We encounter all kinds of people and things every day, both good and bad, and we have to accept them no matter what. Since it has come to you, it must have its reason and effect. Good people and good deeds bring you enjoyment; Bad people and bad things teach you to grow. If life is always going well, then you will become a giant baby and will never really grow up.
However, you also know in your own heart that life cannot always be good, and there will always be times when you encounter difficulties and setbacks. If you grow in a greenhouse every day, you will become very vulnerable, and when you encounter adversity, you will be easily defeated, and there is no room for counterattack. So take the difficulties as your own teacher, she is here to teach you to be strong, not to knock you down.
It's like playing a game, only by constantly leveling up and fighting monsters can you gradually become stronger. The previous mini-bosses are all increasing your experience points and increasing your strength, so that you can finally have the ability to face the final boss.
Sooner or later, suffering will never be absent, little by little become stronger, little by little increase in strength, people are slowly growing up, learn to accept all kinds of difficulties in life, this is the calamity you must experience.
When you're feeling down, think about the days gone by. There were many sweet times in my previous life, did I enjoy it very much at that time?
There is a past, there must be a future, hold on, a beautiful and happy life is waiting for you ahead. As long as you are willing to persevere, you will definitely be able to wait until that day comes.
I've experienced a lot of hardships in the past, haven't I survived it too? What is the setback in front of me now, I believe that I can get through it smoothly as I did in the past.
Even if you are facing greater difficulties now than before, then you only need to be a little stronger than before, and you can cope with the past on your own, in fact, it is not difficult to do.
The ups and downs of the past are all fleeting; The ups and downs of the present will also become a thing of the past.
When you are sad for others, you have to realize that you will meet many people in your life, the person in front of you is just a passerby, your world will go out and out of many people, and no one will be able to stay with you forever.
Since others will leave sooner or later, it is better to focus on yourself, learn to please yourself, and learn to be a happy person. That way, whoever comes to you and when they leave your world, you will be able to cope with it easily and will not be as vulnerable as before.
Don't regret it, it's his loss, it's that he doesn't have that blessing. And you can also start a new life, what kind of people you will meet in the future, what kind of surprises will bring you, are very worth looking forward to.
Stop shedding tears for people who don't deserve to be sad and nostalgic, that's punishing yourself, and at the same time nothing will come of it. Instead of living in painful memories, choose to let go and look forward.
Actually, you're happy, but you don't realize it. Others envy you for having a happy home, envy you for having a healthy body, envy that you are still young and have the opportunity to change your destiny. It's not that you're unhappy, it's just that your happiness is in the eyes of others.
Life is short, so it's important to be happy in time and live happily in the moment.