Tian Wen (year of birth and death unknown), that is, Meng Weijun. The concubine's surname is Tian, her name is Wen, also known as Wenzi, Xue Wen, and Xue Gong. During the Warring States Period, he was a native of Linzi (now Linzi District, Zibo City, Shandong Province). His father was the infant son of Jingguo Juntian, and his grandfather was King Qi Wei.
Meng Weijun had a doorman who had an affair with his wife. Someone reported this incident to Meng Weijun and said: "As your guest, it is too unkind to have an affair with your wife at home, so you should kill him." "Meng Weijun said: "When you see beautiful people, you are happy and like each other, this is human nature, let's put this matter aside for the time being, and don't talk about it in the future." A year later, Meng Weijun summoned the person who had an affair with his wife and said to him: "You have been dating me for a long time, but the big official has not gotten it, and you don't want to be a small official." The Patriotic Monarch has an old friendship with me, and I will prepare a carriage and horse, a deerskin, and a bundle for you, and I hope you will give these things to the Patriotic Monarch as a greeting gift, and see if you can get the position you expect. Sure enough, this person is very valued when he goes to defend the country. The diplomatic relations between Qi and Wei deteriorated, and the monarch of Wei Guo wanted to gather the armies of the princes of the world to attack Qi; This man said to the monarch of the country, "Meng Weijun does not know that his subordinates are not talented, and he uses his subordinates to deceive the king." Moreover, when His Majesty heard that the ancestors of Qi and Wei Guo killed horses and slaughtered sheep, they swore a blood alliance and said: 'The descendants of Qi and Wei Guo cannot attack each other, and if there are people who attack each other, his fate will be worse than that of cattle and horses.' Now the king has summoned the armies of the princes of the world to attack the kingdom of Qi, which is your violation of the covenant of the previous monarch and deceived Meng Weijun. I hope that the king will dispel the idea of attacking the Qi Kingdom. If the king listens to his courtiers, it is all right; If you don't listen to your subordinates, a person as untalented as your subordinates will splash the blood on your clothes with the blood on your neck. Hearing that this person was going to wipe his neck, the monarch of the country was also afraid that his neck was not hard enough, so he dispelled the idea of attacking the country of Qi. After hearing the news, the people of Qi all said: "Meng Weijun has a big belly, is good at handling things, and can turn disasters into good things."
This reminds me of the practice of the husband of a female teacher who cheated on a 16-year-old student that has been circulating on the Internet recently. Cheating itself is a private matter, and putting it on the Internet not only hurts yourself (the whole country knows that you are a cuckold), but also makes your wife fall into the torture of parading the streets in ancient times, which is very irrational. As a sane person, you should quickly calm down from the situation of being carried away by the cuckold, and take up the law to protect yourself, instead of hurting each other. Also, if you don't have to read more books, maybe there will be better answers in the books.