People s Daily There is no standard answer to life, and everyone has their own footnotes

Who would want a life where they can see their head at a glance?

People often say: To live, you must have a head.

What is Bentou? (The source of the word Bentou: Chapter 115 of "Sunny Days": "The good days in the future are ours, and our Bentou is far away.") ”）

There is a head, there is hope.

01 I could have tolerated the darkness if I hadn't seen the sun.

I once heard a friend complain that he met a senior sister from the same school because of his work, and the two of them knew that they were alumni of each other, and they suddenly had a feeling of seeing each other late. During the work collaboration, the two helped each other, faced problems together, and completed the cooperation project well. However, as the project ended, their relationship slowly moved from intersecting lines to two parallel lines.

This friend said that she thinks they are good girlfriends, why are they strangers again after the work project is over?

My friend was distressed at the time and said self-deprecatingly: "Plastic sister flowers are like this!" ”

A relationship,Someone really paid, someoneYetI didn't take it seriously.

Therefore, the things in life will cause us trouble, all because we have our own expectations for this thing.

It can make us miserableIt's often what we care about and have.

There will be many people in a person's life, some will be with them for a long time, and some will just rub shoulders. Cherish those who have traveled with us along the way, and withdraw attention to those who are far away from us, because those who are not destined to be on the same road may never see each other again.

Our emotions are limited. Save these precious emotions for people who really care about each other.

Life is an experience, and ten out of ten are not smooth.

Therefore, we must learn to accept the end of every relationship and keep the true sunshine in our lives.

02 Live seriously and grow upward.

Everyone's life is a stormy road, and it has always been a bumpy road.

The boat is more urgent in the middle of the stream, and the road is steeper in the middle of the mountain.

We don't know which will come sooner tomorrow or the unexpected. So live every moment of the moment seriously.

Mr. Yang Jiang said:

There is always a time in life that is particularly difficult to walk, and it is useless to complain, because time will not stop for you, and it is useless to cry because others cannot bear it for you. If you go back, there are a lot of people who see your jokes, and if you move forward, you will have a chance to prove yourself. In life, no drop of sweat is in vain, and no part of the road is in vain. In the trough, you still have to look up at the starry sky, pass by the night, you still have to look forward to the sunshine, everything is suffering, only self-crossing, the rest of your life, to be the best yourself.

Perhaps, at this moment you are complaining about how the child can't understand, and the parents' nagging is for his good.

Perhaps, at this moment you are complaining about how the boss is so slamming the door, and only knows how to squeeze employees.

Perhaps, at this moment you are complaining about the wife and husband why can't they share more, you are more tired than the other party.

Maybe ......In fact, when you complain about your children's education, have you ever thought about what position you stand on to communicate with your children? Being reasonable is useless for children. Most of the time, parents' reasoning can only arouse the child's rebellious psychology, so it is not impossible to let go first when communication is not smooth.

A positive parent creates a healthy family growth environment for their children, sometimes they don't need to use their mouths to speak, and their actions can affect their children's words and deeds.

When complaining about the leader, we also think more about whether there is anything that can be improved by ourselves. As the old saying goes, "Iron must be its own." "You can't do porcelain work without diamonds. Only by strengthening one's own professional ability can one better display value in the workplace.

Complaints between family members are the most demoralizing. Although chicken feathers are the status quo of most family life, mutual support and recognition between husband and wife are important factors in regulating family life. We need to acknowledge and praise each other's efforts, rather than complaining about them. Once the shortcomings are infinitely magnified, this family will really jump.

Therefore, life is your own, try to live a good moment every day, and strive to run towards a better self.

Hard work should have no boundaries, we are all different, no matter how bad life may seem, there is always one thing that is worth your efforts to persevere in and be able to succeed.