Whether you like it or not, it's clear at a glance.
What matters is whether you accept that he may not be fully committed at some point.
At that moment, you know that he is facing a difficult situation, and your heart becomes heavy.
You also want to hug him warmly and use your strength to clear his thoughts.
However, there are many things that cannot be done.
The only thing you can do is give him time, give him trust, give him space, and let him get through it on his own.
You are willing to be his strong support, supporting him in his time of need.
He struggles alone in his room, while you wait quietly outside the door. If he calls me, I can arrive immediately.
Later, when he walks out of the room with a tired face, you bring him hot poached egg noodles and whisper, "Eat it while it's hot." ”
Love makes a person sensitive, and you can find evidence that he loves you with even the slightest action.
When he is tired, you will ignore the details that he does not love you in his every move.
But emotions don't lie.
When he lets go, you know exactly what that determination means;
When he hates you, those cold eyes;
The look on his face when he forces a smile or tries to please you with a joke can make you feel helpless;
Tough and loves to eat spicy hot pot with you, even if he suffers from mouth ulcers.
When it's cold, I know how to dress myself more.
When food is light, you know how to add salt to enhance the flavor.
When you have been with someone for a long time, you will naturally know in your heart whether you like that person or not.
If the relationship is stressing you out, if you are afraid of exposing the worst of yourself, if you are afraid of falling into a depressed mood or even losing yourself, then you need to choose to break up. Yes.
You know what merciless violence is, what is an excuse to be busy, what is a lie, what is an apology.
Emotionally, you'll find all sorts of reasons to explain his absence.
Intellectually, I understand that there is no need to wait any longer, because he will not be coming back.
In a relationship, nothing can hide evidence that he doesn't love you, but they reflect his attitude.
He may stop loving you one day, but he will never hurt you.
You also know very well that when he can't find time to love you, you will feel sorry for him and want to share his pain.
Your attitude will determine whether he loves you or not.
Even if no one can understand your heartache, you will be grateful as long as someone gives you a shoulder to lean on.
They are so in love with each other that they forget to add salt even when the food is delicious.
No problem. You just need to sprinkle a little salt.
When asked, "Is rock candy OK?" Answer "Yes".
After a while, the rock sugar melts and turns into caramel, making very delicious caramel chicken wings.
So how do we understand the change of heart?
You still love durian cakes, and when you stand at the intersection where we meet, he has already walked to the next intersection to buy you some sugar roasted chestnuts.
It may be a sign of a change of heart, but it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
Love is not limited to specific things.
Love allows us to see the wider world, both material and spiritual.
He encourages you to try new things and expand your cognitive boundaries.
Even after tasting sugar roasted chestnuts, I still love durian cake.
Love is abstract and reflected in His act of love for you.
Nothing can stop someone from taking us into a larger world and trying to make sense of it.
Love is a process that gives us the courage to go out, to explore the world, to feel.
Sometimes your intuition will tell you if he has changed his mind. He starts ignoring your needs, stops sharing his stuff with you, starts comparing you to other people, loses patience with you, and even starts losing his temper at you.
If you keep looking for these signs of a change of heart and piece them together, you can draw a map of why he doesn't love you.
When a relationship lasts for an extended period of time, everyone adjusts their attitudes and behaviors according to the current situation.
Even if you used to feel that he loved you, it is clear that he doesn't love you anymore.
But have you ever wondered: is it because he doesn't love you anymore, or because the way he expresses love has changed and you don't notice?
As a relationship develops, feelings will gradually fade, such as a bouquet of roses no longer surprises, birthday cakes no longer have a sense of ceremony, love words no longer touch the heartstrings, and so on. Maybe. That's how much we love you. Have we become less emotional, or has love become such a daily habit that we are no longer able to distinguish?
signals, the truth is invisible.
It depends on what he wants when he sends this signal. There is a motive behind every signal. Love is in **, there is nowhere to hide. If there is, then there is, and if not, then it does not exist.