I used to be a very obedient person, always afraid of offending others or making them dislike me. I was always careful to meet the needs and expectations of others, but I was afraid to express my true thoughts and feelings. However, instead of earning me the respect and approval of others, this made me feel more tired and helpless.
The ancients said: "A good man can be bullied, and a good horse can be ridden." "Excessive weakness can only be exploited by others, and your human dignity will be hurt. Trampled underfoot.
I went to a party once. During dinner, a friend reminded me that people are always too weak to be bullied. He said to me, "You have to learn to say no, you have to take a stand so that people can respect you. His words woke me up from my dreams.
Over the next few days, I learned to refuse unreasonable demands from others and to assert my dignity. Gradually, I noticed that other people's attitudes towards me were changing. They stopped seeing me as a weakling, they began to respect me and appreciate me. Thanks to this, I have also become more confident.
American actor Mel Gibson. Mel Gibson is a controversial actor who has been criticized for some of his remarks and actions. However, despite this, Mel Gibson did not back down or compromise, stuck to his beliefs and positions, and continued to fight and fight. In the end, with his talent and hard work, he won the recognition and respect of the audience and the industry.
It is often said that life is like a play, and everything depends on your acting skills. But in real life, we shouldn't treat life as a drama, but be our true selves. Don't lose your essence in order to please others, and don't become too weak for fear of losing. We must believe that true friendship and love are based on mutual respect.
There are no perfect people in this world. We all have our strengths and weaknesses, and there is no need to feel inferior because of our shortcomings. In his autobiography, Trump said, "I never wanted to be someone my friends liked. I just want to be someone I like. "We have to accept ourselves and face life's challenges bravely. You have to learn to face it.
You don't have to be submissive in front of anyone unless you owe them something. Your weakness will only make the other person look down on you more. We need to learn to be ourselves and stick to our principles and end goals. Only in this way can we earn the respect of others and live a better life.
From now on, let's work together to become a better version of ourselves, no longer weak, no longer confused, confident, strong, and brave. Write your own great chapter with your honesty and courage.