1. Praise you, appreciation, and affirmation are often expressed
There is an old Chinese saying: a good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word is hurtful and cold in June.
The most hurtful words we hear in our lives often do not come from people we are more distant from, but from those we trust and are closest to us, including family, lovers, and friends.
The closer the relationship, the more harmful the bad words are. And we tend to always leave the pleasant face to outsiders, and the impatient and loving side to the closest people.
A person who is suitable to spend your life with must be someone who often praises, appreciates, and affirms you, not someone who constantly degrades you every day.
Praise, appreciation, and affirmation can make a person feel happy and willing to give more. In this way, a positive cycle can be formed, so that the relationship between two people becomes closer and happier.
2. Be able to let go of everything and be with you wholeheartedly
We will meet many people in our lives, encounter many things, and may have many pursuits.
If a person can take the time, let go of everything and spend some time with you wholeheartedly. Then during this time, you are the most important existence in his life.
Deep down in every human being, there is a desire to be an important being. Children often do bad things to attract the attention of parents, teachers, and classmates to confirm their importance. Actually, it's the same for adults.
When a person treats us as the most important beings in the world at some point, we are bound to experience the deepest sense of happiness in our hearts.
3. Frequently send you gifts that are not necessarily expensive, but must be very heartfelt
In this materialistic world, many people's hearts have been distorted. Convert everything into measurable**. But this will only arouse endless desires and dissatisfaction in the heart.
The best relationship is never a relationship that depends on **, but a relationship that is full of heart.
If a person eats something delicious, the first thing that comes to mind is to take you to eat it. When you see a beautiful flower, I will send it to you as soon as possible. I can't wait to share all the good things in my life with you for the first time. Then he must love you very much.
Sharing all that is good with our loved ones is the most heartfelt gift we can give. People who only value ** will miss out on most of the good things in life.
4. Share the trivial affairs of life with you
Life is absolutely inseparable from firewood, rice, oil and salt, and trivial life affairs often make people very irritable.
If two people can share it together, then this irritability will be transformed into warm love.
If there is a family, everyone is giving, but no one cares except themselves. Then this dedication will definitely bring a great sense of sacrifice.
The small contributions of all people in a family need to be seen and recognized. Only then will we be motivated to continue to give.
Seeing each other's efforts and affirming each other's contributions will make a family more and more harmonious and happy.
5. Give you loving physical contact often.
Chinese expressions of love are often very subtle. But in fact, loving physical contact is an important way to achieve happiness and an essential part of building intimacy.
When we are children, we are often able to express love very directly, such as hugging and kissing our parents, saying I love you to our parents, and so on. Although parents may feel very numb on the surface, their hearts are actually full of happiness.
When we grow up, this need does not disappear, but is transferred to our partner.
Loving physical contact is the most direct and effective way to convey love. Physical contact, such as a loving hug, has been scientifically proven to release serotonin, a neurotransmitter known as the "happy hormone," in our body.
Therefore, if you want to have a happy and beautiful intimate relationship, it is important to have frequent loving physical contact such as holding hands and hugging.