Someone said: "In the missed time, that belated love can never make up for the kindness of parents." ”
Our parents supported us to grow up with love and sweat, and when the years passed quietly, they were also slowly getting older.
If these 4 signs appear in the parents, it means that the parents are running out of time, and ask the children to accompany them more so as not to leave regrets.
01 Don't like to exercise, slow to move
Many old people will have this phenomenon: the day before was fine, they were tired of doing some work, and suddenly the whole ** began to hurt, and they slowly moved their bodies against the wall, and this situation was repeated many times.
When parents enter a state of sluggishness, it indicates that parents are running out of time with us.
After the parents reach a certain age, their physical functions decline, and they cannot go out to do various sports as before, so they can only stay at home and watch TV, and walk slowly in and out of the house.
The body begins to become lazy, because their body does not have more physical strength, and then to support the work in their eyes.
While our parents are still around, we need to spend more time with them. Time will not wait for you, and when you have time and money, your parents are gone.
When our parents are old, we should spend more time with them through the later years of our lives.
02 No appetite, bedridden
When parents have no appetite and can't get out of bed, they actually know in their hearts that their time is running out.
At this stage, we should stay by their side and take care of them, so that their parents can feel the love of their children for them during their lifetime.
I once heard such a story:
The elderly mother, who has been bedridden for a year because of physical discomfort, has always felt that she has no appetite and has difficulty swallowing when eating.
Her children tried all kinds of food preparations, but she still had no taste for food.
The weight gradually decreased, and the body became weaker and weaker. Her daughter has been with her every step of the way, and she has not improved, and she only relies on two silkworm chrysalis to maintain daily nutrition at each meal.
Now that my mother's consciousness has become blurred, I have to say that this is a relief for a person who is about to leave.
When our parents are old, we need to do our best to meet their needs and fulfill their wishes.
03 Forgetting the past, memory declines
My mother is 73 years old and was a person with a clear mind and a good memory. But in recent years her memory has been getting worse and worse.
Often, what has been said before, what has been experienced, and then I forget it in the blink of an eye.
A few days ago, she had the flu, weakness, cough, dizziness. She asked my third sister to accompany her to the hospital to check her body and see what the problem was.
My third sister patiently told her that she had just been to the hospital for a brain CT not long ago. It didn't take long for her to forget about it.
In life, in the face of daily chores, she will also forget to look at the pot, and she will often make paste.
Parents forget the past, memory declines, we should understand them, encourage them, and care for them.
Communicate and interact with them more on weekdays, so that they can have a good night's sleep and let them feel the care and warmth of their children.
04 Mental fatigue, often lethargic
Zhuangzi said: If a person who is good at maintaining health is shepherd, he will be whipped according to the latter.
That is to say: "He who is good at taking care of his body and mind is like herding a flock of sheep, and when he sees which part of his body is backward in function, he catches him up."
When parents can't sleep at night, they are mentally tired during the day, and they often fall asleep, which is a normal phenomenon of low yang energy and decreased immunity.
If they are listless and drowsy for a long time, it should be taken seriously, which means that their body is easily tired and falls asleep unconsciously while lying down.
At this time, we have to take them to the hospital every year for a physical examination and pay more attention to their physical condition.
We should also try our best to meet the requirements of our parents and create a comfortable environment for them in their daily lives, so that they can get enough rest for their body and mind.
When parents are old, children should be accompanied more.
Money can never be earned, but the time spent with parents is limited, and if you miss it, you miss it.
In fact, parents don't care much about us, they don't want those expensive things, but they want to see their children do well.
When we have time, we keep in touch with them, often go home to see, have a meal with our parents, and talk about our hearts.
May all parents in the world always have their children by their side.
I also hope that all the children of the world can accompany their parents to enjoy their old age in peace and not leave any regrets for themselves.
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