Be a man and understand that your happiness is not in the eyes of others, but in your own heart! Whether you are doing well or not, only you know; Whether you are happy or not, only you know in your heart. What others hear, see, and then say out of their mouths about you, that's not the most real. Don't ask yourself from other people's mouths or eyes, in that way, you will not be happy! 
Your happiness is not in the eyes of others, and if you care too much about other people's opinions and words, you are doomed to live a happy life. You can't control other people's mouths and eyes, and you can't control what they say and see, no matter how hard you try. Don't let other people's opinions hold you back in your life, do what you love and pursue your own happiness. Only in this way can you truly have a good life of your own. When others are making irresponsible remarks about you, or watching you coldly, don't let these overly disturb your heart. You just need to live your life and make yourself happy. If you are doing well, people will also feel jealous and envious of you; And if you have a setback, others may laugh at you, but don't be influenced by them. It's not about them, you just have to be brave and confident in everything in life. Life is your own, just live happily by yourself! 
The saddest thing in life is to live in the eyes of others, desperately trying to prove that you are doing well, for fear of being ridiculed by others; At the same time, I am afraid that others will know that I am actually very hard and that life is very difficult. We should not live for others, but pursue happiness and joy in our own way. In fact, there is really no need for this, many times, it is our own hearts that make mistakes, others don't care so much about our lives, it's just that you care too much about other people's opinions. We have to understand that whether we are happy or not has nothing to do with other people, only with our inner thoughts. If you feel that you are happy, then you are happy; On the other hand, if you think you are unhappy, then you will feel bitter and dissatisfied. Therefore, we need to think seriously about our thoughts and feelings, face the challenges in life positively, and truly enjoy the beauty of life. Only in this way can we find true happiness and truly live a happy life. Really, your happiness has nothing to do with others! 
Your happiness has always been in your heart and you are happy because you feel happiness in your heart. When you have a good heart and a sunny heart, you will be able to feel the warmth and you will be able to harvest happiness. Happiness has always been in our hearts, never left, if you fail to find happiness, then your happiness must be hidden! Happiness in**? Happiness is in your heart. But if your heart is full of pain, sorrow, and trouble, then your happiness will be buried. The greatest sorrow in life is not that you can't find happiness, but that you bury your happiness with your own hands! 
We all want to harvest a happy life, happy love, and a happy family, but happiness is never so easy, and it is not something you can get if you want to. You have to pay with your heart, you have to dedicate with your heart, you have to feel with your heart, and most importantly, you have to have no regrets! Happiness always exists in the depths of our hearts, and only by paying sincerity, true affection, and true love can we get its nourishment and blessing. Let's embrace the world with sincere feelings and feel the power of happiness. Because happiness, only the truest things can be had, and only deserve to have, I hope you and I can reap the truest happiness! 
Your happiness does not need the approval of others, it has always haunted the corners of your heart. Put the seeds of happiness in our inner world, let it take root, sprout life, and thrive. It has long since bloomed, competing for beauty. No one can deprive you of happiness because it is intertwined with your heart. Let's take care of it and let it keep blossoming!