Some people seem to be gentle, but they hide their edges; Some words, seemingly plain, are as sharp as a sharp blade.
Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun's marriage was once like a bright firework, and it was also gorgeous. At the beginning, Chen Junsheng said affectionately to Luo Zijun, who had just left college: I will raise you! Let Luo Zijun sigh: If you get this beloved, what more can you ask for. They walked hand in hand through the sweetness of their youth.
A few years later, as time passed, the trivialities, contradictions, and boredom of the marriage gradually eroded their relationship.
Chen Junsheng's success in the workplace made him gradually lose his way, and he and Luo Zijun, who only knew how to talk about food, clothing and entertainment, gradually did not have much in common, coupled with his long-term busy work, the communication between the two became less and less, and trust gradually collapsed.
In Luo Zijun's view, she is very satisfied with her life: her husband has a successful career, her children are well-behaved and sensible, her family does not have to worry about food and clothing, and she does not have to work hard every day like other women, this kind of life is the envy of many women.
Chen Junsheng, although he has been smooth sailing in the workplace, after all, he is middle-aged, and the pressure of the workplace and the mid-life crisis are gradually coming, which is also overdrawing his energy and emotions.
And he is the spiritual and economic pillar of a big family, the various expenses of his small family, and the financial support for Luo Zijun's family from time to time, has made him a little tired.
If it is his responsibility to support his family, he can still accept this, so be tired. But not only that, he also had to deal with Luo Zijun's various groundless suspicions to prevent Xiao San, and even went to buy necklaces for customers with his beautiful assistant, which made Luo Zijun jealous, and even made him unable to get off the stage from the company.
For him, home, that once warm harbor, with children and a beautiful wife, has now become a place he does not want to face, and the person he loved the most has now become unreasonable with the passage of time, not to mention how many places have a common heart.
Not far from home, he, like many other men, would rather sit in the car in a daze than go back early, because he can be himself when he is alone, and when he returns home, he will have to take on the responsibilities of his husband and father, and even have to accept all kinds of suspicions and interrogations, and his heart is tired.
Chen Junsheng felt as if his marriage was in deep darkness, unable to find light, and he was very confused.
Later, a ray of light finally entered his heart in the darkness, Ling Ling's appearance, gentle, considerate, sensible, and understanding, isn't this exactly what Chen Junsheng can't get at home? Isn't that exactly what you're looking for? Slowly, he couldn't do without this light.
But when he suddenly looked back, he seemed to remember the promises and oaths he had given to Luo Zijun, so he hesitated and was depressed, he didn't know where he should go and what choice he should make.
At this time, Ling Ling's gentle but powerful words rang in his ears from time to time: "You just send me to the subway entrance, if you go back late, your wife will be unhappy."
I didn't force you, it's my business to like you." Chen Junsheng was moved: How many people know about themselves!
Ling Ling is envious: Luo Zijun is so lucky, he doesn't have to go to work, he doesn't have to worry about making money, and the child has a nanny, which is something that those of us who sleep enough can't think of.
Yes, under the care of his Chen Junsheng, Luo Zijun lives a worry-free life of food and clothing, but this is something that Ling Ling can't even think of, how can she let a woman who understands herself so well endure hardship?
He said that he once wanted to go to Luo Zijun and live a stable life, so he has been enduring the unsatisfactory married life with Luo Zijun, but no one is a saint, can they endure together?
When the extramarital affair between the two was about to be revealed, Ling Ling thoughtfully said to Chen Junsheng: You put all the responsibility on me, that is, it is my responsibility, and it has nothing to do with you! How empathetic, Chen Junsheng was almost moved to tears.
He knew that this was all Ling Ling's unmoved scheming, and she had grasped Chen Junsheng's psychology and skillfully overcome his weaknesses and weaknesses.
These words are obviously protective and considerate, but secretly they are like sharp blades, directly inserting into the marriage between Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun, so that Chen Junsheng gave birth to guilt, distress and seeds for her Ling Ling, so that he finally mustered up the courage to end his marriage with Luo Zijun and chose to start a new life with Ling Ling.
I have to say that Ling Ling's scheming is deep, and she skillfully uses words and emotional manipulation to successfully break up Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun's already fragile marriage.
Some people blame the breakdown of a marriage on the involvement of a third party or a change of heart on the part of the other party, but this view ignores the problems that may exist in the marriage itself.
When Luo Zijun, who had no idea, had dinner with Ling Ling, Ling Ling said: Some people's marriages have broken down because of their own problems.
Yes, flies don't bite seamless eggs. The breakdown of a marriage is often due to some problems or contradictions within the marriage, and if Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun's marriage is indestructible, then Ling Ling will not be able to shake their marriage no matter how hard she tries her best.
Ling Ling's appearance did become the fuse for the breakdown of Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun's marriage.
Their marriage entered a seven-year itch, Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun did not continue to work hard to manage and maintain this relationship, Luo Zijun's groundless suspicion, excessive monitoring and questioning, and Chen Junsheng's evasion are all buying the groundwork for the breakdown of this marriage.
Even without Ling Ling's appearance, Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun's marriage faces many potential challenges and problems, and if it goes on like this, it may only be a matter of time before it breaks down.
In the same way that people need to work hard to grow, marriage also needs to be carefully managed and maintained, and the time when it is indestructible is when no one can intervene.