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There is an old saying in China that is called "Kindness is not as good as Kindness", and this sentence is very suitable for Zhu Junlong.
For Zhu Junlong, the luckiest thing in his life is probably that he met Grandma Zhu, who adopted him.
Zhu Junlong is a typical black man, but his Chinese nationality is clearly recorded in his household registration book.
To this day, Zhu Junlong doesn't know who his biological parents are, but for Zhu Junlong, these are no longer important, in his heart, China is his hometown, and Grandma Zhu is his relatives.
So what happened to Zhu Junlong? Why would a black person have a Chinese hukou?
Abandoned black children
Zhu Junlong is an abandoned child, and the time goes back to August 2000, one ordinary morning this month, Grandma Zhu in Shanghai was on her way to the vegetable market to buy vegetables when she heard a faint cry in the grass on the side of the road.
Grandma searched for a long time on the side of the road, and finally saw a naked ** child in the depths of the grass.
When Grandma Zhu found this child, the poor child had no clothes on him, so he was lying naked in the grass, and there were many ants crawling around.
Grandma's first thought at that time was to save the child first, so she stepped forward and picked up the child, preparing to take the child to the hospital.
When the child was picked up, a note was pressed under the child, on which his date of birth was written, August 1, 2000.
At this time, Grandma Zhu still didn't understand anything, this was clearly a poor child who was abandoned after birth.
Grandma Zhu's house was very close to the place where she picked up the child, and it was still relatively hot at that time, so Grandma felt that she had to give the child a bath before sending her to the hospital.
Because the child looked black, and there were many wounds on his body, and there were some places with prickly heat.
But when Grandma took the child back to take a bath, she found that the black dirt on the child's body could not be washed off.
At that time, I thought that the child was sick, so after simply cleaning up, Grandma took the child to the hospital for an examination.
After the examination, the doctor told the grandmother that there was no disease in the child. Grandma was puzzled, so she asked the doctor why the child looked black.
After hearing this, the doctor smiled and replied to Grandma that the child was black not because of any disease, but because he was a black person.
Hearing the doctor say this, Grandma was relieved. Later, he took the black child home, but it was not a solution for the abandoned child to stay at home.
So Grandma discussed with her wife to look outside first to see if she could find the child's biological parents.
During this period, the child stayed at home for the time being, and Grandma was at home during the day.
However, the process of finding the child's biological parents was not smooth, and after asking around for a long time, no one knew whose family the child belonged to and where he came from.
In desperation, Grandma made a bold decision to leave the child behind and take care of it herself.
At that time, Grandma was actually very old, and she was already at the age of retirement.
Grandma's children have also started a family, and after learning that the old mother wants to adopt the child, Grandma's children disagree.
But Grandma always insisted that the child must be kept. In the end, Grandma's children couldn't resist Grandma, and they could only be forced to agree to this matter.
The difficult road to the hukou
Since it was decided that the child was going to stay, it was necessary to give him an identity and give him a name. Grandma thought about it for a long time, and felt that it was not a way for this child to be in her own name, so she thought about it and decided to put this child in the name of her youngest son.
After that, he gave the child a name, Zhu Junlong. Since then, the little black boy has had a Chinese name. Although he has a name, he has no identity yet.
Zhu Junlong's situation is too special to conform to China's adoption policy, so there is no way for the grandmother to directly adopt the child. On the issue of identity registration, it has been dragging on.
Until Zhu Junlong reached the age of going to school, the identity issue had not yet been implemented. Without a hukou, all schools in Shanghai are naturally reluctant to accept this child.
Grandma also went to a lot of schools for this matter, and often went to the police station to ask if there was any other way to help the child enter the household registration.
But it has not been resolved, and finally it was at a private school, and the principal of the private school at that time, after understanding the cause and effect of this matter, decided to make an exception to let the child go to school first.
The 6 years of primary school passed quickly, and in these 6 years, Grandma Zhu ran a lot of places for the child's household registration problem, but it has never been solved.
When he was in junior high school, because of the household registration, the child's follow-up school became a thorny problem.
Grandma Zhu's matter was concerned and reported by a ** in Shanghai at that time.
Well-wishers from the outside world have given advice to Grandma Zhu, and finally ** also paid attention to this matter. In 2014, with the help of **, Zhu Junlong finally successfully settled in Shanghai and officially became a Chinese.
In the next few years, this child worked hard in school, and his grades have always been very good, which did not worry Grandma.
At the age of 18, Zhu Junlong was admitted to Shanghai Jianqiao University with excellent results and studied computer science in this institution.
Everything is developing in a good direction, but at this time, Grandma Zhu is facing the biggest difficulty in her life.
Grandma's old house was demolished in the early years, and she was allocated several suites and a very large amount of demolition money.
The living conditions of the family have also improved a lot, and after discussing these houses, Grandma Zhu and her wife decided to keep one set, and the two will support the elderly in the future, and the remaining sets are just one set for each person to be distributed to several children, and there is an extra set, and Grandma decided to leave it to Zhu Junlong.
At that time, Grandma's children disagreed, but Grandma insisted, and the children could only be forced to nod. But for this matter, I have a pimple in my heart.
Later, Zhu Junlong was admitted to university, and in order to let Zhu Junlong go to study without worries, Grandma and his wife sold the house they originally planned to retire.
I hope to use this money to make Zhu Junlong's college life easier, and then buy a smaller house, which is closer to Zhu Junlong's house, so that it is convenient to take care of Zhu Junlong.
As a result, the money that grandma sold the house was deceived by her own children, and the original house payment of more than 2.5 million yuan was only 500,000 yuan in the end.
Without a place to live, Grandma originally wanted to let her children support her, and took her over to live in several families in turn, but none of the children were willing.
Grandma couldn't buy a house if she wanted this money, and she couldn't really take her children to court. After Zhu Junlong found out, he cleaned up the suite that his grandmother originally left for him, and laid the floor in the house by himself, so that the two old people could sleep in the bedroom.
Conclusion
For Zhu Junlong, the luckiest thing in life is probably to meet Grandma Zhu, but for Grandma, her biological children are unwilling to support themselves for money, and in the end, it is this child who picks it up, patting her chest and telling her, I will provide for you for the elderly.
Sometimes, blood ties don't mean everything. The story of Grandma and Zhu Junlong continues, and Zhu Junlong also said in an interview later that for himself, China is his hometown, and Grandma is his family, which will never change.
References
The "little black child" that Shanghai Grandma picked up in the grass 18 years ago is now going to college! , CNR.
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