In 2014, after the broadcast of the program "Blind Date Will Win" filmed by Zhejiang Satellite TV, it sparked widespread discussion on the Internet.
Interestingly, in the middle of the whole discussion,The focus of people's discussion is not because of the "blind date" itself, but a 23-year-old girl from Xiamen, Zhou Lanjun.
From the perspective of personal conditions, Zhou Lanjun is actually not bad, although his appearance is not one in a hundred, but he can be regarded as having good facial features, plus he is a sophomore in school, only twenty-three years old, the overall condition can be said to be very good.
But when talking about the requirements of his blind date, Zhou Lanjun's remarks shocked everyone.
Zhou Lanjun said that he has only one request, that is, he only marries the second generation of the rich, and the other party's net worth must exceed 50 million.
This remark not only shocked all the viewers in front of the TV, but also made Zhou Lanjun popular all over the Internet in the futurewas even hailed as the "second Sister Feng".
In all fairness, money worship psychology is not uncommon, and many people have this psychology to a greater or lesser extent, but it is indeed very rare to have a naked and undisguised "money worship" like Zhou Lanjun, and even clearly mark the price for himself.
You must know that the rich second generation is a huge groupOf course, there are young and promising people in it, but there are also people who are lazy and idle.
Even if you want to think about this, you should also pay attention to other factors, such as work, personal ability, and even looks.
But what is puzzling is that Zhou Lanjun doesn't have any requirements for other aspects, the only requirement is that the other party must still have a city hukouIf you live in a rural area or an urban-rural area, you will not consider it because you are worried that "the consumption concepts of the two sides are different" and there will be conflicts in the future.
As long as it is a rich second generation with a "net worth of 50 million", you can take yourself awayEven 49.99 million is an insult to yourself.
During the interview, the film crew also became curious and asked why Zhou Lanjun had to marry a rich second generation with a net worth of 50 million?
And Zhou Lanjun's answer surprised everyone, in Zhou Lanjun's opinion, his appearance, figure, etiquette and other qualities are excellent, and he was born to marry a rich man.
If you fail to marry a rich man, then it is simply a "tyrannical thing" and the biggest failure in your life。On the show, Zhou Lanjun also said:"If I don't marry the rich second generation, my appearance, my figure, my beautiful character and character, and even my soul will be ruined. ”
Seeing the scene in front of him, from the program team to the audience, there was a question in the hearts of the audience: Is Zhou Lanjun worth the 50 million? Why would the rich second generation fall in love with you?
Zhou Lanjun is a sophomore majoring in business administration at Zhejiang Gongshang University, her father is an engineer at a state-owned enterprise, and her mother is an aunt in a university dormitory.
We won't comment too much on this family condition, it is neither bad, nor strong enough to match 50 million households.
And Zhou Lanjun's proud personal qualities are also questionable. In terms of the effect presented by the show, Zhou Lanjun's performance can only be said to be mediocre.
Although he is in his youth, he is nothing more than that, except for his "ambitious" ambitions, he has no obvious outstanding personal merits, and even the reporter kindly reminded her that her shoes did not fit properly, and her toes pounced out.
Zhou Lanjun is just an ordinary female college student, and she does not show unusual characteristics.
With his personal conditions, if he wants to find an ordinary object, it is more than enough, but the idea of opening a rich second generation with a net worth of 50 million is really unrealistic.
In her, we also don't see the personal capital to match it.
When asked what advantages he had, Zhou Lanjun said confidently"My independence is my greatest strength."
When talking about why there is such an idea, it is not 50 million yuan not to marry.
Zhou Lanjun said that he had communicated with the matchmaker who was in love with **, and after the other party's inspection, he said that he could marry at least a 20 million worth of objects under his existing conditions.
20 million yuan is already a lot, but after hearing the news, Zhou Lanjun did not agree, she thought that the valuation given by the matchmaker was still lowThe corresponding number is at least more than 50 million, so I decided to come to the blind date show to give it a try.
After hearing Zhou Lanjun's statement, the staff of the program team were "speechless" for a while, and anyone with a discerning eye could see that this was just a pie drawn by the staff of the marriage agency in order to retain customers, but Zhou Lanjun actually believed it.
It stands to reason that with Zhou Lanjun's request, the program team can be regarded as "intentional harassment" and refuse to provide services for him, but Zhou Lanjun's attitude is extremely resolute.
In the face of the dissuasion of the staff, he still ignored it and must find a rich second generation of 50 million.
In the end, a few days after all kinds of helplessness, the program team really found a rich second generation for her, and arranged a blind date between the two.
A few days later, under the mediation of the program team, Zhou Lanjun and the rich second-generation male guest met for the first time.
On the day of the blind date, the program team and Zhou Lanjun came to the hotel early to wait for the man, what people didn't expect was that Zhou Lanjun came to the appointment this time, wearing an extremely "weird" purple shirt and headdress, not that it was not good-looking, but it was obviously a little frivolous on such an important occasion.
After arriving at the scene, the waiter brought a fruit bowl and put it on the tableBefore the male guests arrived, Zhou Lanjun had already started to eat.
It is worth mentioning that when he first introduced his own conditions, Zhou Lanjun also said that he had received professional international etiquette training.
This practice, even the host next to him couldn't help it, and reminded softly:"Can we wait for someone to come before we eat? ”
But Zhou Lanjun was confused and asked puzzled"Didn't the waiter just say you could eat it? ”
After the male guest came, the two sides started a blind date, at the beginning, that is, to introduce each other's identities and conditions.
Later, when talking about what requirements he had for the man, Zhou Lanjun immediately came to his senses, saying that he only hoped that his future fathers-in-law and mothers-in-law could have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong and the spirit of pragmatism and truth-seeking, otherwise, it would definitely be difficult for him to get along.
Not to mention the male guests, even the audience in front of the TV is difficult to accept Zhou Lanjun's remarks, do I have to let my parents go to class to learn how to be a person when I go on a blind date with you?
After Zhou Lanjun finished the introduction, the male guest did not express his position directly, but asked the other party what his specialties were.
The male guest's words were very tactful, and he didn't say bluntly that the two parties were inappropriate, but just said:"Since you want to marry a wealthy family, then everyone has high requirements, what kind of piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, etc., at least you have to know a little, right? ”
But once it comes to personal skills, Zhou Lanjun's momentum is three points shorter, he said that although he doesn't know how to play piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, he can learn.
Hearing this, the male guest smiled awkwardly:"Do you have to enroll you in a study class before you marry you home? ”
In this way, the conversation between the two sides finally broke up.
After the first blind date failed, the program team arranged a second object for herAlthough the man is not a rich second generation worth 50 million, he has a successful career and is not very old, so he is a potential stock.
In the blind date process with the second male guest, the two sides chatted smoothly at first, but when talking about future plans, Zhou Lanjun's brain hole made the male guest unable to sit still, which was very incomprehensible.
Zhou Lanjun said that she hopes to give birth to a boy and a girl in the future. As for his future job, he hopes to become a star after the graduate school entrance examination.
This remark not only embarrassed the staff of the program team, but also made the male guests fall into serious self-doubt, are we really people living in the same time and space?
Zhou Lanjun's brain hole is not like a normal person, but like a Mary Sue girl who is addicted to "urban idol dramas".
But the male guests are obviously very patient, but when it comes to being a star, the male guests still have a way.
He said that he happened to know several bosses in the film and television industry, and if Zhou Lanjun really had the desire to develop in this area, he could help introduce him and draw a line.
But what people didn't expect was that Zhou Lanjun didn't appreciate the kindness of the male guests, and actually bluntly said that he was a "pretending to be an X man" in the showbegan to dislike the other party's low education, all kinds of problems.
Zhou Lanjun fired a series of shots, and even the host of the program group couldn't sit still, and he broke Zhou Lanjun's true thoughts in one sentence:"It's because the other party is not a rich second generation that you pick a thorn. ”
As expected, the second blind date ended ...... hastily
After the show was broadcast, ridicule about Zhou Lanjun emerged endlessly on the InternetSome people even began to wonder if this was an "actor" deliberately arranged by the program team in order to attract traffic and discussion.
Because at that time, there were indeed many TV programs that would arrange some "wonderful" actors for personal ratings to hype up and attract attention.
Maybe it's because since Zhou Lanjun's program was broadcast, the TV station has suffered too much doubt, so the program team immediately posted a Weibo on the Internet:claimed that the program team really did not arrange for Zhou Lanjun to come to "make a fool", and all the broadcast content was a true portrayal of the blind date scene.
After hearing this, netizens turned their attention to Zhou Lanjun and began to ridicule and even attack him.
Zhou Lanjun's Weibo name is "Zhou Lanjun 1992 Little Lucky", and since the incident, she has been burdened with various attacks from netizens, so much so that she was forced to close her Weibo comments.
Zhou Lanjun's Weibo fell into a long period of disappearance after the incident, just when everyone thought that she was going to completely withdraw from the Internet.
In 2016, Zhou Lanjun released a long article to clarify to the public, saying that he had realized the naivety and irrationality of his previous views.
said that he was overly superstitious about "Hangzhou" back then, thinking that he only gave up a better key university because he found his favorite object in Jiangnan.
Hearing this statement, many people expressed disbelief, thinking that Zhou Lanjun was creating a character for himself as a scholarBut in fact, someone really checked Zhou Lanjun's results that year.
Although only two subjects can be found, the results are unexpected, English 147, mathematics 144, Zhou Lanjun is really as she said, a scholar.
Zhou Lanjun said that he has changed the previous psychology of "not getting rich and not marrying".The only thought is to be plain and live the rest of your life ......
Today, eight years have passed since Zhou Lanjun exploded on the Internet, and Zhou Lanjun himself has gone to thirty, in the past few years, Zhou Lanjun has been working in his hometown of Xiamen, and finally established a network technology company through years of hard work.
Although Zhou Lanjun is still not married at this time, her personal work and life are also on the right track.
On Weibo, Zhou Lanjun also often updates his personal dynamics, in daily life, he loves cooking, can make cakes and tea art, and has also learned painting, in his recent Weibo on December 26, 2021, Zhou Lanjun even filmed his own "archery" **, which can be described as a wide range of hobbies.
Although these are insignificant hobbies, her psychological state at this time, I have to say, is much healthier than back then.
Today's Zhou Lanjun, his personal concept has changed a lot, obviously he has given up the idea of blindly pursuing the rich second generation, and devotes all his energy to his personal life.
Zhou Lanjun has never been in the so-called rich second generation, but now she no longer cares about the dream she once had.
Talking about the past, Zhou Lanjun always uses "detours when he was young" to describe his actions when he was young.
Today's Zhou Lanjun has decent makeup, is young and beautiful, and seems to have a new pursuit of life, and she is living very well on her own.
She began to realize that with her own hands, working hard to achieve the life she wanted was the best embodiment of "independent consciousness".
To this day, there are often people who maliciously attack her under Weibo, or swear words, but this kind of behavior is not necessary, people are not sages, who can be confused, and Zhou Lanjun himself has not done anything to hurt others.
In fact, in this turmoil, Zhou Lanjun himself was the one who was most injured. It is not a kind of courage to be able to break free from the whirlpool of **, recognize the reality, and live rationally and optimistically.