Two days ago, I chatted with my best friend and found that the child had not yet had winter vacation, and she was already worried.
Children have no concept of time, when it comes to the point of writing homework, it is not to drink water and pick their fingers or to go to the toilet, they always have to grind and chirp to do some other things before they can write homework, and the homework that can be written in 1 hour has to be delayed to 3 hours to be written. ”
Writing homework is always very slow, touching this and playing that, and always inattentive. I was only in the first grade of elementary school, and I had to delay my homework until 11 o'clock every day. She wasn't happy to say anything more about her. ”.
She really complained bitterly, and the expression on her face became more and more painful: "I really don't know when I will have a cerebral hemorrhage one day." ”
I hope parents will be clear: watching your child do his homework is not something you can do by sitting next to your child, spending more time staring at his homework, helping him with the answers, and spending a lot of spit to talk about it several times, which can ensure efficiency. Tutoring homework is afraid that adults are anxious to get angry, it is likely to form a vicious circle, a roar baby, a baby is afraid, a fear, a blank brain, a blank will do wrong, a mistake, parents will roar again. In this cycle, tutoring homework changes from improving grades to mutual torture and hurting the parent-child relationship.
It wasn't until I asked my teacher that I graduated from Peking University and served as a homeroom teacher in the capital key primary school for 25 years, and I really mastered the method of accompanying my child to write homework. I have been using this method for 2 years, until now he is in the third grade, and he does not resist writing homework, and even his learning attitude is like hanging up, and the efficiency of writing homework has increased by at least 30%, which is incredible when I think about it now.
Today, I will share this ** homework method with you, and parents who are about to accompany their children to write winter vacation homework should hurry up.
Let's start with three core points:
1. Plan a timetable
The following is an efficient study schedule I prepared for my children during the winter vacation, for your reference, which contains the daily homework assignment, so that children can develop the habit of writing homework that is difficult and easy to cross.
2. Make a list of operations
The speed of writing homework tests the comprehensive ability of children's classroom knowledge, time arrangement, writing, etc., and these abilities are more important in the higher grades. Therefore, when accompanying the first and second grade children to write homework, first take him to review the knowledge points, prepare for the work, list the homework of each subject separately, complete a checkbox, and write out the preview homework separately.
You can use this daily planner for elementary school students to create a study plan for what to do first and what to do next. Don't get into the bad habit of either drinking water, eating fruit, or going to the toilet when it comes to doing homework.
Oral arithmetic and test papers, if you use your brain more, write first (the brain is the most active at this time);
Practicing calligraphy and copying are relatively simple and placed in the middle as a transition;
Put your energy on the cutting edge, and put the puzzles at the end.
3. Use efficient methods
Step 1: Streamline the learning desktop.
Only paper, pen, eraser, ruler and other necessary stationery are left on the desktop, which subject homework to write, which subject to put homework, do not write or put it, and then change to another subject after writing. This can avoid distractions when children are doing homework, which is to improve the learning status from the outside and strengthen the child's concentration.
Step 2: Review before writing to get twice the result with half the effort.
Review what you have learned that day before writing your homework, and you will waste time in order to improve your efficiency. If you can't write more than 3 of the 5 questions, eighty percent of the knowledge points you learned today are not firmly grasped. Writing at this time is like running without shoelaces, and you fall while running. Sharpen the knife and do not mistake the woodcutter, review what you have learned that day, and then continue to write homework, not only to consolidate your knowledge, but also to solve difficult problems faster, Step 3: Use the timer to simulate the exam time.
Set the time with a timer, treat homework as an exam, don't turn the book and don't look at the answers, don't ask immediately if you can't meet it, first easy and then difficult in one go, and then make up for it after you finish it, so that it is also convenient for children to adapt to the rhythm of the school exam, and there will be no situation where the exam cannot be written.
Step 4: Have your child self-examine.
Smaller children give small ranges. For example, if one of these three questions is wrong, guide the child to slowly learn to self-examine and give the child the process of independent thinking. In the same way, older children are given larger ranges.
Step 5: Reflect and summarize and sort out your mistakes.
The mistakes that are usually checked out are collected and sorted out in the error book, so that they can be regularly corrected and reviewed in the future. This is Xueba's "exclusive" score cheats, take it out before the exam to review twice the result with half the effort, the usual record of the wrong questions is the most precious, the child writes it right, and it doesn't need to be brushed anymore.
We must always keep in mind that no matter how many questions we brush, the goal is to find the wrong questions, which means that the child has not mastered them, and if we want to eliminate all the wrong points, we can get infinitely close to the full score. You can eliminate every mistake by following these steps:
1 The cause of the error in this question (formula, concept, cause.
2. Knowledge points investigated;
3 Write down the standard answer to the question. 
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Top 5 things to do during winter vacation::
Winter vacation is a whole piece of free time, use winter vacation to summarize and analyze the children's lost points and knowledge points, and then carry out special exercises to break them one by one. Children with a poor foundation can focus on reviewing the basic knowledge of the previous volume, and then preview the content of the next volume after mastering it. Memorize words early, speak 6 again, and it is better to know a few more words in the examination room, so take advantage of the winter vacation to take your children to memorize more words, and strive to memorize 1600 core words in primary school. Let's talk about a terrible thing: when you get to junior high school, you will find that many children have memorized more than 1,600 words necessary for middle school in elementary school, and people in middle school are reviewing them. I spent more than half a month compiling 100 documentaries on all subjects, including language, history, geography, physics, chemistry and biology, which are both interesting and knowledgeable, and are a supplement to classroom learning, making boring textbooks come alive, deepening children's understanding of textbooks, and better digesting knowledge. At the same time, vivid and interesting knowledge can also expand children's patterns and horizons, stimulate children's interest and self-motivation. It's really time-saving, mom-saving, and efficient! 
Take advantage of the winter vacation to increase the amount of reading and accumulate more writing materials. I have compiled two book lists, one is 254 World Award classic picture books, 15 themes, including 60 Caldecott Gold Awards, 105 Dick Silver Awards, 10 Greenaway Awards, and 79 classic picture books, covering all ages. The other is the 100 books recommended by Tsinghua University Primary School, and when the children's comprehension ability is stronger, they are ready to add "Morning Flowers and Sunset", "Journey to the West", "Camel Xiangzi", "20,000 Leagues Under the Sea" and so on to the reading list. This is very important, but it is important to keep it to the end and the handwriting is neat and beautiful. You don't need to spend too much time on deep cultivation, but you must speed up your writing in the later stage, otherwise the homework that others finish in 30 minutes, the baby may take 2 hours, and the mentality will collapse. Written at the end: What parents should do is to unconditionally protect and even defend their child's initiative, rather than blindly focusing on and controlling him. }