Clothing, such as clothing, food, housing, and transportation, is part of the necessities of each of us, and for many people, clothing is not only a necessity for survival, but also a reflection of personal style and taste.
But for many struggling to survive, personal style and taste are truly a luxury. They no longer have the experience of pursuing quality of life, they just want to survive.
As a result, some people may choose to buy second-hand clothes or wear old clothes that have been discarded by relatives and friends. This can save you a lot of installation costs, but while this method may seem like a money saver, it can actually do more harm than good. My advice to everyone is to never wear someone else's old clothes. These three reasons cannot be ignored.
01: Impact on personal image.
Clothes not only keep you warm and covered, but they also express your personal style. When we buy clothes, in addition to financial considerations, we also consider aesthetic aspects, such as whether the style of the clothes is suitable for us.
Everyone wants to make a good impression on others when they go out, but it's hard to do that while wearing someone else's old clothes. Someone else's clothes will look out of place.
When we buy someone else's second-hand clothes, it is not considered based on your personal characteristics, so it may not fit our body type or personal style, it may not highlight our strengths and characteristics, and it may appear inappropriate. Spirit.
A person's image is an intangible asset. If you can't make a good impression on others at first glance, you may miss out on a lot of opportunities. No matter how much you wear, you can't buy these opportunities.
02: Affect the relationship with relatives and friends.
Some people receive old clothes from relatives or friends. While this was originally an act of kindness, it may have ended up affecting their relationship.
Relatives and friends are kind to give us clothes, but if you are a sensitive person, you will have different thoughts when you receive clothes.
If you dress too well, you will be embarrassed to accept, and if you dress poorly, you will feel looked down upon by relatives and friends.
Even if you receive an old dress from someone else, you may worry that someone else will know it's someone else's old clothes when they wear it, or you may feel guilty about the relative or friend who sent the clothes. And you have low self-esteem, you don't want to see him, or you are afraid of him, and you feel inferior.
The estrangement between people is not necessarily due to conflict, but it can also be due to inner resentment.
Old clothes can alienate relationships, but they do outweigh the benefits.
03: Influence Your Own Spirituality.
It is often said that people rely on clothes and horses rely on saddles, but in fact, clothes can not only improve our physical temperament, but also improve our spiritual temperament.
Everyone has this experience in their lifetime. If one day we wear clothes that we like and are satisfied with, we will be in a good situation.
Some people may think that certain clothes are a "battle", but this one piece of clothing can elevate your entire body.
But instead of making us happy, wearing someone else's old clothes can discourage us.
When we wear clothes that don't belong to us, we feel inferior psychologically and at the same time feel guilty, and we become sensitive because we fear that others will see through our shame.
If the clothes you wear every day are someone else's old clothes, you will lose confidence in yourself psychologically and feel that you don't deserve those good things.
You have a limited amount of money to buy new clothes, but the loss of wearing old clothes is much greater than you think.
Money should be spent wisely. Improper savings will only make you poorer. Buy clothes that suit you, cherish yourself more, and know that you are your wealth and deserve the best.