If one day you found an abandoned baby on the side of the road, would you choose to take her home?
Blood or family affection, who is more important? Shanghai grandma was cheated out of 2 million by her own children, but the black adopted son stood up and sent her grandma to the end of her life.
Grandma, don't be afraid, I will always be with you. ”
It was an ordinary day, and Grandma Zhu, who was already 60 years old, was on her way to the vegetable market when she heard a strange sound coming from the grass on the side of the road. As a result, what Grandma Zhu saw was not a fluffy little animal, but a little baby boy who was naked and covered with prickly heat, which was little Zhu Junlong.
He looked very weak, and at first glance he was deliberately abandoned on the side of the road, and the intermittent crying came, which made people very distressed to hear. So Grandma Zhu took the poor child home.
Grandma Zhu's family is not wealthy in Shanghai, and it can only be said that the conditions are average. When the boy was picked up, it was in August 2000, when Grandma Zhu and her wife were still living with the newly married son's family.
The son and daughter-in-law were very surprised when they saw Grandma Zhu holding a little baby boy in their arms, and expressed strong opposition when Grandma Zhu said that she wanted to adopt and take care of the boy, but Grandma Zhu really couldn't bear to let such a young child be abandoned, if she didn't care, little Zhu Junlong would undoubtedly die in the grass on the side of the road.
So she withstood the pressure of her son and daughter-in-law, or chose to adopt Xiao Zhu Junlong, after taking Xiao Zhu Junlong home, she prepared hot water to wash off the dirt on Xiao Zhu Junlong's body, but after taking a bath, Xiao Zhu Junlong was still black, which made Grandma Zhu panic. **Ten Thousand Fans Incentive Plan Grandma Zhu, who only studied in the second grade of primary school** knew that there were still black mixed-race children, so she rushed to the hospital immediately with little Zhu Junlong in her arms, and finally the doctor told Grandma Zhu that little Zhu Junlong was actually a black mixed-race person.
Grandma Zhu, who knew that Zhu Junlong was not sick, let go of her worries, she didn't mind too much about whether little Zhu Junlong was mixed or not, whether she was a foreigner or not, she only knew that she was destined for this child, and she wanted to take care of him.
After going back, Grandma Zhu officially named the boy - Zhu Junlong.
The discarded little Zhu Junlong met the kind-hearted Grandma Zhu and had a new home from then on.
Little Zhu Junlong grew up happily and carefree under the care of Grandma Zhu. But because of Zhu Junlong's identity as a black mixed-race child, he can't determine his nationality, can't go through the formal adoption process, and can't give Zhu Junlong a hukou, so correspondingly, Zhu Junlong, who doesn't have a hukou, can't go to school, this problem has troubled Grandma Zhu for a long time, and she anxiously asked around, hoping to find a suitable way to solve Zhu Junlong's problem.
Finally, under the busy rush of Grandma Zhu, the relevant departments learned about Zhu Junlong's special situation and issued a special certificate to Zhu Junlong, which allowed Zhu Junlong to go to school normally.
Just when Grandma Zhu breathed a sigh of relief, new problems followed, and the little Zhu Junlong after entering the school was very lively and active, naughty and mischievous in class, and turned into a monkey after class to play and make trouble, as if he became the "monkey king" in the class. It has quickly become the focus of attention of the teachers, and has reached a very headache point.
For this, Grandma Zhu, who was called a parent, did not show anger and annoyance, but chose to use encouragement and encouragement to guide Zhu Junlong on the right track. After that, Zhu Junlong began to study hard, he was still naughty, with a child's curiosity about the world, but he was also the most sensible and well-behaved child, and never let Grandma Zhu worry about him.
Soon after adopting Zhu Junlong, Grandma Zhu's little daughter-in-law had a baby named Zhu Junhu. Grandma Zhu was very happy, and pointed to the ** taken by their family and said that she was very blessed and had two grandchildren at once.
She doesn't think that Zhu Junlong has no blood relationship with their family, since she was a child, she has always treated Zhu Junlong as her own grandson, and every time there is something delicious, it is Zhu Junlong and Zhu Junhu who have a portion, a bowl of water.
Under the influence of Grandma Zhu, Zhu Junlong is also very kind, and learned to be grateful, one day, he took his grandmother's hand and said: "Grandma, when I make a lot of money in the future, I will buy you a big villa, you don't have to do anything, I will raise you, cook for you, and accompany you to square dance." ”
In 2007, a big event happened to Grandma Zhu's family. Her family's house was demolished and divided into 6 houses, which is great news.
In the end, after some consideration, Grandma Zhu decided to give these 6 houses, 2 to the eldest son, 2 to the younger son, the remaining 2 houses, one to live with her wife, and the other to Zhu Junlong.
Her decision was opposed by the whole family, who thought that Grandma Zhu had done her best to raise Zhu Junlong. He has no blood relationship with their Zhu family, he is an outsider, how can he get their Zhu family's house, even if Grandma Zhu gave him the smallest 50-square-meter house among the 6 houses, but this is in Shanghai, where housing prices are soaring, even if the house is only 50 square meters, it is a lot of money.
Grandma Zhu's decision to give the house to Zhu Junlong was also after a long period of consideration, she knew that her son and daughter-in-law had always been dissatisfied with Zhu Junlong, so many years had passed, her health was not as good as before, she was afraid that if one day she was gone, Zhu Junlong would be kicked out and completely homeless, so she wanted to give Zhu Junlong a place to rely on, at least let him have a place to live.
So even if the whole family didn't agree with Grandma Zhu's approach, the matter was still settled.
In 2016, Grandma Zhu found that the house they lived in had leaked due to disrepair, so she thought about changing her place of residence, selling the old house and buying a smaller house, which was just close to Zhu Junlong.
In order to be safe, she temporarily put the 2.5 million yuan she had sold her old house into her daughter's card, and then went to find a suitable place to live. But what Grandma Zhu didn't expect was that when she was optimistic about the new house and was ready to take out the money to pay, only 500,000 yuan of the 2.5 million yuan in the card was left.
The 2 million was embezzled by her eldest son and daughter, and Grandma Zhu had no money to buy a house, and she had nowhere to go. She wanted to go to her two sons, but the two sons kept ignoring her after she gave Zhu Junlong's house, and her daughter had the same attitude.
At this moment, Zhu Junlong took the initiative to stand up, and he took Grandma Zhu and the old couple into his small house, because the house was too small and the three of them were too crowded, so Zhu Junlong set up a bed on the balcony.
Now, although the life of the three of them is still a little urgent, Zhu Junlong said that he was very happy that his grandmother could be by his side, and said that the current house is too small, and he has to work hard to earn money, realize his childhood wish, and change his grandmother to a big villa.
Some people value blood, others pay more attention to family, there is never a standard answer to whether blood is important or family is important, and the real answer needs to be discovered by ourselves.