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Introduction. Nowadays, with the rapid development of society, many families will have all kinds of emotional problems, such as cheating in marriage, or the husband and wife will choose to divorce because they are tired of seeing each other for a long time, some people will choose to spend the rest of their lives alone after divorce, but some people still have a yearning for love, and they will look for their second spring.
Live alone with two people, as long as it is the life you like, then you will live very well, often looking for a second spring is hoping to have a companion after getting old, hoping to have someone to talk to you, like a family with children, Xia Donghai and Liu Mei are very good second-married families.
However, there are many families that have problems after the second marriage, some of them are caused by the fact that they have not dealt with the marital disputes with their ex-wives and ex-husbands, and some of the second-married families have not managed their property well, and a lot of ** has occurred.
The most important thing in marriage is to be sincere to each other, since you have chosen to get married, you must be responsible for the future of two people. In the marriage ** track, looking for the other half in the marriage is disrespectful to the other party. If you had known that there would be such a day, then you should not choose to get married in the first place, so as to harm the future of the other party.
In marriage, there is one of the most important things, and that is that the man must be responsible. As the pillar of the family and an important financial income of the family, the man needs to stand up when the family is in danger, and he needs to be responsible for the woman and be the umbrella behind the woman.
The protagonist of the story we are going to talk about today is called Xie Dongshan, Xie Dongshan and his ex-wife Jiang Meihua have been together for more than ten years, but the two left each other because of emotional discord. Xie Dongshan met Yang Caiying in the second year after the divorce, and the two got married after getting along for a while, but Jiang Meihua suddenly returned to Xie Dongshan's home, claiming that she must live with them, what happened?
In the end, what happened between Xie Dongshan, Jiang Meihua and Yang Caiying? What was the final outcome of this matter? How does Xie Dongshan express his position? Today, we walk into the story of Xie Dongshan.
Xie Dongshan and Jiang Meihua divorced.
Xie Dongshan and Jiang Meihua met when they were young, and the two met by chance. Jiang Meihua is beautiful, Xie Dongshan is handsome, and the two of them fell in love with each other at first sight, so Xie Dongshan began to chat with Jiang Meihua frequently.
Xie Dongshan began his pursuit of Jiang Meihua, and went to wait downstairs in her company when Jiang Meihua got off work, and prepared some holiday gifts for Jiang Meihua on some small festivals every day. Xie Dongshan can always appear when Jiang Meihua is most helpless, and can always help her, as if Jiang Meihua, no matter what happens, Xie Dongshan can appear as soon as possible.
So after going back and forth, Jiang Meihua and Xie Dongshan confirmed their relationship. The two often hang out together after falling in love, and they can often be seen showing their photos on social platforms. Not long after falling in love, the two embarked on the palace of marriage.
In fact, Jiang Meihua and Xie Dongshan's two families are not very wealthy, but both of them know the importance of hard work, so after marriage, Jiang Meihua and Xie Dongshan devoted themselves to their work, worked hard to make money, created a good atmosphere for this family, and did not forget to promote the relationship between the two while working.
In the first few years of marriage, the two put all their energy into work and had a certain amount of savings. So in the third year after marriage, Jiang Meihua gave birth to a daughter to Xie Dongshan, and they also had the crystallization of their own love, Xie Dongshan was more serious about his work, more attentive, and more hardworking, and Jiang Meihua took care of this daughter at home wholeheartedly.
It may be that after giving birth to a child, Jiang Meihua often quarrels with Xie Dongshan for no reason, but, but Xie Dongshan knows that maybe Jiang Meihua has no income at home and is anxious, so Xie Dongshan often tolerates it, but Xie Dongshan's blind tolerance has caused Jiang Meihua to become more and more arrogant.
Jiang Meihua began to quarrel with Xie Dongshan more often, and after tolerating it once or twice, Xie Dongshan endured it, but such a high-frequency quarrel made Xie Dongshan can't help it, and can't help but go back.
Sometimes after a quarrel, Xie Dongshan went back to his parents' house by himself in order to let his wife relax. After Xie Dongshan returned to his parents' house, he would tell his mother what happened at home, and his mother was also very good at distinguishing between right and wrong, and knew who was right and who was wrong in these things.
When Jiang Meihua finds out that Xie Dongshan has not returned home at night, she will go to Xie Dongshan's mother's house, usually after Jiang Meihua goes to Xie Dongshan's mother's house, it is inevitable that she will quarrel with his mother, and the two often quarrel because of this matter.
So when Jiang Meihua and Xie Dongshan were married for 17 years, Jiang Meihua suddenly filed for divorce, Xie Dongshan didn't know why, but the two still separated, Jiang Meihua went to Guangdong to work alone, and Xie Dongshan lived in the villa where the two of them worked together.
Jiang Meihua and Xie Dongshan are legally divorced, and the two also signed a divorce agreement, but on the divorce agreement, Xie Dongshan wrote a message that within two years of the divorce, if Jiang Meihua changes her mind, she can return to live in this villa at any time, which is also one of the reasons why Jiang Meihua will come back unreasonably.
Xie Dongshan and Yang Caiying got married.
Just a year after Xie Dongshan and Jiang Meihua divorced, Xie Dongshan met a woman named Yang Caiying on the Internet, and the two met through social platforms, and soon made a request to meet. So, Xie Dongshan and Yang Caiying ** met.
One of the things that Yang Caiying is better than Jiang Meihua is that Yang Caiying's mood is very stable. If two people are walking on the road with Xie Dongshan at the same time, if a car passes by and wets the woman's pants, then Jiang Meihua's first reaction will be to complain about Xie Dongshan and why he didn't protect himself. But Yang Caiying will immediately come up with a solution, whether to go home and change it, or to buy a new pair of pants.
Therefore, because of the stability of Yang Caiying's character, Xie Dongshan entered the palace of marriage with Yang Caiying a year after divorcing Jiang Meihua, and when Xie Dongshan's mother saw Yang Caiying, she also praised her endlessly. Yang Caiying often massages Xie Dongshan's mother and soaks her feet, and often brings her various supplements.
In the following year, Yang Caiying and Xie Dongshan lived very happily, the two of them ran the small family together and lived in the villa together, but two years later, a sudden day disrupted their normal rhythm of life.
Jiang Meihua is back suddenly!
Suddenly, one day, when Xie Dongshan was still sleeping, while Yang Caiying was cooking in the kitchen, the woman named Jiang Meihua came back, and as soon as she came back, she threw all the things that could be dropped in the house to the ground, and took a stick to hammer those things like refrigerators and washing machines. , Xie Dongshan woke up to the sound of the plate breaking.
Yang Caiying saw this scene and hurriedly stopped Jiang Meihua's behavior, at this time, Yang Caiying didn't know who Jiang Meihua was, when Xie Dongshan woke up, he saw Jiang Meihua appear in the room, his first reaction was shock, and the second was a little helpless.
Xie Dongshan didn't know what Jiang Meihua's purpose was for coming back this time? Yang Caiying also didn't know why his divorced ex-wife suddenly came back. And the answer given by Jiang Meihua was that Yang Caiying ruined her marriage.
Obviously, the two have divorced, why did Jiang Meihua say that Yang Caiying ruined their marriage? Jiang Meihua said that because Yang Caiying appeared in the family during the marriage of the two people, Yang Caiying moved into the villa the day after the divorce.
But the two obviously met a year after the divorce, why did Jiang Meihua say this? When everyone asked if there was any substantive evidence, Jiang Meihua said no.
Then, Jiang Meihua took out the certificate of divorce from Xie Dongshan, which said that if you want to return to this villa within two years of divorce, you can come back to live at any time. Therefore, Jiang Meihua came back again, and she saw that the current hostess of the house had become Yang Caiying, and she was very unconvinced, so she wanted to compete with her for the position of hostess.
Xie Dongshan, who was caught in the middle, didn't say anything at this time, Yang Caiying continued to cook in the kitchen, and Jiang Meihua sat on the sofa in the living room, playing with her mobile phone with Erlang's legs, as if she was already the hostess.
Xie Dongshan did not make a statement for a long time, and Yang Caiying could only seek help from outsiders, so Yang Caiying found reporters and the mediation team, hoping to mediate the relationship between their family.
When the mediation team came to their home, did the situation improve?
So the mediation team came to Yang Caiying's house and verified the situation, first of all, they needed to take a look at the original divorce certificate, Jiang Meihua also took out the divorce certificate, which really said that if Jiang Meihua wants to go home in two years, she can come back at any time and continue to live in this villa.
Then, the mediation team came to Xie Dongshan's mother's home to ask Xie Dongshan's mother's opinion on the two daughters-in-law. For Jiang Meihua and Yang Caiying, Xie Dongshan's mother is completely two extremes, she hates Jiang Meihua to the core, and Yang Caiying is like picking up a baby.
Jiang Meihua came back suddenly, Xie Dongshan's mother was also very angry, she obviously chose to divorce and choose to go to Guangdong, she estimated that she couldn't get along there, so she thought of coming back to find Xie Dongshan.
Then the mediation team went to Jiang Meihua's side again and asked her if there was any substantial evidence to prove that Yang Caiying was a junior, the one who intervened in their relationship. Jiang Meihua said no, but it must be unrealistic for him to find another person just a day after the divorce, but Yang Caiying took out their chat records and proved that they only met a year later.
The whole thing became simpler, that is, Jiang Meihua wanted to return to live in this villa, but she could no longer come in as a hostess, so she was very unconvinced.
The investigation team is very clear about the ins and outs of the whole thing, and they have also found the breakthrough point of this matter, that is, Jiang Meihua, and they asked Jiang Meihua what she wanted to do so as not to disturb the family's life. Jiang Meihua told the investigation team that what I wanted was to come to live in this villa and return to this home, but Yang Caiying's clear answer was impossible.
Isn't it ridiculous to go back to live in her ex-husband's house even though they are already divorced? But from beginning to end, Xie Dongshan didn't come out to say a word, I don't know if it was because of his nostalgia for his ex-wife, or because he didn't want to be the breakthrough in this matter, so Xie Dongshan has been in a state of not expressing his position. But seeing that the two women were about to fight, the mediation team also proposed to solve the matter with money.
Jiang Meihua said yes, as long as Xie Dongshan gave her 250,000, she would never appear in this house again and disturb their lives. 250,000, this is not something that an ordinary family can take out, so Xie Dongshan said to Jiang Meihua, then you give me 250,000, and the two of us will move out of this house.
Hearing this, Jiang Meihua was anxious again, she began to backtrack, saying that I don't want a penny for 250,000 yuan, I just live in this house, isn't this villa two-story? They live on the floor below, I live on the attic floor, and I don't want a penny. Obviously, Jiang Meihua can't come up with so much money, but for the sake of face, she can't say it so bluntly.
The whole thing has reached an impasse again, and the mediation team began to persuade them one by one, and the breakthrough of the whole thing must be Xie Dongshan, as long as Xie Dongshan speaks, then this matter actually has a result, but he has not expressed his position.
So the outcome of the matter is still unknown, whether Yang Caiying and his family have resolved this issue peacefully, and we have to wait for the next reporter's interview. There may be several reasons why Jiang Meihua suddenly appeared at Yang Caiying's house.
The first is that she is alone with her 16-year-old daughter in Guangdong, her salary is relatively low, and she can't afford to support two people's living expenses, she remembered that she lived with Xie Dongshan before, and she didn't need to pay extra expenses such as water and electricity, so she wanted to return to this home again to reduce her burden.
The second is that after the divorce, Jiang Meihua still has a little affection for Xie Dongshan, and she doesn't want to leave him so hastily. There may be another reason, that is, as a mother, she wants to give her daughter a perfect childhood, and she doesn't want her daughter to experience the pain of parental separation when she is a child, so she wants to return to Xie Dongshan's home.
Epilogue. In any case, no matter what the reason, it is not right for Jiang Meihua to disturb other people's lives, she can't destroy a family that is now complete because of her own selfish interests, which is also unfair to Yang Caiying, I hope Xie Dongshan can come forward as soon as possible to solve this problem.