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Wen Feiyu. 
In this life, people first learn to be a man, and then learn to do things. In fact, you can't always do what you want, you must learn to take care of others, and you must also know how to maintain your own bottom line.
To be a man with a bottom line, there are also principles, to keep their own bottom line and principles, not to lose themselves for the sake of profit and money, to control their own behavior, to be a person with good character, to be a person who is not greedy, to be a contented person, to be a kind and sincere person, this is the foundation of being a man.
To be a man, we must also know how to be moved, remember the good of others, cherish the people around us, know how to tolerate and treat others well, don't kill people, leave room for others is to leave a way out for ourselves, we must do a good job of ourselves, do a clear conscience, in order to let ourselves live with peace of mind.
1. Be a man, don't be public, and always learn to keep a low profile.
When a person finally climbs to a high position, he must not forget how hard he has been along the way, and he must cherish his current position, and do not lose himself because of gains and losses, otherwise it will hurt more if he falls from a high place.
After Dongbao became the general manager, he began to change, began to be unsteady, always very high-profile, and even felt that he was already a big name, and he didn't need some small factories to cooperate, and he blindly cut off some customers, blindly believed in the words of some people, invested indiscriminately, messed up production, and didn't pay attention to the product itself, so he gradually lost his advantage, and even put the group in crisis.
Therefore, being a man really can't be publicized, the sky is crazy and rainy, people are crazy and woe, a person is always very high-profile, can not do things in a down-to-earth manner, and because of the good and obedient words of some people, he will lose his heart, let himself make a big mistake, and even take his own life.
Second, to be a man, you must know how to distinguish between right and wrong, and learn to listen to persuasion.
Dongbao of "Big River", it is when he gets close to some people who are not right-minded, he gradually loses his true heart and makes himself anxious for quick success.
However, when some people around him saw the changes in Dongbao, kindly reminded him, told him to pay attention, told him to adjust in time, not blindly, not squandered money at will, he just didn't listen, he became the general manager, and the car he sat in was actually more than one million, and listened to the villain's words, saying that this car was worthy of his current identity, and began to not distinguish between right and wrong, and even the honest people around him were angry with him, because he maintained the villain, and the fault was attributed to the honest man, and finally the technician left, The danger he encountered was even greater.
In this life, people should cherish the people who really think about you, and they must know how to listen to persuasion, don't listen to slander, otherwise they will suffer.
3. To be a man, you must know how to be down-to-earth.
In "Big River", he admires the loyal and rich person, just like his name, loyal to himself, and a small wealth is peace.
When Toho came to see his pig farm, he said that his scale was too small, and asked him to expand it somewhat.
But Zhongfu said that there is no need, it is already good now, and life is okay.
After Toho left, Zhongfu's wife came back, and his wife asked Zhongfu why he didn't do what Toho said, and Zhongfu said that Toho had now floated away, and he only did things according to his own preferences, and he spent the money in the village, which was not his own. And he said that he was down-to-earth, spent his own money, had nothing to worry about, and lived with peace of mind.
Therefore, to be a man is to be like a loyal and rich, to do things in a down-to-earth manner, not to be ambitious, only to be worthy of your own heart, to work hard, and to get by your own efforts is the best life.
In this life, people must live with a clear conscience, and they must also stand up to the sky, learn to distinguish between right and wrong, see the hearts of others, and distinguish who is good and who is bad, so as to gain true feelings and good popularity in their own lives, and make themselves better.
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