1. Before you succeed, you must abstain.
What is abstinence? Just don't make friends with people who like to eat, drink and be merry until you make money. Mixing with them will only consume your time, energy and money, and make you lose your fighting spirit and ability to endure hardships.
The pleasures of youth will be repaid at the cost of the hardships of old age. Only the weak need friends, and those who are strong do not need friends at all.
They only deal with three kinds of people, either the person who can pay him to become his client, or the person who can help him make money and become a talent under him, and the other is the person who makes you see the truth like the big guy.
The first type of person is the person who can provide you with value. That is, the person who can spend money on you, they need you to help them solve any problems, and they need you to give him your professional ability and wisdom, so that he can use the money to buy you to help him solve the problem. In this world, there is no eternal customer, only eternal service. If you want to live well in the future, you must live bad now. If you are having a bad time now, you will be more motivated to learn and grow, and only in this way will you be able to win when you compete with others in the future. Because, the hardships and losses you endure now are all paving the way for your future success.
The second type of person is someone who can help you make money. That is, the person who can become your subordinate, he needs you to export your ability to him, so that he can use the talent to help you make money. This kind of person is your real boss in the future, and only they can make your life better and better in the future. Because they can tolerate you and take you in, only they can look at you.
The third type of person, like the big guy, is the one who can make you see the truth. That is, the kind of people who are old and have rich social experience, they are usually inconspicuous, but once you have a conflict with him, he will definitely be able to give you a knife. They don't usually speak, but they must have their own reasons. Therefore, when you get along with anyone in the future, you must be more mindful. Keep reminding yourself what I'm living for. What exactly do you want?
2. You must learn to make a fortune in silence.
Those who are too arrogant will one day destroy themselves. Be sure to hold your breath and don't show off to the people around you at every turn, your wealth and your achievements. It seems that some people are chasing you, but in fact, they all have jealousy and resentment in their hearts.
People who are really smart and capable have long since turned themselves into silent mode. People who usually look stupid are stupid and stupid, and they are not good at saying nice things, and the purpose of this is to paralyze their opponents and hide their own ambitions and goals.
The so-called great wisdom and foolishness are such people. Such a person does not show his own strength, nor does he pretend to be smart, not to deliberately pretend to be stupid, nor to pretend to be deep. It's about confusing small things and ruthless big things.
3. Don't think that some elders or old people say that you think it's right, some people are poor for a reason, and some people are poor until they are old for a reason, not all old people are worthy of sympathy, let alone all old people are worthy of trust, let alone let their so-called kindness imprison your thoughts.
Scum does not discriminate between men and women, and waste does not discriminate against age.
The times are different, the environment is different, and the food that has passed the expiration date will not bring you any nutrients. It is possible that you will be poisoned to death, and the greatest sorrow of human beings is that it is simply stupid to often use age to measure a person's IQ.
4. People are poor and enter the public, and they don't persuade people lightly.
People are soft-spoken, and when they are poor, they should calm down, talk less, do more, and talk less when they are poor, because no matter how reasonable it is, it is a fart, you know so much, why are you still so poor. Cultivating yourself well is the right thing to do.
Vulnerable people will lobby for their misfortunes, strong people will only be strong quietly, and it is never the truth that can shut people up, but strength and identity.
If you are poor, don't ask relatives and friends to borrow money, all the money is earned by yourself, you have the ability to earn more, you don't have the ability to earn less, don't complain.
5. Don't be a good talker.
You think you're talking to someone nicely, but in the eyes of others, they only think you're talking.
If you agree to a request from others, in the end, you will only reduce yourself to a porter of other people's interests, and you will also raise others to become more and more greedy.
Don't believe in anything brotherly and sisterly. There is a rule in the adult world, the villain before the gentleman in front of interests, and don't hesitate when it's time to talk about money. No one will like you because you are a good person, only because you bring him benefits.
Friendship, love, career, all the same. Have you ever seen that woman with a high salary and a good career being snubbed by her husband because she has a hard waist. Have you seen that man with a successful career, his wife dares to make trouble at home, because he has achievements.
The breakdown of all relationships is essentially the same, that is, because of the breakdown of interests. Don't expect people around you to change because of you, they will only change automatically because of your pocket.
6. Don't be a person who is too ashamed.
The strong are all doing their own thing, and there is no shame. No matter what others think of him or what they say about him, he can feel at ease. As for the poor, there are many rules, and they care too much about other people's opinions, and when others say two words about him, they can't eat or sleep well, and think about how fragile they are.
Oversensitivity is a sign of weakness.
7. Be kind and measured, tolerant, don't contact people who don't know how to be grateful, and show your edge to people who are inches.
Kindness is precious, but kindness does not grow teeth, that is, weakness.
The gentleman hides his weapons and waits for the time to move.
Your kindness must have a bit of a bottom line;
Your kindness must be a little sharp;
Your kindness must have some means;
Your kindness is more principled;
Your kindness has to be a little selective!
8. You must endure the little things, because the return is too small and the action is not cost-effective;
Big things must be ruthless, because the rewards are big enough, and the action is vigorous!
The problem of most people is that they are very entangled in small things, and they don't care about big things, and it is a very common phenomenon that many people hesitate to make decisions on small money, but they are casually fooled by others in big things, and their lifetime savings will be wasted.
People who are confused in small things can be serious in big things;
People who are serious about small things are easily confused when it comes to big things.
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