"I'm a person who rarely takes the initiative to contact people, and if I take the initiative to reach out to you, it's because you are important to me. ”
This sentence in "Constellation Story" speaks to the essence of love-
Truly loving someone can make people can't help it.
The more he loves you, the more he can't help but want to contact you and see you.
So, if you want to know if a man is sincere to you, look at these two words: initiative.
Because behind the initiative, there is affection.
On WeChat, take the initiative to contact you
If you can control your feelings, what is the use of your heart?
When a person falls in love, his tone will be soft, his eyes will be affectionate, and his behavior will be active.
If he really loves you, he will definitely do everything possible to show himself, attract your attention, and keep in touch with you on WeChat even if he can't meet him.
Whether it's casual chit-chat or asking about the latest situation, he always tries to find the right topic to ease the pain of lovesickness.
So someone said:
"If you really love someone, you will only be afraid of missing out. ”
Yes, the person who has you in his heart, as long as he can do it, will definitely do his best, never think about returning, and will not account for any gains and losses.
He only wants to hear from you all the time, and where you are, is where his heart belongs.
Such a man is the one who really loves you.
After a quarrel, take the initiative to coax you
When two people are together, it is inevitable that there will be disagreements and quarrels.
But the person who really loves you must be the one who will take the initiative to apologize to you and make peace after the quarrel.
Because he understands-
Rather than blaming you for your mistakes, it's more important to calm your emotions and take care of your feelings.
In this way, you will not feel aggrieved and sad.
Actor Wu Jing said:
"Quarrels are usually the first time I give in, I don't think that if I am soft, I am not a man. Men, that's how they should be, women are to be cared for. ”
To love someone, it is not that there is no quarrel, but that after the quarrel, love is still there.
Being able to take the initiative to contact you and give in to you when you quarrel is the most direct manifestation.
I hope you can also meet such a person who treats you sincerely, likes it sincerely, and willingly submits to it.
When you are sad, take the initiative to accompany you
I like a quote very much:
"A lot of people love you because you're a bit good-looking and sensible.
And some people love you because you cry, understand your embarrassment, and want to give you candy, shoulders, and love. ”
The latter is more understanding and tolerant of you than the former.
This kind of love is heart-wrenching, so every time you are lost and sad, he will appear by your side for the first time, and then use his way to help you dispel the gloomy emotions.
Therefore, there are no supermen in this world, some are just willing to carry all the lovers for you.
If he really loves you, he will definitely understand your feelings and share your pressure. You don't need to pretend to be strong, and you don't need to pretend to be okay.
When you meet such a person, please give him understanding and love.
After all, good love is always mutual, you make my heart ripple, I make you feel at ease, we can spend our lives together.
There is a line in the movie "He Actually Doesn't Love You That Much" that says:
"In this world, passive men do not exist at all, and no matter how wooden a man is, he will take the initiative in the face of the woman he likes. ”
Everything is active because you are important.
If he loves you, he wants to contact you all the time, because he can't help but miss you;
If he loves you and is reluctant to fight you for too long, because he is afraid of losing you;
If he loves you, he will always be able to support your life, because he loves every side of you.
This kind of love is sincere and warm, which makes people feel more heartwarming and reassuring.
For the rest of your life, I hope you can also meet such a person who truly loves you, protects and cherishes each other.
Finally, I light up [Watching], I hope that you and him, no matter how the years pass, will always love each other, heart to heart, until the end of life.