"Any relationship needs to be honest. You're honest with me, I'm honest with you, and it's no joke for either of us. ”
A good relationship is never just about giving. Go in both directions.
The most enduring relationship must be honest with both parties.
01 Friends.
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "Friendship is the most affectionate love confession. ”
The best love in the world is constant waiting.
I'll be here whenever you need me.
Xiaoyu and her husband are high school classmates. They have known each other, married, and had children for almost 10 years, but their relationship has always been harmonious.
At the party, everyone asked Xiaoyu for advice on how to keep love fresh.
Ms. Xiaoyu said that although her husband is very busy, he comes home every week to prepare a hearty meal for her, and the two talk while eating, sharing each other's latest situation and discussing family issues. Matters. Discuss.
Even if the two have nothing to say, it can be especially comforting to just be together silently.
The quality of a relationship does not depend on whether two people get along, but on how much time and energy each person puts into each other.
Companionship is the most affectionate confession. Only by supporting each other and facing the ups and downs of the journey together can two people go further.
02 Eager to share.
Someone once said:
A comfortable relationship is one where you can talk about any topic while the other person can continue the conversation. Not because the other person is well-informed, but because the other person is interested. ”
In any relationship, sharing should only be done if there is a response. In order to build a successful relationship, it is essential to share often.
There is one such story.
An inconspicuous street worker falls in love with a beautiful and dignified newspaper reporter.
At the first meeting, the young worker had a sausage-like mouth and a wild face, and the girl was "scared" away by the appearance of the young man.
However, the young man did not give up. He often writes letters to girls, sharing his life experiences, feelings and endless admiration for her.
I drank too much at lunch. The owner told me to go out on the spot because I was drunk. ”
Mom doesn't like me. ”
I had a strange dream today. ”
Fei Feifei, come back quickly......In her letters, the girl felt the extraordinary talent, knowledge and humor of this young man, as well as his passionate love and affection.
So the girl began to reply.
The relationship between the two people is getting closer and closer, and they talk about everything, including family, troubles, and work.
They are Wang Xiaobo and Li Yinhe.
Love is mutual. If there is a response, love does not disappear.
I read the following passage: "The essence of love is the never-ending desire to share. ”
A good relationship is inseparable from the willingness of both parties to share what they have seen and heard each other. This is also inseparable from effective communication between the two sides.
03 Tolerances.
We have a loving couple in our community who have been married for 50 years.
For so many years, they haven't blushed once.
Since we got married, my grandpa ate everything my grandma made and was never a picky eater.
Grandma likes to go out and play, so Grandpa goes with her. The two went to a lot of places.
Grandpa loves photography and likes to record his favorite scenes with his camera, and grandma is also supportive.
Listen to them talk about the secrets to a successful marriage.
Grandma smiled and said that mutual tolerance is the most important thing.
Although the two have different customs and habits, they respect and tolerate each other in daily life, and live happily together.
If you want a long-term relationship, you need the joint efforts and support of both parties.
All good relationships are mutual.
May your efforts be understood and appreciated by others.
May your contribution be understood and cherished by someone after all.
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