Once in a reality show, Lin Feng hinted that he was PUA by his previous partner, and he was always forced to accept the other party's wishes, magnifying his inner inferiority complex and becoming unconfident.
His predecessor was Wu Qianyu.
thought it was just Lin Feng's dissatisfaction with the previous term's slander, but after watching the variety show "Love's Study Trip", his statement seemed to be verified.
Wu Qianyu is indeed quite good at suppressing the other half to elevate himself.
For example, he attacked Shi Boxiong's appearance many times.
Or, not at first glance, the handsome guy still looks like a sad frog.
Or, too short to catch her attention at all.
belittled Shi Boxiong's appearance in order to set off his appearance.
Also, define Shi Boxiong's position in her heart.
It's like boiled water in a thermos kettle, you can't remember it at all when you don't use it.
Implication: You're not that important to me.
What is the difference between such a definition and a spare tire?
And, the expectation of marriage: I don't have the confidence to love only one person in this life.
In general, Shi Boxiong, the third generation of the rich and rich, has become a "spare tire" that can be discarded at any time in the mouth of the female star Wu Qianyu.
belittled and dismantled the other half, which once made Shi Boxiong speechless and red-faced, and he unconsciously magnified his inferiority complex when he got along.
Although Wu Qianyu has become hard-mouthed and unrelenting due to the influence of her original family, her mentality can also be seen through her expression.
That is, I want to marry into a wealthy family but I don't want to be pinched by the other party, I want to get the respect and attention of the other party but I have no background, career and capital, so I can only get along with my boyfriend in daily life, so as to reduce the value of the other party at the verbal level, and then establish an independent female personality to raise my own value with the help of **, so as to achieve the effect of being a wealthy daughter-in-law with a straight waist.
In the name of beauty, he does not know how to show weakness, but in fact, it is a manifestation of extreme weakness and lack of self-confidence in the face of unequal strength.
However, this seemingly perfect closed-loop model still seems too immature in front of Shi Boxiong, because his "means" are higher.
Shi Boxiong, who seems to be a cute "little milk dog" who is fascinated by Wu Qianyu, caters to the other party in everything he does, and writes the other party's name in the will, handing over everything to Wu Qianyu.
In fact, he is not so stupid, and even stands on Wu Qianyu's side in words and deeds.
For example, Wu Qianyu didn't leave the "financial power" in three sentences, and almost wrote "You support me after marriage" on her face, but Shi Boxiong just didn't accept the offer, never publicly promised to give the other party a worry-free life, let alone promised to support the other party, but controlled her consumption and changed her consumption outlook.
The beautiful name says: manage your own property well, and only when you are old can you be more wealthy.
For example, Wu Qianyu asked Shi Boxiong on the beach: Can you live without me.
Shi Boxiong didn't answer but lowered his head and pretended to think, while Wu Qianyu quietly observed his reaction, one was thinking about how to answer so that it wouldn't leak, and the other was thinking about how heavy it was in the other party's heart.
As a result, it was Shi Boxiong who won.
His delay in answering has already given an answer, and Wu Qianyu also felt that he could only try his best to hide his disappointment: Without you, I can live, but I am not happy.
Wu Qianyu seems to have given Shi Boxiong a step, but in fact he gave himself a step, and Shi Boxiong's retreat has exposed his defensive heart.
For another example, when Wu Qianyu asked: Would you like to support me when you were sick?
As a result, Shi Boxiong took Wu Qianyu's army again.
is still not a promise or a guarantee, and by the way, put a high hat on Wu Qianyu: I think you can definitely do it.
Originally, Wu Qianyu tested him and made him promise publicly in front of the national audience, but he was put on the shelf, and in the end, he could only cover up his inner discomfort with two fake smiles.
Through the relationship and conversation between the two, it is not difficult to find that these two people are very interesting.
Wu Qianyu always digs a pit for the other party, and will let the other party promise this, and one will guarantee that, so as to consolidate his position and show the momentum of the other party with a high profile.
Shi Boxiong's heart was like a mirror, but he couldn't see through it, and he went around in front of one pit after another, and finally caught the other party off guard.
One attack, one defends, defending each other and testing each other and secretly playing, with only one goal: to win control and not get caught in the chips.
In fact, Wu Qianyu's underlying logic is very simple, let everyone watch her step into a wealthy family with her head held high, but she is too anxious and lacks emotional intelligence.
She never understood that the independent female character she created for herself was not a must for the daughter-in-law of a wealthy family, and it was not wise to belittle the other party and raise her own value, and she couldn't wait to get the commitment and show herself as a sign of weakness.
In contrast, Xi Mengyao is much smarter.
Observing words and looking at the sex, he doesn't talk nonsense, he has children but doesn't give up his career, he talks sweetly but doesn't lose himself, Xi Mengyao can withstand the investigation of the fourth wife Liang Anqi and was finally photographed, and can sit firmly on the throne of "Xi Guifei", relying on the character of an independent woman, nor the other half tied to her appearance, but super high emotional intelligence.
Wu Qianyu, who was in a hurry to get the promise and did not hesitate to dig pits everywhere for the other party to jump, was still a little immature in front of the shrewd rich third-generation Shi Boxiong, and the defense of the wealthy family was far deeper than she imagined.
In the show, Wu Qianyu's various performances are very screwed.
is in love with Shi Boxiong, but he shows a very high posture with his various PUAs and undisguised dislike.
wants to enter a wealthy family, but can't let go of her self-esteem, and wants to prove to the outside world that she is not being manipulated by the other party, and plays the role of an independent woman.
He takes care of his family in his bones, but he pretends to be free and chic, and he looks like he lives for himself.
Obviously, the nerves are very tense for fear that they will be compared to others and not be respected by the people around them, but they create a sense of relaxation.
is so twisted and loves to express itself, and it loses its affinity, just like the various remarks and opinions she made in the show, which are like drafts that are ready to wait for the right time in advance and then output them to everyone one by one, so as to create the smart, calm, and transparent image she wants to establish.
She wants the audience too much to see her talk more about love, too much to show that she is independent and chic, and too much to create an image of economic independence, but this little cleverness is too exposed.
Wu Qianyu looks powerful, but in fact, he is not confident and not smart enough.
Just like Zhang Jiani, who married into a wealthy family back then, she wanted to show Maichao's pursuit of her and her kindness to her, but she didn't even have a wedding, and was abandoned by the wealthy family in the end.
On the contrary, Shi Boxiong looked like a stuffy gourd, but he actually knew it and accurately grasped the other party.
Wu Qianyu advocates a luxurious life, he is extremely frugal, and even the pomp and circumstance of marriage proposal and engagement are small and small, and Wu Qianyu can only follow him.
The more Wu Qianyu behaved and easily grasped him, the more he took retreat as advance, and Wu Qianyu could only admit it.
Does Shi Boxiong love Wu Qianyu?
The answer is yes, but not unconditionally.
Does Wu Qianyu love Shi Boxiong?
The answer is also yes, but only if her decency is maintained.
Looking at the love of wealthy families through their relationship, in addition to love, there are also secret games and competitions.