difference between the two is huge, so she did not accept Su Jianjun's confession, but hoped that the two could continue to treat each other as friends.
What's more, Su Jianjun's pursuit of Li Qiaolin spread quickly within the company.
Everyone talked about it, speculating about Su Jianjun's motives, thinking that he was "a leper who wants to eat swan meat", accusing him of trying to occupy the boss's property, and his so-called "admiration" is just a hypocritical disguise.
In the face of these trumped-up accusations, Su Jianjun handled them calmly and insisted on caring for Li Qiaolin. In the blink of an eye, another year has passed. In 2008, the impact of the global economic crisis made it difficult for Li Qiaolin's pharmaceutical company.
In order to maintain the company's survival, Li Qiaolin sold the house and exhausted her savings, but under the general trend, her efforts were to no avail, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy, and employees left one after another.
However, Su Jianjun remained firmly by her side. He encouraged Li Qiaolin and told her: "The current world economic situation is not good, it is not your personal problem, as long as you cheer up, you will definitely be able to stand up again." ”
If Su Jianjun's previous concern for Li Qiaolin was only to obtain wealth, then he still did not abandon Li Qiaolin when he was in trouble, which fully proved his sincerity.
In Li Qiaolin's more than 40 years of life, he has experienced countless ups and downs, but he has never seen such an infatuated person as Su Jianjun. With his encouragement and support, Li Qiaolin chose to persevere, and the company's operation was back on track.
Sure enough, with the help of national policies, the domestic economy gradually recovered, and her pharmaceutical company also ushered in new vitality. At the same time, Li Qiaolin accepted Su Jianjun's pursuit, and the two began to fall in love with a frank attitude.
In the process of rebuilding the company, Su Jianjun made great efforts. After unremitting efforts, the company finally stabilized in 2010 and returned to pre-crisis levels in revenue.
At this time, Su Jianjun also reached the age of talking about marriage, he mustered up the courage to hold a simple and solemn marriage proposal ceremony for Li Qiaolin, seeing Su Jianjun kneeling on the ground, Li Qiaolin was already moved and accepted the proposal in public. "
Although people sometimes seem brave and fearless in the face of love, they will encounter various difficulties and challenges on the road to the palace of marriage. One of the most important obstacles is the opposition of the man's parents.
When Su Jianjun's father learned that his son was going to marry Li Qiaolin, who was 19 years older than him, he first objected. In addition, he also insisted that Su Jianjun could no longer have any contact with Li Qiaolin, because he had already established himself in Li Qiaolin's company and had a bright future.
However, Su Jianjun's parents would rather let him give up his current job than let him be with Li Qiaolin. Although Su Jianjun tried to convince them several times, they remained unmoved.
In the end, Su Jianjun decided to take extreme measures, saying that if his parents did not agree with him being with Li Qiaolin, he would never marry. After nearly two months of tug-of-war, Su Jianjun's parents were finally forced to agree to the marriage.
Although the man's problems were solved, the woman's problems followed. Although Li Qiaolin's parents agreed to her marriage to Su Jianjun, they were worried that she would be deceived again, so they insisted that the two parties sign a prenuptial property agreement.
This bothered Li Qiaolin, who didn't want to sign such an agreement before she got married. However, Su Jianjun didn't care, he said: "I love her as a person, not her money", and signed the agreement without hesitation.
In the end, they successfully overcame all difficulties and entered the palace of marriage in October 2010.
After marriage, the two supported each other and lived a plain and happy life, and the company also had a smooth journey, with more and more generous benefits. However, there is one thing that has always troubled Li Qiaolin and made it difficult for her to let go.
Su Jianjun has always wanted to have a child, but Li Qiaolin is older and has not conceived for many years of marriage. Regarding this matter, Su Jianjun always said that it would be natural, but Li Qiaolin knew that if he really had no children, Su Jianjun would leave regrets in his life.
Moreover, she is close to fifty years old, and if she doesn't hurry up, she may really not be able to have children. Therefore, in 2013, Li Qiaolin took the initiative to propose that both parties could try to conceive scientifically.
Title: Scientific conception, she created a miracle of life! Text: Scientific conception is what we often call IVF technology. This seemingly simple process is actually a great challenge for both parents, especially mothers, who need to put in a lot of time and energy.
However, Li Qiaolin persevered, and with the support of Su Jianjun, she resolutely chose the path of scientific conception. After a detailed physical examination, the doctor informed Li Qiaolin that because of her age, the success rate of artificial insemination was only about 40%, and suggested that she give up.
However, Li Qiaolin, as a vigorous and resolute female entrepreneur, never gives up easily. She chose to persevere, and it took a long time to try. In early 2014, doctors placed three embryos in Li's uterus to ensure that at least one embryo survived.
However, unexpectedly, these three embryos survived at the same time! It's a miracle of life! At the end of that year, Li Qiaolin successfully gave birth to triplets, and Su Jianjun also realized his wish to have children.
* The news of a 50-year-old woman giving birth to triplets spread quickly on the Internet, and Su Jianjun and Li Qiaolin had to deal with a surge of doubts. Some people say that it is too risky to get his elderly wife pregnant, and Su Jianjun is too selfish.
Some people even turned up their acquaintance experience, accusing Su Jianjun of having no true love for Li Qiaolin, just for her company. Of course, there are also people who send their best wishes to this ill-fated couple, hoping that their three children will grow up healthy and happy.
Among them, the most controversial topic is undoubtedly the marriage experience of Su and Li. Many people believe that Su Jianjun's show of love is only for money, not sincerity. However, looking back at the bits and pieces of their acquaintance, these accusations seem untenable.
Before deciding to enter the marriage hall with Li Qiaolin, Su Jianjun did not hesitate to sign a prenuptial property agreement. Although Article 1063 of the Civil Code clearly stipulates that "the premarital property of one party shall be listed as the personal property of the husband and wife, and shall be owned by one party in the event of divorce", Su Jianjun and Li Qiaolin got married in 2010, when the Civil Code had not yet been promulgated, and premarital property was not directly protected by law.
According to article 19 of the Marriage Law at that time, "husband and wife may agree that property acquired during the marriage and property before marriage shall be owned separately, jointly or partly separately".
If Su Jianjun is unwilling to sign the agreement, then once divorced, Li Qiaolin's company is likely to share half of him. However, Su Jianjun chose to decisively sign the agreement and give up the huge company, which proves that he is not greedy for money, but really wants to spend his life with Li Qiaolin.
Although he could have been a little tougher and not sign the prenuptial property agreement, he still decided to sign it, showing his determination and courage. His actions show us that prenuptial property agreements are not only for the protection of personal property, but also for the stability and harmony of the marriage.
Su Jianjun's decision fully proves his cherishing and commitment to marriage.
Everyone's doubts about Li Qiaolin's fertility problems focus on her advanced age. However, this decision was not initiated by Su Jianjun, but by Li Qiaolin himself. Although Su Jianjun once objected, at Li Qiaolin's insistence, he finally agreed.
It can be seen that having a child is not only Su Jianjun's wish, but also Li Qiaolin's dream. They have a good net worth and can get the best medical coverage. Under the care of medical experts, the risk of having a baby is relatively low.
Moreover, Li Qiaolin has had childbirth experience and should have an in-depth understanding of his physical condition. In any case, it was her own decision, and we should give blessings.
12 years have passed in a hurry, and Su Jianjun and his wife Li Qiaolin, who is 19 years older than him, live a happy and happy life. They have three lovely children, all of whom are now enrolled in school.
is different from people's expectations, Su Jianjun is obedient and obedient to Li Qiaolin, and the relationship between the two has become deeper after the test of time. Su Jianjun often shares moments of happy play with the whole family on social platforms, and he remains calm in the face of gossip.
Now he must be grateful to that brave and persistent self.