The best genius of Tsinghua University has encountered countless difficulties in his life. He was so poor that he didn't even have the money to buy medicine for his cancer father. His married life was also full of setbacks, and he was married for nineteen years without any children.
Mr. Luo Yi is undoubtedly one of the worst stars in the world.
Li Jian, a talented man at Tsinghua University, is talented. "Life with You" made his career flourish, however, he and his wife have been married for 19 years, but they have never had a son and a half daughter, so some netizens call him the worst star.
But does that mean that not having children means that a marriage is unhappy?
Li Jian affectionately refers to his wife, Meng Xiaobei, as "Little Shell," a nickname derived from the pronunciation of the last word of her name. It is said that Li Jian already had this idea when he was ten years old.
Behind this nickname is Li Jian's praise for her gentle and virtuous character, and his deep cherishing of the relationship between the two. During a visit to relatives, Li Jian was fascinated by the beauty and kindness of Little Shell, and he decided to make her his lifelong companion.
Therefore, the nickname "Little Shell" has also become a witness and symbol of their feelings.
In 1984, when Li Jian was ten years old, he met Meng Xiaobei when he followed his father to visit relatives. Her fair and delicate skin, pink cheeks, and soft white sweater make people unforgettable at first sight.
At that moment, Li Jian fell in love with her at first sight, however, the feelings of teenagers are always short-lived, like unbloomed flowers, and they quickly fade away.
Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei's relationship is like a dew relationship, because the two families live far away. However, after they entered Tsinghua University, they finally met again. Although Li Jian is five years younger than Meng Xiaobei, the fate of the two still seems to be drawn together.
In the flowers of childhood, the charm of the guitar was deeply attracted to Li Jian, and his heart was moved by Qi Qin and Li Zongsheng's **. In order to support his ** dream, his mother did not hesitate to pay two months' salary to buy a cotton guitar.
Since then, this guitar has become a part of Li Jian's body, started his ** journey, and led him to the future with Meng Xiaobei.
In 1993, Li Jian became a blockbuster at the Tsinghua Winter Camp with a song "Say a Word from the Heart", becoming the only winner of the summer camp, and then was escorted to Tsinghua University.
However, these achievements are not enough to sum up all of him. Many people thought that he was escorted because of his excellent grades, but this is not the case.
During his college years, Li Jian was a central figure in the Storm Zone. Whether it is a campus singing competition or a talent show, he can always win the championship with his excellent singing and superb guitar skills, and become the focus of attention of all girls.
So, at Tsinghua University, he spent a few years in the limelight. And when he was about to graduate, Meng Xiaobei was also successfully admitted to Tsinghua University and studied with him in the beautiful Tsinghua Garden.
The flowers on the other side bloom, the flowers fall speechless, this is the most painful love in the world. If Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei had been able to enter Tsinghua University in the same year, their university life might have been different.
But fate always likes to play tricks on people, just as Li Jian was about to leave far away, Meng Xiaobei came as promised. However, this is precisely the charm of fate, which uses the unknown and variables to test the tenacity of love.
In the end, they walked hand in hand without hesitation. However, the rest of the story went beyond their expectations.
After graduation, Li Jian found a job with a monthly salary of 4,000 in the Radio and Television Bureau, but his alumnus Lu Gengxu found him and invited him to form "Shuimu Nianhua". At that time, the job with a monthly salary of 4,000 was already a high-paying industry, you must know that at that time, a pound of flour was less than two cents, only the big boss could afford to smoke a cigarette for 10 yuan, and ordinary people could boast in the village for half a day after smelling it.
But Li Jian's love for ** made him hesitate. At this time, Meng Xiaobei stood up.
With Meng Xiaobei's firm support and encouragement, Li Jian mustered up the courage to pursue his dreams. Together with Lu Gengxu, he founded "Shuimu Nianhua" and swept the country with a song "Life with You".
However, as time passed, Li Jian found that the company's control over "Water and Wood Years" had changed the direction of creation, and he began to chase market capital, and the style of music gradually changed from introverted to "fast food"** to cater to the market**
Such a depressing life made Li Jian deeply tired, and he had the idea of leaving.
When Li Fitness side of the people think"Mizuki years"The group has become famous and only needs to enjoy the wealth brought by success, only Meng Xiaobei firmly stands by Li Jianjian's side and supports his decision.
This made Li Jian feel pain again, but it also gave him the strength to move forward.
In 2002, Li Jian decided to pursue his ** dream alone and left Shuimu Nianhua. However, the ups and downs of fate are as impermanent as an electrocardiogram. After that, he went through a long period of slump, and his painstaking work was repeatedly rejected, ridiculed, and treated as a joke.
In 2005, Li Jian's family suffered another heavy blow.
In the face of his father's cancer and sky-high medical expenses, Li Jian felt extremely heavy, and he had to be exhausted every day for basic living expenses. What's even more tricky is that he also needs to solve the problem with Meng Xiaobei.
Meng Xiaobei, a graduate student at Tsinghua University, is full of brilliance. Li Jian, like a small fish in a quagmire on the side of the road, struggled to survive, only wishing to survive for a second. At that moment, he understood that she was the wind of freedom, and he should let go.
But fate made people, but she chose to throw herself into Li Jian's arms. Meng Xiaobei decided that she was going to marry Li Jian!
Li Jian and his wife Meng Xiaobei formed a happy family in the simplest way. In 2006, Li Jian's father passed away due to cancer, and Meng Xiaobei attended the funeral as a daughter-in-law, witnessing a deep love and the strength of the family.
In 2010, Li Jian's career finally ushered in a turning point. That year, his re-interpretation of the song "Legend" was loved by everyone, so he was invited by CCTV, held a grand concert in Beijing, and was even invited to participate in the International Sino-Korean Song Concert.
Fame, wealth, and honor poured in like a tidal wave, but Meng Xiaobei disappeared without a trace during this time.
Li Jian's mysterious wife, Meng Xiaobei, was actually intentional by him to protect her privacy. He knows that as a public figure, protecting his privacy is the bottom line of psychological security, so after he became famous, he has been silently guarding his wife and keeping her away from the public eye.
Although the outside world has always been curious about why they didn't have children, in fact, Li Jian has already responded.
In an interview, Li Jian once said that there is no need to be overly obsessed with perpetuating the genes of endangered species. From this response, as well as the changes he has made along the way, we can see that Li Jian is a person who pursues freedom, and he does not like to be bound by anything.
This response is highly consistent with his later view of love, that is, to love someone freely, do one thing, and live a lifetime. And Meng Xiaobei is his freely chosen partner, and it is also his destined love.
They are destined to end happily ever after.
The most beautiful love is not to unilaterally give everything, even at the expense of one's own life to win the love of the other party. It is two free and equal hearts, attracted to each other, meeting in the sea of people, and moving forward together.