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Fortune magazine's editor-in-chief Geif Cowen said:
"The pattern determines the outcome, and the attitude determines the height. ”
Walking in the world, whether a person can withstand the ups and downs, withstand the ups and downs, endure right and wrong, and endure grievances and grievances depends on his own mentality.
Only with a good attitude can we create a better pattern, develop better habits, come up with a better attitude, and shape the height of life.
A good attitude can change against the sky and control your own destiny.
Don't complain, have a high mood
In this life, whether a person can wade through the mud does not depend on how fate arranges himself, but whether he can show the mentality of a strong man to defeat himself.
In this life, the biggest enemy is always oneself. Therefore, if you can't even manage yourself well and can't get along harmoniously, it will be difficult to make a big difference in this life.
You will find that in real life, those who live more and more passively and live more and more tormented are often people with bad mentality.
When these people encounter problems and difficulties, the first thing they think of is not to find the root cause of the problem, nor to take the initiative to resolve the problem, but to complain about this, complain about that, and even blame others for the problem.
In fact, it is difficult for such people to grow, because once they encounter problems and challenges, they will only shirk their responsibilities and just want to escape.
Then, it will be difficult for you to get the corresponding exercise, and you will slowly fall into some pedantic ideas, and even fall into the same way of life.
In the end, I have no experience in doing anything, so that I can't be interested in doing anything, and even lie down more and more, and get by more and more.
Bill Gates said:"Learn to accept the inevitable reality, learn to deal with the problems caused by defects, and not complain about it. ”
Quit complaining, stop complaining, let yourself slowly accumulate experience in work and career, focus your life on self-improvement, and then let your mindset return to positive.
In this way, we will be able to change our mentality, correct our mentality, and improve our mentality.
William Ward once said: Pessimists complain about the wind, optimists wait for the wind to change, and realistics adjust the direction of the wind.
Only by not complaining, living optimistically and confidently, and creating a strong mindset, can we make the rest of our lives more likely and more possible.
Silence is wisdom
A person who can stabilize his mentality must actually be a wise person.
These people will let themselves live a more urban life because of their maturity in their mentality, and in their daily life, they will also know how to protect themselves and strengthen themselves.
It can be said that the maturity of the mentality will make a person begin to become silent.
Especially when people reach middle age, we will slowly find that many things cannot be done by wishful thinking, and it can even be said that only by learning to be silent can we truly mature.
Abay Kunanbayev once said:
"It is ridiculous for a person to shout in anger; To be silent in anger is respectable. ”
In a lifetime, people will always experience wind and rain, and will also encounter hardships and setbacks, but the more difficult the time, the more we must remain calm, and even return to silence.
Because when we calm down and choose to be silent, we can truly calm down, find the root of the problem, and find the source of the difficulty.
Then, quit your emotions, return to peace of mind, and then let yourself settle down and calm down in time in the midst of various emotions.
In this way, we can show a calm and unhurried mentality, face the ups and downs in life, and be able to really make ourselves go more smoothly and smoothly.
A good mentality is the pattern
A good attitude is the magic weapon to win on the road of life.
To put it bluntly, people with a good attitude can occupy the cognitive high ground, can also shape tenacious beliefs, and even give birth to strong creativity.
In this way, once the goal is established, you can respond with a corresponding good attitude, implement it well, and implement it well.
During the whole process, even if you encounter all kinds of unexpected situations, as well as the so-called changes and impermanence, you can stabilize your mentality and create a pattern.
"Pattern Counterattack" has such a passage:
"Some people rely on talent to counterattack, some people rely on identity to counterattack, if you don't have anything, maybe you can only rely on the pattern. ”
People live for a lifetime, and they rely on their mentality when they encounter problems, and they rely on the pattern of dealing with the world.
Only through the tempering of one thing can people slowly create the mentality of the strong and condense into the pattern of the strong.
In this way, the pattern can feed back the mentality, strengthen the mentality, and finally be able to change the layout of one's life, make oneself completely change, or even be reborn.