The scumbag father became popular at the parent-teacher meeting, supported his son affectionately, and fulfilled the teacher's face!
The father's speech at the Xueersi parent-teacher meeting became popular on the Internet, the deep love for his son, and the high emotional intelligence on the teacher's face When children are just born, we may all have fantasized that they can be the best of their peers, climb higher and speak earlier than others, and this idea makes parents excited.
However, as time goes on, more and more people are becoming aware"Sunshine stopped in fourth grade"This means that as the grades are no longer brilliant and the beauty of childhood is lost, parents are beginning to have a clearer understanding of their children's prospects. Some parents even have to give up their fantasies, and this transition is often accompanied by a lot of distress and pain.
For many people, perhaps the saddest thing is attending a school parent-teacher conference. The parents of the top students don't care, but they will receive envious glances from others. However, the situation is very different for students with mediocre grades, especially parents of dropouts.
A netizen said frankly that every time he attended a parent-teacher conference because of his son's bad grades, he always felt it"Inferior", so they don't dare to attract the attention of others. However, in Shandong, there is one"Scum dad"It has attracted everyone's attention.
The father stepped onto the podium, undeterred, proudly showing off to his son. His speech is a classic, and it is worth reflecting on and learning from, regardless of the grades.
First, he was a little ashamed to admit that his son's grades were having a negative impact on the class. But a good father would never belittle his son in front of everyone, as he did in the past, in order to show himself"Kindness"。
The father said in a way that did not fail in his mission"Although his academic performance is not good, I believe that he has the opportunity to become a pillar of the country in the future. He is a counselor, but he believes that his son's mental state is stronger than his own.
Having a good mindset and high emotional intelligence is a big advantage for entering the society in the future, and in this regard, I sometimes admire my son. Her speech both affirmed the child's shortcomings and highlighted the strengths; It takes into account both the overall situation of the class and the appearance of the students.
In the second part, he emphasized the importance of schools and teachers. We are a very good school in Qingdao, and the school management is advanced; The homeroom teacher and other teachers are also very conscientious and responsible, and work very hard. This allows my son to pass sometimes.
I think he owes his progress in school to the wonderful people who guided him. Therefore, I would like to thank the teachers and school leaders who have created a good learning environment for him.
This father showed love and emotional intelligence that many fathers could not match. He not only showed his love for his son, but also made it clear that his speech was not to defend academics, on the contrary, he expressed the open-mindedness and wisdom of contemporary parents, as well as the rational understanding and care for their children. On this basis, she did not offend the professor, which shows her high emotional intelligence.
Truth be told, this is something that a lot of parents can't do. Every generation of parents has different shortcomings, and our generation tends to fall into two extremes.
See this"Father of a school dropout"The students will feel very envious: why other students have such a good mentality and are expected to become"Pillars of the nation"？Because parents can see the strengths of their children and believe in their children's character and abilities.
There are a lot of us who have mediocre grades and don't have decent jobs, is it really that bad? In fact, we just lack such wise and loving parents.
At the same time, our generation of parents may be more loving than the older generation, but it is also easier to fall into two misunderstandings. One is that I didn't have a good education when I was a child, so I'm working hard now"Hold back"。
The other is completely spoiled, put"Unconditional love"Misunderstood as"Unconditional doting"。When students are underperforming or misbehaving, parents often take advantage of the student's shortcomings and even confront the teacher.
Whether it is too contemptuous or too lenient, it is not conducive to the growth of students. So, we're going to be like this one"Student's father"In the same way, look at children's problems rationally and give them the right support and guidance.
Topic] What do you think of this father's statement?