Love will make a woman's IQ lower, and it will make a woman die and fall in love with a man desperately.
In order to prove that she loves him, this stupid woman will always pay silently, and for him, she will feel that she should be wronged.
But often a good woman who is willing to give will not be cherished by men.
What people get easily is often not cherished. - Chekhov
Marriage is not the contribution of one person, but the management of two people, and most of the women who sacrifice themselves and wronged themselves lose their happiness.
You give, and he turns a blind eye.
I brushed up on a mother who shared her life after work, and after reading it, I felt that this kind of life was very suffocating, and I didn't know what was good about such a life.
After a tiring day, the house was a mess after work at night, with a lot of unwashed dishes and chopsticks in the kitchen, no one to clean up the clothes on the sofa, and the two children were still waiting for food.
Not only does she have to earn money to subsidize the family, but she also has to do housework when she gets home, wash dishes and brush chopsticks, sweep and mop the floor, wash clothes, cook, and take care of her two children.
Such a family is very sad, the family is for two people, just waiting for one person to pay, is it still called home?
A man who truly loves a woman will have a sense of responsibility, will not turn a blind eye to your efforts, and will share the trivial things in the family.
In marriage, there is only one aspect of the woman's giving, when he takes your contribution as a matter of course, thinking that this is what you have to do, and he has no responsibility, such a marriage is very boring.
You're saving, and he's a loser.
What kind of woman does a man want to find as a wife? Many people want to find a woman who can live a life to marry.
Women who can live a life are more economical, don't spend money randomly, don't spend a lot of money to do hair, don't buy expensive clothes, don't buy cosmetics, and are smart about budgeting.
Many middle-aged women are such women who can live their lives, are such women happy?
The older generation of women, they will be diligent and thrifty, reluctant to eat or drink, but the relationship with their husbands is not deep, and they are often disliked by their husbands like yellow-faced women.
The money he saved was taken by men to eat, drink and have fun, he lost playing cards, and he was squandered.
However, how many women want to live such a life?
I'm afraid that no woman wants to repeat the marriage of the older generation.
He makes mistakes, and you have no bottom line to forgive.
We've all heard the phrase "you can't do more than three things," which means you can't do the same thing three times in a row.
In fact, this sentence tells us the real truth that we can tolerate mistakes, but I will not always forgive, so I draw a bottom line to tell you.
Forgiving a person requires a bottom line, and always choosing to back down will make him gain an inch.
Women choose to tolerate and back down after a man makes a mistake, wanting to exchange for his guilt and repentance, but in the end, all she awaits is betrayal and hurt.
Emotionally, forgiveness has no bottom line, and you will only live a sad life.
How can a man who loves you keep making mistakes and hurting you all the time?
The root causes of marital unhappiness are nothing more than the following two kinds: one is that marriage has no foundation for love, and the other is that they do not know how to manage after marriage.
To be able to have a long-term and happy marriage, it must be maintained by the efforts of two people.