I'm sure everyone is interested in"Gnaw the old people".This term is not unfamiliar, and such people are not uncommon in society.
Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, who have worked hard to cultivate their children for most of their lives, and should have reached the time of recuperation, but they did not enjoy any blessings, but they are still raising the "giant baby" at home!
In recent years, the "gnawing old people" have also been evolving and upgrading, but they don't know that a "new type of gnawing the old" has quietly come to everyone. **10,000 Fans Incentive Plan
This new way of gnawing the old is much more terrifying than the traditional gnawing of the old, and these people seem to have their own "legitimate" reasons for gnawing the old.
The most unthinkable thing is that many parents don't realize it at all, but in fact, they are being squeezed by the "giant baby" at home with this "new type of gnawing old"!
The term "gnawing the old people" has been said more than ten years ago, referring to a group of people who already have the ability to make money independently, but they are still at home, eating and drinking by their parents.
is not only the material gnawing of the old, but even the spiritual gnawing of the old is intensifying, which makes people feel terrible when they think about it.
Everyone knows this traditional "gnawing the old", but now many people have not realized this terrible "new type of gnawing the old".
Many parents still think that their children are very good, but they don't know that they are experiencing this "new type of gnawing old"...
Generally speaking, the "new type of gnawing the old" means that on the surface, it seems that these people have very legitimate and seemingly decent reasons, but in fact, it is a disguised gnawing of the old!
For example, in life, many children who have just graduated from college have reached the age when they should work to earn money, but they claim to their parents that they want to take the graduate school entrance examination or the public entrance examination.
Parents generally feel very relieved to hear that their children are very good, and they think that their children are very good, but they did not expect that day after day, year after year, they will fail one after another in the graduate school entrance examination.
The child is playing games or going out to do other things at home every day, but when asked about her, she is called for studying!
In fact, this is a kind of "new type of gnawing at the old", using legitimate reasons as an excuse, but behind the scenes it is to escape the pressure brought by work and reality, which is essentially a disguised gnawing of the old.
Nowadays, this kind of similar people in society is quietly spreading in many families, and this "new type of gnawing the old" is the most terrifying!
According to online data, the employment rate of college graduates in the country is only about 23%, so what do the rest of the graduates do?
gnawing at the old on the grounds of studying
In fact, in reality, about 80% of graduates choose to take the postgraduate entrance examination and public examination as their goal.
Indeed, these children appear to be excellent children on the surface, they are excellent and they know how to think about their own future.
But in fact, only a small number of these people really went ashore as they wished, and most of the others failed one after another, but they are still at home on the grounds of studying for the exam, and they have no idea of going out to work.
Some children seem to work the surface, but in fact, this kind of effort is really superficial, everything is three minutes of heat, and the time for serious study may add up to less than a few days throughout the year, and the test is not as good as a year.
Some children are twenty-five or sixteen years old, not to mention earning money to give back to their parents, and they are all supporting themselves, but they also need to provide financial support for their own schooling.
These people have reached the age of going to work to earn money to support themselves, but in order to be able to avoid work, they just find a reason to lie down with peace of mind, is there any difference between these people and "gnawing the old"?
gnaw at the old on the grounds of entrepreneurship
In addition to the above, there is another form of gnawing old in reality!
When many graduates just leave school and enter the society, they are full of expectations for the future and fantasize that they can become multimillionaires, so they choose to start their own businesses.
There are also those who work in a small business at the beginning, but after a long time, they feel that they can't satisfy themselves in front of them, and they want to start a business to realize their "rich dream".
took a little bit of his own family background, and then borrowed a large amount of money from his parents for the reason of starting a business and finding a job, but the subsequent failures still couldn't stop him from starting a business.
What's even more terrifying is that some children are just starting a business, but in fact, they have already squandered their parents' hard-earned money.
borrowed money from his parents again and again, but in the end he had no job to do, and all the money was wasted.
When he reached the age of getting married and starting a family, he had no money in his hands, and he had to rely on the hard-earned money that his parents had saved for most of his life to buy a house and a car.
Some are married, but they are still chic, and everything in the family and their children still have to rely on their elderly parents.
Each of them has seemingly decent reasons, but in the final analysis, aren't these groups of people a kind of "gnawing at the old" in disguise?
Nowadays, this phenomenon is quietly spreading in many families, so why is this?
The doting of parents
First of all, the first point may have something to do with many parents, who always feel sorry for their children.
When the child is hit by a little wind and rain, he is distressed, and accepts any request made by the child, and will not refuse, the child says that the wind is the wind, and the rain is the rain.
Under such a long-term "doting", the child has completely become a flower in the greenhouse, and he can't stand a little hardship.
After growing up, he continues to be a "giant baby" under the permissiveness of his parents, and the parents at this time have no choice but to let the child continue to gnaw on his old book!
Employment issues
The second point may be related to the employment environment in today's society, where the pressure of social competition is high, so that many graduates leave the campus and enter the society, but find that they cannot do the job that matches their academic qualifications.
Excellent people grab a lot of them, they are obviously so good, but they are still doing nothing and can't find any good jobs.
If social housing prices rise again and again, an ordinary job has to work hard for many years and can't even pay the down payment, and when it comes to the age of getting married and buying a house, in the face of these ridiculously high housing prices, relying on parents has become the way out for many young people.
Personal psychological problems
In the end, in the end, a lot of the reason has a lot to do with the psychological aspects of these people.
I always fantasize about being very beautiful, but when I really get to the fierce competition in reality and experience a beating, I can't stand a little blow psychologically.
These people begin to think about escaping the pressure of reality, wanting to hide behind their parents, staying at home, and not wanting to go out to find a job to earn money to support themselves.
Nowadays, this "new type of gnawing the old" is much more hidden than the traditional gnawing of the old, many parents do not know that they are actually being gnawed by their children, and many children do not feel that they are "gnawing the old", which is the most terrible.
When children grow up, they will always have to leave their parents and meet the rest of their lives alone, and it is impossible to hide behind their parents for the rest of their lives.
I hope that in the future, there will be fewer and fewer of these "gnawing old people", and every child can grow up independently and meet the ups and downs of life.
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Reference Sources:1] Official** China Youth Daily "."New type of gnawing old"It's popular to hit who should hit the board".
2] Official** Chinese Women's "Full-time Children: A New Kind of Gnawing on the Old or Emerging Careers? 》
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