Title: Reveal the secret for you! How to make retirement comfortable and comfortable?
Guys, are you looking forward to your retirement life? Do you think you'll be able to live that kind of good life with both time and money? But don't think that retirement is carefree, think about your future life and start to feel uneasy.
Look at our 63-year-old Aunt Qin, who lives a comfortable life after retirement, and the friends around her don't know how much to envy her! Look at us again, I wish we could be like Aunt Qin again without worrying about eating, drinking, and having fun, and live a free life! So what is the secret of Aunt Qin's life, let's learn it today!
First of all, Aunt Qin suggested that we should learn to be less nosy! Why? Because everyone has grown up, each has its own way of life, and each thinks it is appropriate for the time and way. Aunt Qin told us that mothers or fathers should learn to take a few steps back and let the children call the shots. If we intervene too much, they will probably get impatient. She is in harmony with people, and the elderly, of course, the more the better, it's better than always saying that the daughter-in-law is wrong and that is wrong!
Again, we must have the ability to live on our own. How do you say that? In fact, Aunt Qin herself is a good example. Although she is old, she has not yet reached the point where she can't take care of herself, so she lives outside by herself, eats whatever she wants every day, and does whatever she wants, completely unaffected by others.
Finally, Aunt Qin also gave us another suggestion, that is, to learn to pretend to be deaf and dumb. What do you mean? That is to say, young people have their own way to go, let's be parents, then just take care of our own little days. She also told us that it is the right way to treat the two generations with as little complaining as possible and keep a happy mood!
Are there any other ways to help us live a better retirement? Absolutely! First of all, we have to learn to "turn a blind eye", that is, don't pay too much attention to the trivial things. Aunt Qin's teachings let us understand that when people are old, they must learn to let go and find their own happiness. In old age, our lifestyle should basically be that our children are already married, and we don't have to worry about them anymore. It's time to do something we love!
Secondly, it is also important to develop hobbies. Aunt Qin is a person who loves life, and she goes to the park every day for a walk and does tai chi. These hobbies not only enriched her life in her later years, but also greatly improved her physical fitness.
Overall, retirement isn't as easy as we think, but with the right approach, we can live happily ever after. So, friends, hurry up and enjoy your life!