Ms. Liu, 51 years old, is divorced, is a domestic worker with a monthly income of 4,000 yuan and no real estate. She has an adult son and is currently married. Her divorce was mainly due to her ex-husband's personality problems, which led to an unhappy marriage. Ms. Liu's marriage was arranged by her parents, and she married her ex-husband at the age of 19 without getting to know each other well at the time. Although she tried hard to endure it, she eventually chose to divorce her son when he was in his teens to ensure that he could have a good environment for his growth.
After the divorce, Ms. Liu raised her son alone and experienced many hardships. However, as her son came of age and started a family of his own, Ms. Liu felt a sense of relief and began to think about her own happiness. She decided to find a suitable partner and met Mr. Zhai through a matchmaker's introduction.
Mr. Zhai is 6 years older than Ms. Liu, 57 years old, also divorced, with a monthly income of 10,000 yuan and owns an 80-square-meter property. Although Mr. Zhai was successful in his career, his marriage was not happy. His ex-wife was fascinated by dancing, which led them to part ways. Although Mr. Zhai is financially independent and focused on family life, his relationship with his ex-wife has influenced his attitude towards remarriage.
When the two first met, they both developed a crush on each other. They exchanged their careers and family situations, and found that they were compatible with each other in terms of income and living habits. However, when it came to supporting each other's children, the two disagreed. Ms. Liu hoped that Mr. Zhai could help her son if necessary, but Mr. Zhai believed that he was not responsible for Ms. Liu's child. This disagreement ultimately led to their inability to reach a consensus, and the blind date ended in failure. February** Dynamic Incentive Program
In general, middle-aged and elderly people face more challenges in remarrying, especially when dealing with their respective children. Both Ms. Liu and Mr. Zhai are looking for each other's happiness, but their attitude towards each other's children has become an insurmountable obstacle in their relationship.