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How terrible is it to marry a wife who "helps my brother"? It's a bottomless pit, ruined for a lifetime.
I had heard this say it at the time, but I didn't care about it at the time. It wasn't until I met her that I deeply understood the meaning.
Her name is Xiaoyu and I met at a friend's party. The first time I saw her, I was attracted by her charming smile and gentle temperament. We fell in love soon and came together.
In the beginning, everything was beautiful. I thought I had found the happiness of my life, that I was going to live a happy and fulfilled life. However, I was wrong.
After I got married, I discovered her true face hidden beneath the surface. She is not the gentle and kind girl, but a completely different person.
She has a younger brother named Xiao Lei, who is a typical "brother demon". She dotes on him in every way, whether it is in life or financially, she does not hesitate to pay for him. I, on the other hand, have become an ATM in her eyes, a tool for her to support her brother.
I tried to persuade her to stop this unhealthy behavior, but she turned a blind eye and ignored me. She even used our marriage as a bargaining chip, sacrificing our affection and happiness in order to satisfy her needs for her brother.
I began to feel hopeless and helpless. I didn't know how to deal with this, I didn't know where to go.
However, everything changed one day. I found text messages between her and a man, and the conversation between them was full of ambiguity and emotional entanglement.
I felt angry and miserable, I felt betrayed, and I felt like everything about myself had become a laughing stock for her. I decided to have a showdown with her, telling her I knew everything and telling her that I didn't want to be hurt by her again.
However, she told me that it was just a misunderstanding, that she was not unfaithful to me, that she was just trying to help her brother. She even assured me that she would change her behavior and start our lives anew.
I don't know if I should trust her, and I don't know if I'll be able to trust her again. I felt like I was stuck in an abyss from which I could not extricate myself.
Perhaps, marriage needs to be built on mutual respect and trust, and she has already undermined that trust. Perhaps, true love is not built on the beauty and romance on the surface, but on the sincerity and loyalty of the heart.