Love is a magical emotion that sometimes brings us great joy; Sometimes it pushes our emotions into the abyss of pain.
In the relationship between men and women, there will always be some things that make us confused, and we can't guess whether the man really loves me? Don't understand why he is indifferent to himself? Wonder if your feelings for each other have come to an end?
Many times, we feel disappointed and bitter because of the other person's performance, and even doubt the other person's feelings for us.
In fact, the feelings of loving a person deeply are complicated, and a man treats you like this, not because he doesn't love you, but because he loves you deeply.
1. Be courteous to you for nothing.
Reader Xiao Min shares her emotional experience: Xiao Min said that she and her husband Wang Tao met at an industry exchange meeting, which was a flash marriage, and they got married after two months of love.
Xiao Min said that when her colleagues began to match them, she couldn't look at him, thinking that he was wooden and incomprehensible.
Until one day, Xiaomin's mother was cleaning at home, accidentally fell, spine comminuted fracture, and urgently needed surgery to be hospitalized, but because of the shortage of hospital beds, it needed to be scheduled.
After the operation, Wang Tao was busy taking care of Xiaomin's mother, which not only moved Xiaomin's mother, but also made Xiaomin completely change his opinion of him, and decided that he would not marry in this life.
The person who loves you, love does not stay in words, but actually takes action to solve problems for you.
Maybe in the eyes of others, he is nosy, but he treats your business as his own, and just wants to do his best to share your pressure, and is not willing to let you suffer a little.
If a man wants to be a hero to protect you, is attentive to your events, and is often courteous to you, then there is no doubt that he loves you to the extreme.
2. Think you first in everything.
Gu Xu in "Good Things Come in Pairs", he is the CEO of Panshi Company, and he is as busy as a spinning top, but for Lin Shuang, he can always find time to settle her difficulties.
Lin Shuang started a business for the first time and didn't know how to make a business plan, so Gu Xu revised it for her overnight to improve the business model; Lin Shuang couldn't get investment, so Gu Xu persuaded the company's shareholders to provide Lin Shuang with a guarantee to lead the investment; Lin Shuang Company needs a product director, and Gu Xu will screen the industry for her, so that she can successfully dig the industry talent.
Gu Xu puts Lin Shuang first in everything, and his love for Lin Shuang is obvious.
People are selfish, and only the most important person in life will take the other person's affairs on their shoulders and take it as their own responsibility regardless of the consequences.
The person who truly loves you will put you in the most important position, even if you are a burden, he will think it is a sweet burden.
If a man puts you first in everything and puts you first in everything, then he must care about you very much and really loves you.
3. I can't help but nag you.
My sister often complains that her brother-in-law is verbose like an old father, and his ears are nagged to the point of cocooning.
My sister said that every time I go out, my brother-in-law always takes the trouble to remind me whether I have prepared multiple clothes, whether I have brought warm water, whether I have brought a power bank, and whether I want to change .......my sneakersWhenever she eats something raw or cold, she will be repeatedly reminded that she has an upset stomach and should eat less;
Wash your hair at night and repeatedly check whether your hair is dry, otherwise you will have a headache;
When she doesn't sleep after 11 o'clock, she will be reminded not to stay up late, staying up late hurts her body.
When my sister quit a lot of things she likes to eat for the sake of **, he will feel distressed and say, you are not fat at all, you can eat with confidence; In order to look good, he also wears a skirt on a snowy day, so he will patiently persuade him to wear more clothes and not catch a cold.
In fact, my sister understands in her heart that her brother-in-law will only nag if she cares about her, and will explain everything in detail.
Only if you care about a person, will you have endless things to tell you from morning to night, worrying about you this, worrying about you that.
When a man likes to ask about you, cares about your health, and cares about your life, then you must be very important in his heart, and only those who love you will care about you.
A man's nagging to you is actually out of deep love for you, because of love, he will be concerned, and because of love, he will not be at ease.
If the man around you often treats you with nothing to do, takes your business as his responsibility, and nagged you all day long, then you must cherish him, so that your man does not love you, but loves you too deeply.