It has been said that the most beautiful qualities in life are compassion and kindness. I'm convinced of this, but over the years, I've come to understand that compassion is built on strength, and kindness must have a strong foundation. It often backfires and ends up hurting itself.
I think many people have had the experience of being nice to someone, paying a lot of money, and then being betrayed in the end. At this time, we often feel very distressed and have a sense of loss. That's because we don't have any advantages or interests.
I have a friend who is a very kind person and is nice to everyone. She has a colleague who often borrows money but never pays it back. My friend felt that the colleague needed help and lent her money. But when she needed money, the colleague turned her down. My friend was very disappointed and sad.
This story teaches us that compassion and kindness must have power and substance. If we don't have the strength and no profits, we will be used and deceived. We need to learn how to say no and have our own principles and end goals. Pandering to others will only make you lose yourself and get into trouble.
Compassion and kindness should be based on knowing oneself and respecting others, not unprincipled handouts or help. Compassion requires strength and good judgment to know when to help and when to leave someone to fend for themselves. Kindness must have a foundation. In other words, you need to know how to protect yourself from falling into the bottomless pit of need.
Of course, having strength and a bottom line does not mean that you must be ruthless and ruthless. It's important to recognize your abilities and build your income. I like the saying, "Kindness is a choice, but not a necessity." "We can choose kindness, but we also need to have our own bottom line. Only in this way can we truly protect ourselves and help others at the same time.
Compassion must have strength, gentleness, and substance. Otherwise, it's only yourself who gets hurt. True compassion and kindness can only be attained by learning to be kind to oneself and to be sensitive to the difficulties of others. We must keep this sentence in mind and strive to be a kind person with strength and perseverance.
We often hear the saying, "It's hard to be a good person, it's easy to be a bad person," but this statement isn't entirely true. It is not difficult to be a good person, the difficult thing is to be both kind and draw conclusions. Only then can we truly protect ourselves and our loved ones.