In the complex entertainment industry, which is full of **, it is not easy to consistently maintain the original intention.
But there are always some people who come out of the mud without staining, clear ripples without demons, have been in the midst of thousands of flowers, do not stick to the leaves, and live with a pure heart and few desires.
The well-known actor Chen Daoming is one of them, who not only has a brilliant acting career, but also deserves praise for his life.
When asked what is the most important thing in life besides acting, his answer is very memorable:
"I want to eat when I'm hungry, I want to sleep when I'm sleepy, and I want to lie down when I'm tired. Your own needs are the most important thing. ”
Indeed, the most important thing in life is always to arrange your own life well, and don't always rely on and rely on others.
When it comes to the critical moment, you will find that the closest person around you is not a son or a wife, only yourself.
The health of life can only rely on oneself
Montaigne once said:"Health is the fairest and most precious gift that nature can give us. ”
When it comes to health, many people may have heard it too much, and they have long been accustomed to it, and think it is a commonplace topic.
It is precisely because of this mentality that many people often disagree with the importance of health, although they are well aware of the importance of health.
Especially when you are young, your body's resistance and resilience are very good, and health problems are easy to ignore.
But as they grow older, they are no longer as brave as they used to be, and after encountering the same problems, many people still go their own way.
Driven by such a careless attitude, not only will the youth slip away from you, but your healthy body will also slowly fade away.
When your body can't bear the weight, many diseases will be like a raging flood beast, frantically entangled around you.
When lying in a hospital bed, children or partners need to spend time and energy caring for themselves, and they also have to endure the pain of the illness.
This kind of physical destruction and inner torment, no one can bear it for themselves, and no one can help share and relieve pressure.
After all, if you lose your health, you will only be responsible for the consequences, and neither of them has anything to do with others.
The body is the capital of the revolution, and only by taking care of the body can we achieve happiness in old age, which is the most important responsibility and obligation that we should fulfill.
So, always maintain good lifestyle habits, exercise properly, and eat a balanced diet to lay a solid foundation for happiness in your later years.
The joy of life can only be relied on by oneself
Alexandre Dumas once said:"The whole wisdom of mankind lies in waiting and hope. ”
If a person wants to live a good life and live a good life, the most important point is to find the joy of life.
With hope and hope, you will have a clear goal in life, and you will not feel idle, let alone at a loss.
In the first half of their lives, most people's lives are always full, busy with work and life, and rarely can stop to rest.
In the second half of their lives, when they reach the age of retirement, many people are not used to a slow-paced life, but they always can't find something to do.
As a result, in the long-term leisure, I began to be confused and self-doubted, unable to feel the vitality of my life, and unable to find a direction.
Gradually, I felt that life had lost its joy, that I could no longer keep up with the times, and began to deny myself constantly in suspicion.
This kind of internal consumption will make people's hearts quickly become old, and they will reject contact with reality in anxiety and anxiety, and also make their hearts become closed.
Like Brooks in the movie "The Shawshank Redemption", he has been in prison for decades and has been deeply solidified.
Leaving the familiar environment of prison, he could not find the joy of prison, became depressed, and finally committed suicide.
People should live to adapt to the changes of the times, the most important thing to change is their own mentality, the more positive the heart, the more you can find the joy of life.
Although life is hard, there are also their own pleasures, and when you are at peace with your heart, the scenery you see must be beautiful.
The wealth of life can only rely on oneself
Fuller once said:"Wealth is hard to gain, the code is worried day and night, and the loss is broken. ”
In life, the most irresistible and undesirable thing is wealth, and if anyone lacks it, life will be bitter.
However, the accumulation of wealth is often not entirely controlled by oneself, some people are born rich, and some people are born poor.
It is precisely because of this disparity that many people try to find a shortcut to wealth in order to fill this gap.
or use illegal and criminal means to set ill-gotten gains, or rely on the power of others to take advantage of advantages and benefits, so that wealth can be gathered around themselves for a short time.
As everyone knows, such an approach will not only put oneself in a dangerous situation, but also cause one's mentality to distort and go astray.
Li Haicang, once the richest man in Shanxi, founded Haixin Iron and Steel Group at a cost of 400,000 yuan, creating a business empire of 3 billion yuan.
In 2003, he was assassinated, and his son Li Zhaohui inherited his family fortune and position and began to run the entire company.
However, Li Zhaohui's business ability is not good, but his ability to lose money is top-notch, luxury cars and mansions are not a problem, and he also spent 300 million yuan to buy a private jet.
However, this situation did not last long, and within a few years the company he ran began to lose money and incur huge debts.
From the ups and downs of life to the bottom, it's just a blink of an eye, and the wealth that you don't deserve will eventually be lost.
If you want to retain wealth, there is never any skill to speak of, and only your own ability to match it can you prosper for a long time.
There is a saying in the movie "Farewell My Concubine" that is very true:"Man, you have to be perfect yourself. ”
If you don't have the ability, it's useless to accumulate more contacts; If you don't take care of things yourself, no matter how good the road paved by others is, it will be in vain.
In old age, people have experienced the vicissitudes of life and crossed the river of years.
finally understood that it is not necessarily the wife and children who are truly reliable, only oneself is the real reliance of oneself.
Learn to be relieved, learn to get used to and accept, and learn to reconcile with yourself, so that you can live more calmly and transparently.
When the heavens do not cross people, people have to cross themselves; When the heavens do not fulfill people's wishes, people have to rely on themselves.
In the coming days, please live seriously and walk well, so as to live up to this journey of life.
I hope that every day of the rest of my life, when we look back on the past, you and I can say: the years do not spare people, and I have not spared the years.