Have you ever seen a "WeChat-style" love?
It's about two people chatting on WeChat, but after meeting, they have nothing to say.
Many girls wonder why they have never met their boyfriend, but the other person is not as intimate as online, and there is a sense of alienation.
Whenever a girlfriend expresses such feelings, the man accuses her of thinking too much.
Actually, there is nothing wrong with the girl's mood. Because guys who really like you won't talk to you.
01: If I like you, I can't tolerate "online dating" all the time.
As we all know, love requires sensual stimulation. Even if you can't meet every day, you will never tolerate each other's "online dating" all the time.
Although the internet allows two people to communicate thousands of miles apart, this virtual way of communicating does not fill the gap. On the contrary, if you lose touch with them, you will feel even more lost.
If a boy really likes you, he will want to stay with you for a long time and not just continue the relationship online.
When he is restricted, he will not indulge in cheap care and expression, but will chat with you on WeChat, expressing his desire to meet you in a few words.
You know, as long as there is a common topic, two people can discuss it on the Internet for a long time. The difference between a lover and a friend is that you can always sense that the other person wants to see you. Time flies.
Thoughts can be conveyed through words and sounds, but actual emotions and touches cannot.
So, a boy who likes to talk to you, but is not in a hurry to meet you, is definitely not deeply in love with you.
02: If I love you, I won't leave you.
Even with the popularity of artificial intelligence and the development of the Internet, no one wants to spend the rest of their lives with an invisible and untouchable lover.
If you really love someone, you will want to be with them all the time. Even if they care about each other silently, they are reluctant to leave the two places, and comfort the pain of love in a dreamlike way.
A man who can tolerate not seeing you either thinks that you are needed next to his career or that he has other people around him.
But he doesn't want to let go of you, because you are one of his pastimes, chatting with you will have a different experience, and he will also have another stimulus to enrich his life, I need.
He had a different reason. He is exhausted from working hard for your future. If you don't want to do that, then you're not wise. He spends all his time with you. You don't feel safe. …That's because you're unreasonable.
In fact, we don't know who else is around him or who he'll meet next.
He knows you need protection, but he still asks you to mature. This kind of thinking is not enough love.
03: Like you, don't add to the psychological burden.
Even if two people agree not to meet, the psychological burden increases for those who truly love each other. They have to take care of each other's feelings, and we can't help but think.
Even if he spends his free time with you on WeChat and doesn't force you to do anything, you will still feel that something is missing.
A person who truly loves you will understand this, and he will endure the same difficulty.
Such a man, when he encounters a setback, would rather swallow a bitter fruit than let you watch his pain from afar.
He doesn't want to talk to you too much because he doesn't want to add to your worries or frustrations, and he doesn't want you to think too much.
And a boy who likes to share his funny stories with you on the Internet invisibly reveals to you that his life is still great even without you.
In the hit TV series "I Heard You Like Me", Ruan Liuzheng was excited when he saw Ning Zhiqian and his friends together, only to realize that he had been in this world for a long time, only to realize that it did not exist.
She used to think that she was his whole world.
With such a sense of loneliness, Ruan Liuzheng was completely disappointed and left Ning Zhiqian.
A lot of men are smart and don't talk to each other all the time because they don't let their girlfriends know. There are also a lot of stupid guys who stupidly talk excitedly with their girlfriends about everyday events and conflicts with each other. This feeling was deeply felt by those involved.
That's the difference between being able to push yourself and pushing others.
Whether or not you are happy to be liked by someone also depends on the emotional intelligence of the other person.
Some people are thousands of miles away, but they don't feel left out at all; Some people can notice that something is wrong if they don't see each other for three days.
When we get along, whether online or offline, we become the closest people to each other, and we always feel a little more sincere.
Kind and caring girl, don't make excuses for others, take care of yourself and continue to wait quietly for the person you love, this is the future you should live in.