There are many men and women cheating, are their spouses how unbearable, and by the emotional confusion and influence, there are often preconceived phenomena, always think that the object of cheating is good, will feel that the lover is impeccable and replaced in all aspects, in fact, this is completely an illusion and misjudgment, this is completely caused by the authorities, as long as you stay out of the matter, it is not difficult to find that no matter men and women, as long as they cheat, there are no good people at all, which is easy to define, it can be said that men and women who have extramarital affairs are not of good quality, and they are proved in three ways.
1. Essence. People define people who are bad in their hearts, bad conduct, and often do bad things as bad people, but those who do not do good things have problems with their own nature and consciousness, so you might as well take a look at the situation of the cheater, as we all know, since ancient times, derailment has been classified as a bad thing, which is against social morality and does not conform to people's behavioral norms.
Cheating is undoubtedly recognized as a bad thing, this is a well-known thing, so it goes without saying, and those cheating men and women are also well aware of this reason, but these groups ignore these, openly violated, bold, and are typical knowingly committed, which fully shows that these people have no sense of law at all, and there is no moral bottom line.
2. Harm others and benefit oneself.
In life, people are in harmony and have fair interests, but some people often harm the interests of others and benefit themselves, which is what people call "harming others and benefiting themselves", which is not only disgusted and hated by everyone, but also in everyone's concept and consciousness, they will not think that this kind of behavior is good, but will only be regarded as an extremely bad performance, which is undoubted, so let's analyze the essence of the cheater's behavior, regardless of whether men and women cheat, from a small aspect, first of all, it will hurt themselves and their lover's family.
Not only that, but from a large point of view, it also causes a negative impact and impact on social morality and good customs, produces some bad results, and is also a potential and disguised harm to people, and the reason why they do this is completely to meet their own needs in the process of cheating, purely to try in an extramarital affair, so that they can benefit from it, which is a complete extreme harm to others and self-interest, this kind of person can not be defined as a good person at all.
3. Ruthless.
In reality, there are such people who often ignore the feelings or interests of others, and are indifferent to the pain of others, this is the so-called ruthless person who is extremely repulsive to this kind of person, and no one will classify such people as good people, this is everyone's consensus, so look at those who cheat, for personal selfishness, do not think about the feelings of husband and wife, and betray their loved ones without scruples, and do not consider the feelings of the other party at all, and do not care about the adverse consequences and harm suffered by the other party.
Not only that, this kind of behavior will also endanger the families of both parties, bringing invisible harm to their respective families, but the cheater never wants the harm caused by all this, and insists on going his own way, if the spouse and the other party's family are not related to themselves, they are considered people who have nothing to do with themselves, and they can not care, but the indirect consequences of cheating are that they will hurt their parents and children in disguise, and will make their parents humiliated and humiliated, and they will also worry, worry and worry about it, and live an unhappy life in their later years.
For children, the parents' feelings change, marriage changes, living in a broken family, will directly affect the children, cause huge trauma to the children, whether it is the child's body and mind, or healthy growth is extremely unfavorable, and these people are people who have a direct blood relationship with themselves, and they are also the people they care about and love the most, but they hurt them for their own pleasure and ignore it, can such a ruthless cold-blooded person be called a good person? This is understandable.
From these three points, it is not difficult to see that there are no good people for cheating men and women.