If your child is lazy, doesn't write a word, doesn't do a question; procrastination, tardiness, failure to meet deadlines; Life is lazy, unruly, and often negotiating; It is difficult to concentrate and have no interest in class; Glass-hearted, crying, emotional, not accepting criticism, these children are very smart, but they lack people, they don't know why they want to learn, they don't know how to learn. So, how do we guide them as parents?
First, we need to understand the reasons behind these children's behaviors. They may feel confused and helpless and don't know why or how to study. Therefore, we need to communicate with them patiently and understand their thoughts and feelings. We can ask them questions like, "Why are you interested in learning?" "What do you think is the meaning of learning?" "Through conversations with children, we can help them find motivation and purpose in their learning.
Secondly, we need to make a reasonable study plan and life rules for our children. If your child has a lazy and irregular life, we can help them create a schedule that includes time to wake up, sleep, eat, and do homework. This can help children develop good living habits and time management habits, and improve learning efficiency and academic performance.
In addition, we should cultivate children's ability to learn independently. Many children lack the motivation and ability to learn actively, and we need to guide them to discover their interests and provide them with appropriate resources and opportunities. For example, if a child is interested, we can encourage them to attend a class or organize a family meeting. By cultivating children's interest and self-directed learning ability, they can be motivated and allowed to take the initiative to learn.
Finally, we need to give children a certain level of autonomy and respect. In order to be better engaged in learning, children need to feel valued and important. Therefore, we need to respect our children's opinions and choices and let them make their own decisions. At the same time, we should also give children the necessary guidance and support to help them overcome difficulties and challenges.
In conclusion, as parents, we need to guide and educate these children patiently. It is only with the right guidance and care that these children can reach their potential and become real dark horses.