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The sun arches a pawn, and the merit is not donated! Let's talk to you todayHow girls get rid of the feeling of cheapnessthis topic.
The cheapness here has nothing to do with money, and it has nothing to do with ** high or low, my understanding refers to those things that are not worth it, unreliable relationships, wrong people, and everything that is not worth it.
Get rid of being a post-it note girl.
It seems that post-it note girls are cheap, cheap, and dispensable in the eyes of many people.
Is it really fun to be a good person who is responsive and always unable to refuse other people's requests, and treats yourself as a convenience store that does not close 24 hours a day?
Of course not
The first step to getting rid of post-it girl is to be brave enough to learn to say no.
As a post-it note girl, you must know what you can do, not that you can't help, but you must know that interpersonal relationships are mutual, not blindly let each other take what you want, respect each other, in order to create a good interpersonal relationship.
Compromising will not make you more lovable and express your principles and bottom line, but will make the people around you understand how to get along with you is the most suitable for you.
So, from today on, don't be "Chen Xinyi" anymore.
Get rid of cheap consumption.
Cheap is not to buy expensive, but insist on buying, blindly pursuing things that are not within one's ability to buy, is called cheap.
You can dress neatly within your ability, and you can spend within your ability, why do you have to save money or use your credit card to buy something that is not within your financial range.
What really matters is your own heart, to increase your knowledge, to enhance your experience, to travel to study, to do something meaningful, I think this is what makes a person very confident from the inside out, even if you buy cheap clothes, they will think that you have a good eye and will pick, no one will think you are poor
Get rid of cheap relationships.
The cheapest and least responsible love story in the world is: I raised you but ended up with nothing.
How beautiful the love words are, how hurtful they can be, sisters, the economy is not hindered, and they can be loved.
Of course, if you are not sure whether this person is suitable and worth walking, then you can take a section seriously, and then re-acquaint yourself with another section if it is not suitable, but don't appear to be in love with several men and women at the same time.
In addition, if you fall in love with the wrong man, you will waste the opportunity to meet a good man, so how can you pick up someone else's rose when you have a garbage bag in your hand?
Get rid of the cheap lifestyle.
A way of life is ultimately our own choice, and we should all give it 100% respect.
My original intention in writing this article is to hope that everyone can find a lifestyle that suits them within their ability, and find a relatively peaceful and comfortable state in the boring and ordinary days.
For example, you can choose to go to work and be a 9-to-5 office worker; You can also choose to be a small boss, do a small business, and support yourself no matter what, after all, money is the source of life, although money cannot solve 100% of the problems, but at least 99% of the problems can be solved.
But when you don't have the ability and capital enough, you want to count on others, and you want to lie down in the Buddha system for your career, that can be very dangerous
Finally, I want to say that the world is very complicated, and the requirements for girls are also very high, not only for you to be kind in nature, but also for you to be sophisticated enough, to have the ability to protect yourself but not to harm others, to have a certain amount of life experience, psychological quality and emotional intelligence are high enough, and to have enough social skills.
But I hope that we can all end the chaos in our hearts, find ourselves in the noisy world, and live our own version
All of the above
I'm Ah, I'm practicing a small business, and I firmly believe in the power of perseverance.