Mr. Lu Xun once said: "Break your legs, give you a pair of crutches, and then tell you: Without me, you can't even walk, so you have to know how to be grateful." This sentence reveals a common phenomenon in real life, that is, in the process of helping others, sometimes people have a dependency mentality. With this title in mind, this article aims to provoke everyone's thinking about gratitude, autonomy and love.
First, we need to understand what it means to be grateful. What Mr. Lu Xun said is not to ask us to really be grateful to those who deliberately create difficulties for us, but to know how to thank those who really care about us and help us when we get help. In this world, no one is obligated to help you, and everyone's contribution is worth cherishing and grateful. Therefore, when we receive the love of others, we must learn to be grateful and know how to reciprocate.
However, in real life, we often see many people who accept the help of others with peace of mind and take the care of others for granted. The emergence of this phenomenon is largely due to the fact that some people dote on their children too much, and do everything for their children, so that children lose their ability to be independent. This kind of love is actually a kind of hurt. As Mr. Lu Xun said, when you are used to the help of others, you will feel that you cannot live independently. This kind of dependency can make people vulnerable and helpless in the face of difficult situations.
Second, we need to recognize the importance of independence. In the process of growing up, a person must learn to face and solve problems by himself. Only in this way can we go farther and farther on the road of life and become more and more stable. Of course, this does not mean that we should completely abandon the help of others, but we should strive to improve our own abilities and become self-reliant while receiving care. In this way, you can truly become a responsible and responsible person.
So, how can you be cared for while maintaining your independence? First of all, we must learn to respect others and cherish their contributions. When others help us, we need to express our sincere gratitude and turn that love into motivation to move forward. Secondly, we must have the courage to face difficulties and dare to challenge ourselves. The setbacks and difficulties in life are indispensable for us to grow up. It is only through this that we can become stronger. Finally, we need to learn to care for others and pass on our love. In the process of helping others, we can not only experience the power of caring, but also exercise our own abilities.
Finally, we need to realize that gratitude is not only a return for others, but also a love of life. Only when a person is grateful can he enjoy life better and embrace life. In this caring world, we should not only be grateful for the help of others, but also for the beauty of life. Let us cherish every sunny day and embrace every hopeful future with a grateful heart.
In short, Mr. Lu Xun's words are both vigilant and caring. When we receive help from others, we must learn to be grateful and cherish love. At the same time, we need to maintain our independence and self-determination and face life's challenges bravely. Only in this way can we become a responsible and responsible person who can give back to the world with love. Let us work together to create a better future with gratitude.