If you don't have children, will you regret it when you get old?
My neighbor, Aunt Wang, is Dink, nearly 70 years old, has no children and no daughters, and her wife also passed away in 19. Recently, she was not feeling well, and she had just returned from the hospital, and I saw her lying alone on the sofa, which was very worrying.
Aunt Wang and her wife are very kind and optimistic people, and they greet people warmly, so she gets along well with us, and she will often give me something delicious to eat, and I will often send her some delicious food.
When my uncle was there, they went to buy groceries and square danced together every day, and often went out to travel, just like a pair of fairy couples, which made me envious when I saw it, and I couldn't help but say to my husband: "Look, how easy and chic people are!" It's not like we have to go to and from work every day and take care of our children, so we're very busy."
My husband rolls his eyes back at me every time: "You'll know when you're old, and having no children when you're old is worse than Coptis chinensis" I didn't think so.
Now that my uncle has passed away, my aunt is left alone, with no children and no daughters, and she only sits at home in a daze every day, without even anyone to talk to, she looks pitiful, and she is also lonely during the New Year, I will also invite her to my house to eat and be lively together.
I asked my aunt, "Why didn't you want children when you were young, and do you regret it now?" The aunt only said: "He feels that raising a child is very hard, and when he has a child, he has a bond, and he can't go anywhere he wants." ”
I think as a woman, my aunt should also want to have a child and be a mother, after all, this is a right that every woman can enjoy.
Although raising children is very hard, the happiness in it, in the future, the children and grandchildren will be full, and the fight under Chenghuan's knees will not be enjoyed by the aunt.
My aunt told me that in a few years, when my body could no longer move, I would go to a nursing home, and her monthly pension would be enough to cover the expenses, and there would be nothing to do there, and there would be elderly people chatting together to pass the time. If a hundred years later, her property will be left to her sister's children.
In fact, I would like to say that even if you live in a nursing home, you will feel lonely, because when you see other elderly people have sons and grandchildren come to visit, you don't feel good in your heart, especially during the Chinese New Year, you will be taken back by your children to reunite.
Perhaps, in the near future, Aunt Wang will move into a nursing home alone, what kind of life awaits her at that time? I wonder if she will regret her choice when she was younger? Publish a collection of dragon cards to share millions of cash