Some people regard retirement as a second spring, starting the mode of taking children, traveling, and chasing dreams.
Some people are retired, age quickly, do nothing, but are never happy. The pension is less than others, the children are not good, the baby can't walk, and I don't like to dance.
There are also people who do not retire all their lives and complain all day long because they have lost the opportunity to retire because they do not have enough savings and because they have to go to work with their tired bodies.
When a person is lonely, he is actually living in the past and has never gone out.
Obviously, everyone needs to "say goodbye to the old and welcome the new" when they are old, and don't cry until today because they spilled the milk yesterday.
If you don't know how to sober yourself, you're putting yourself in trouble.
Looking back, there are too many good things in life, but also too many sorrows.
However, in the end, it is all over, it is hard work, and it cannot be recovered.
Doing things according to the inherent cognition, life and everything are familiar paths, but they are incompatible with the times.
During the Northern Wei Dynasty, there was a famous general named Gu Bi, who made great contributions to both things and things.
He also went through several generations of emperors and was considered the image of the elders.
During the reign of Emperor Ming and Yuan, he assisted the world and did a lot of good things, and his official position also held high positions.
After Emperor Taiwu succeeded to the throne, he was upright and upright, always able to express his opinions, and was tolerated and accepted.
One day, Emperor Taiwu was playing chess, and Gu Bi came in to report to work. Out of politeness, Gu Pi waited for a while, but the game was not over.
Gu Bi was in a hurry and defeated the chess player by Emperor Taiwu's side.
Of course, Emperor Taiwu knew his character, so he smiled and said, "If you have any suggestions, please tell me." ”
Emperor Taiwu gave the war horse to the ordinary soldiers, but Gu Pi sent some very weak horses, saying: "The war horse is to defend the country, how can you give it away?"”
Emperor Taiwu felt very uncomfortable and said, "You are really a virtuous minister. ”
By the time Emperor Wencheng arrived, Gu Bi was still outspoken.
Emperor Wencheng was narrow-minded and planned to rectify a group of old ministers. After listening to Gu Bi's evil words, he was executed on the grounds of "supernatural powers".
The times will abandon a person, and they won't even say hello. This sentence is very appropriate when applied to Gu Pi. He couldn't keep up with the times and continued to work according to the old routine, so he lost his life.
In science, there is a term called "paradigm shift".
Many of the experiences were successful under the original social model;When social patterns change, experiences become invalid.
For example, mobile phones and computers are indeed changing rapidly compared to ten years ago and today. Seniors who can't use smartphones are restricted everywhere.
Knowledge is not updated quickly, they are accustomed to acting on experience, their cognition of the world stays at a certain level, and they combine into an invisible net, making themselves unable to move.
Learn to refresh yourself, and the rest of your life will be happy.
Where there is life, there is progress. That's how older people should live.
That is, if a person cannot walk, he still has to change his spirit, maintain a positive attitude, and the happiness index will still increase.
There is no new one, and there is no old one. This is a natural succession process. Don't deliberately give up the old things, but actively have new things, and every day will go well.
First of all, renew your mind and accept new things.
In many places, special passages are set up for the elderly, but the elderly should consciously use the normal passages.
As long as you keep learning, there's nothing you can't learn. You can't learn it all at once. You'll learn more in time.
To feel the way of life of young people, to understand the diversity of the world, and to integrate naturally into society is to enjoy the fruits of social development.
Second, refresh social interaction and lower your attitude towards life.
You used to be an all-round professional, then you were an ordinary retiree.
Don't call you because people call you"Director, Director"is arrogant. Get used to being called by your name.
Retirement not only means receiving a pension, but also means not having a position and no longer having much use value.
Without valuable people, society is no longer so lively, but more real.
Third, reinvigorate the family and reposition yourself.
People are old, they are grandparents, what should they do?It should be carefully considered.
Take care of the kids, go on trips, take care of the kids' business, help with the son's factory. It doesn't matter, but you have to find your niche.
The old man helps the young, he is the helper, not the protagonist.
In a large family, the elderly should take the initiative to give way, not be a big manager, but also learn to accept the arrangement of their children.
Fourth, refresh your life and pay more attention to your health.
Make your life more regular and don't continue to work "in a hurry".
You no longer have a time limit, you don't accept invitations from acquaintances. Plan your time, exercise, eat three meals a day, be healthy, rest.
Having a regular routine will make your life easier and your physical pleasure will increase.
After most of your life, you should learn how to please yourself.