Some of the child's smart behavior is sometimes misunderstood by the parents because the parents always interfere with the child in the name of doing good for the child.
In the process of children's growth, there are many seemingly "annoying" small problems, which are actually the manifestations of children's intelligence and superior intelligence, but they are often misunderstood by parents.
1.Destroy things in the house.
Look at you, the toys that others bought are fine, but your toys are broken! ”
Mothers often accuse their children in this way, but they don't know that this is a manifestation of the child's brain. Of course, as long as the child does not deliberately destroy the toy.
My kids also love to dismantle things. Sometimes, when he buys a car, he insists on removing the membrane covering the outside of the tire, and then sees if the car runs fast after removal.
Sometimes I take apart the audiobooks and read them to see how the sound comes out.
As for me, as long as he doesn't lose his temper and deliberately damages the toy, I won't interfere. Occasionally, my grandmother would say a few words, and I would say: This is inherited from my dad. Didn't his dad like to dismantle things when he was a kid?
So, if the child likes to use his brain and disassemble toys and things just to figure out the truth inside, then let the child disassemble it. After all, we buy toys for children to play with, and children have the right to make decisions and deal with things.
2.No matter how you hit **, there was no response.
It's time to eat, come and eat! ”
You shouted several times, but the child was still playing with blocks in the living room, having a lot of fun.
Let's go home, it's time, let's go home! ”
You've said it a million times, but children still love to look at the ants under the trees.
It's so annoying. Isn't this a deaf ear to my words?
Parents, you really need to think too much. It's not because your kids ignore your words, but because they're focused. Asking your child to respond or interrupt can really disrupt your child's attention.
A child's concentration is a very valuable thing. If you don't believe me, look at the successful people around us. They are all very focused, especially when it comes to work. They can put their heart and soul into their work, sleep and eat until they achieve results.
Therefore, parents should never disrupt their children's concentration. There are too many people who can't concentrate in their studies and work.
This year's college entrance examination candidates have been released one after another. Parents of top students said they had never attended a tutoring class. It is enough to listen to the lectures in class and do homework after class.
At the end of the day, their concentration is sufficient. An hour of attentive study is better than half a day of casual study.
3. Very good at arguing.
As soon as you say it, the child will immediately think of you and refute you. Such children are indeed annoying, but such children are really quick to think.
But first you have to make sure that your child is not making trouble or scolding you!
It is to refute what you say, because gradually you will find that speaking is actually an art and a science.
It's a great thing to be able to think quickly and express accurately.
The neighbor's child likes to watch TV while eating, so we asked her: You can watch TV while eating, and you can accurately pick up the dishes, what a rarity!
The neighbor kid explained to us: When I picked up the bowl, I looked at the dishes on the table, roughly in this position, and then took the bowl and watched TV. When I pick up the plates, I can basically hold them.
A small gesture, she said it reasonably. That's what children are capable of.
Mian's mother said: There are two aspects to everything, and the same is true for children's education. Some of your child's behaviors aren't necessarily bad. Instead, you need to see the good in your child and emphasize the good in your child. Gradually, the child will move towards the positive side of development.