One of my female friends committed suicide, and it's heart-wrenching news.
When they were young, this friend and her husband chose to live a dink life, and they felt that their lives were quite nourishing, traveling everywhere, often going out to eat, and living a relaxed and comfortable life. I heard that the relationship between the two of them has always been very good.
Time flies for more than 30 years, but who would have thought that behind such a life, there would be so much pain in her heart.
There is an old saying that when you are young, you see how your parents think of your children, and when you are older, you see how your children think of your parents. Makes sense. Many women may think that having children is for men, but in fact, for many women over the age of 50, children may be their greatest happiness. Women who don't have children may feel quite bleak in their old age.
It seems that most men want to have a child in their later years. When you are poor, you want your children to turn over, and when you are rich, you want your children to inherit the family business. If a woman regrets it later, it will be too late.
In fact, the death of this friend may not be directly related to her Dink. When you choose Dink and enjoy a free life, you should think about what may happen in the future, such as the other party suddenly changing their mind, or facing a lonely old age alone. Life is like that, what you get is always proportional to what you give.
If you choose this path, you have to go on without regrets.
But then again, families with children also have a lot of worries, and when they are young, they may be busy for their children. Families with children are not necessarily beautiful in their old age.
Life is inherently full of uncertainties, and no one knows what the future holds. What we can do is to solve problems when we encounter them, fulfill our responsibilities, and leave the results to fate.
Don't push for perfection too much, sometimes you can't ask for it. Dink