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In recent years, due to the prevalence of the Internet and smart mobile**, parent groups have gradually become the main way for parents to communicate with the campus. However, while more and more people are joining the parent group, there are also many unhealthy phenomena, and some people will develop into "cheating groups". The various problems in student interaction not only interfere with the communication between students, but also have a great impact on parents and schools. This paper first expounds the original intention and positive role of the establishment of parents' WeChat groups, then analyzes the problems and reasons for its problems, and finally conducts a preliminary study on how to promote the healthy development of parents' WeChat groups in China.
The original intention of the parent group and its positive effects.
The purpose of setting up a parent group is to enhance communication between the school and parents, so that they can quickly exchange information and ideas, and work together to promote children's academic development. Using this group, parents can communicate with each other and exchange their children's growth experience, and at the same time, they can also use the function of "group" to put some major news and some matters that need attention in the group. Such a good communication channel is conducive to the interaction between the family and the school and promotes the development of the school. At present, more than 80% of primary and secondary schools in the country have set up "parent WeChat groups", and the positive effects of such WeChat groups are also widely recognized.
Extension: While facilitating the connection between students and parents, it also builds a platform for students and teachers to connect with each other. In this group, parents can communicate and exchange ideas about their own learning styles, lifestyle habits, etc. In this group, parents are active and concerned about children's development, and their active communication and harmonious atmosphere make parents full of confidence and motivation for their children's learning. In addition, it can also improve communication and understanding between parents, so that parents have more opportunities to communicate and avoid being isolated.
The confusion of the parent group and its hidden dangers.
But at the same time, there are also a lot of problems, especially the existence of "derailment groups". Some parents flaunt their wealth in WeChat groups, compare their financial strength, and their children's learning, and some even publicly insult the professionalism of teachers. What's even more surprising is that some parents are still having extramarital affairs in their parents' circles. This unhealthy phenomenon not only disrupts the normal operation of WeChat groups, but also violates the original intention of establishing parents' WeChat groups, and also has a certain negative effect on the healthy development of children.
Expansion: Some parents will show off their wealth in their parents' WeChat groups, such as: luxury cars, luxury goods, and show off their financial resources. Such a move has made many parents jealous and a sense of comparison. In addition, in such a competitive environment, some parents will exaggerate or exaggerate their children's achievements and talents, thus bringing a kind of mental pressure to other children and parents.
In addition, some parents openly abuse a teacher's professional skills in the parent group, and raise doubts about his teaching method and teaching standards. Doing so will cause parents to lose trust and respect for teachers, and at the same time, it will also cause them to have a negative psychological effect, so that they will lose their enthusiasm for teaching.
What's even more worrying is that some parents will use parental groups to create ** or fornication. On the surface, they are discussing with their parents about their children's education, but secretly, they are in a mess. Such "infidelity" not only violates family morality, but also harms the physical and mental health of children.
Analysis of the causes of mass disorder.
The reasons for this confusion are as follows:
First of all, there is a big difference between the actual literacy and the level of education of some parents. They post online statements that are inconsistent with collective values, showing off and comparing their financial resources.
Second, there is a tendency to lax the management of parent groups. Club managers and school teachers should play a greater role in guidance, but they are often unable to cope with chaos.
In addition, some parent groups are becoming more and more commercialized, from the original limited to school-based parent participation to the participation of the whole population. As a result, there will be more conflicts.
Representative cases.
Some representative examples illustrate the severity of the confusion in parents' WeChat groups. For example, in August of this year, a group of parents in a junior high school met in this group and often had affairs. The married person also made a big splash about his family life in the group, and his relationship with his wife collapsed. This case has received great attention and warning from the whole society.
Strategies to promote the healthy growth of the parent community.
In order to effectively solve these problems and promote their healthy development, the following measures should be taken:
First of all, strengthen the cultivation of parents. On this basis, a new concept of building a harmonious society, a harmonious society and a harmonious society is proposed. Parents should actively study and master the relevant knowledge and skills related to family education.
Second, it is necessary to strengthen the supervision of the parent group. School and group managers should strengthen the management of parent groups, formulate corresponding rules and regulations, formulate corresponding rules, formulate corresponding rules, formulate corresponding rules, formulate corresponding rules, strictly restrain some behaviors that do not conform to regulations, and promptly handle and resolve all kinds of conflicts and contradictions that occur in groups.
In addition, the interests and needs of parents should also be taken into account when building a parent community. School and group managers can regularly organise practical education courses and family education for parents and children to provide more information and information for parents and children.
Third, it is necessary to strengthen the collaboration between home and school. At the same time, it is also necessary to work together with parents to help them solve problems and promote their growth. Through communication with students' parents, we establish rules related to "parent groups" to make students feel cared for and supported by the school.
In conclusion, as an effective way of communication between home and school, parent groups play a positive role in promoting the relationship between home and school and the academic development of children. However, the confusion of the parent group has caused great harm to the family and the school, and it is a problem that needs urgent attention and resolution. In order to promote the healthy development of the parent group, it is necessary to strengthen the education of parents, strengthen the management of the parent group, fully consider the interests and needs of parents, strengthen home-school cooperation, and promote the healthy development of the parent group.
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