"If it weren't for the rich second generation with a net worth of more than 50 million, even I wouldn't feel worthy of myself! ”
There was once a sophomore student Zhou Lanjun said in a TV blind date show that if he couldn't find a rich second generation with assets of 50 million, then his figure, age, personality, and character would all be ruined.
And her words exploded on the Internet in an instant, and people speculated about the origin of this girl whose "heart is higher than the sky".
Some people even questioned whether she was emulating the Mano who "would rather cry in the BMW than laugh in the back seat of the bicycle" back then? Or did she partner with the program team to act in the script to gain traffic?
With the popularity of blind date variety shows,In 2014, Zhejiang Satellite TV launched the program "Blind Date to Win", which was deeply loved by the audience. In this wave of craze, a female college student named Zhou Lanjun attracted the attention of the audience because of her unique mate selection criteria.
Zhou Lanjun was born in 1992 in Bengbu, Anhui Province, to a loving family, where her father was a highly educated researcher and her mother worked in the university's logistics office. The girl's grandparents were also intellectuals and taught chemistry at the local high school.
The girl's father had a profound influence on her. He not only imparted valuable knowledge to his daughter, but also taught her the importance of independent thinking and the courage to pursue her dreams.
Under the influence of reform and opening up, Zhou Lanjun's father resolutely decided to give up his job at the scientific research institute and moved his family to Xiamen, Fujian Province. After that, her father worked as an engineer in a state-owned enterprise in Xiamen, and her mother quit her job to become a full-time wife.
Her father's decision not only changed the family's financial situation at the time, but also provided a new living environment and learning opportunities for the girl.
In the process of learning and growing, the little girl has maintained excellent performance. From elementary school to high school, the other party has always been the best in the class, and has won various awards many times.
Her hard work made her stand out in the college entrance examination and was successfully admitted to Zhejiang Gongshang University. During his university years, he still maintained good study habits and even won a scholarship.
However, as she grew older, Zhou Lanjun gradually began to feel pressure from her peers. He found it difficult to fit into their circle because they were older and more mature than the students.
In addition, her expectations for her future married life also made her anxious. She longs to find a partner who is rich, understands her, and supports her, but her peers don't seem to meet her expectations.
In order to solve this problem, Zhou Lanjun began to try to use modern technological means to find true love. The other party submits their personal information to multiple blind dates**. I hope to find my own "Prince Charming" through these online platforms. At the same time, she also participated in offline blind date shows.
In the show, the girl makes no secret of her preference for the rich second generation. She made it clear that she only considers the rich second generation in big cities with an annual income of tens of millions.
And there is no interest in those rich generation, potential stocks or rural rich second generation. Because in her opinion, only such a partner can be compatible with herself.
The other party thinks that if he can't marry the second generation of the rich city, then his appearance, figure, morality, personality and even soul are meaningless. For her, finding a rich second generation is not only a way to realize personal value, but also a measure of success in life.
The program team was surprised and interesting by Zhou Lanjun's "wonderful" remarks, but they still respected the girl's choice and began to look for a suitable blind date according to the other party's requirements.
In this process, the program team also tactfully reminded the girl that her mate selection standards may be a little too high, but the other party did not waver because of this. So will Zhou Lanjun finally be able to find a rich second generation that meets her standards?
After passing the registration, the program team has been actively looking for male guests who meet Zhou Lanjun's requirements. After a series of matchmaking, they finally found a blind date for them.
The man's name was Beta, and his family owned several companies, which perfectly met the standards of a girl. However, while she waited for Beta to show up at the date with great anticipation, the other party released the pigeons impromptus.
He said that Zhou Lanjun attaches too much importance to material things and ignores the importance of feelings. However, his rich second-generation good brother Pipiru was very interested in this girl, and contacted the program team to express his willingness to accept the girl's date request.
This time, Zhou Lanjun still came to the date in advance to wait, and Pipiru also arrived at the agreed hotel on time, and the two started their first conversation.
Zhou Lanjun clearly expressed her requirements for her future partner, she hopes that the other party will not only have enough wealth, but also have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong and a pragmatic attitude. At the same time, it is also required that after the two get married, the children born must be handed over to the mother-in-law to take care of.
After hearing this, Pipiru couldn't help but question the girl's ideaHe thinks that the other party's thinking is too idealistic, ignoring the practical problems in real life, and at the same time, she talks about the plan after marriage as soon as she comes up, which is completely impolite.
However, Zhou Lanjun has a high opinion of herself, emphasizing her independence of personality and the pursuit of life values. She has a clear plan for the future, including entering the entertainment industry after being admitted to graduate school. Unfortunately, these grand goals seemed too far out of reach for Pipiru.
So the two haven't communicated for too long, and the male guest said that he really couldn't communicate with the woman, so he ended the date early.
After the blind date, Pipiru told the program team that there are big conceptual differences and value conflicts between them, and the other two must put in more effort and compromise if they want to really come together. So in the end, Zhou Lanjun still failed to find his favorite rich second generation in the show.
From Zhou Lanjun, we can see that true happiness does not only depend on the wealth of the other party, but on the mutual understanding and respect between two people.
After this failed blind date, will Zhou Lanjun reflect on his thoughts and values? What kind of life does she live now?
The name Zhou Lanjun once sparked heated discussions on the Internet, and she was called a "gold worshipper" because of her remarks on TV shows.
At that time, the girl's remarks on the program "Blind Date to Win" caused huge controversy, and many people questioned and ridiculed the little girl's views.
Some netizens even ridiculed her as a "sexual" version of many greasy men, using this incident to satirize those men who have poor conditions but have many requirements for their partners.
These remarks pierced Zhou Lanjun's heart like sharp thorns, making her realize the impact of her immature values. After experiencing pain and reflection, she decided to apologize publicly and said that she had given up the obsession of finding a rich second generation to marry.
After the change, she chose to return to Xiamen to start a business, and also established a network technology company, which embraced a beautiful new life with her own efforts and wisdom.
Although he already has considerable wealth after working, he has not given up the pursuit of knowledge, and the other party still insists on reading and studying to continuously improve himself.
Today, nine years later, Zhou Lanjun looks back on his former youth and frivolity, saying that he was too young and vigorous at that time, and acted impulsively.
Fortunately, he found the right direction in his later studies and life, and gradually grew into a mature and stable person. Now she understands that happiness is not determined by wealth, and family and relationships are the key to life.
Although Zhou Lanjun is still single, her life is extremely fulfilling. On her social accounts, people can see her happily taking photos with her family, and she can also be seen enjoying life in colorful entertainment activities such as painting, archery, and cooking.
Although there are still some keyboard warriors on the Internet who attack and smear her for no reason, these negative voices have not affected her firm steps in the slightest.
So everyone can make mistakes, and the key is whether you are willing to learn from your mistakes and continue to grow and improve. She used her own experience to prove that as long as she is willing to work hard and pursue her dreams in a down-to-earth manner, she will one day get the results she wants.
Whether it is a small achievement in his career or an emotional experience in life, Zhou Lanjun has shown his tenacity and bravery. She is constantly trying and growing along the way in life, and she has always maintained an attitude of self-awareness.
Even though she is now a single aristocrat, that special person will definitely appear in her life. So how will Zhou Lanjun face the next challenge in the future?