My son was in his first year of secondary school last year, but now he told us that he was going to drop out of school, which left me and my family feeling very shocked and helpless. He said that he was not happy at all in his class, he didn't even have a real friend, and to make matters worse, his relationship with his teachers and classmates was becoming more and more strained, and even discriminated against by them, which made him feel unbearable.
As a mother, hearing my child say this makes me feel very painful and anxious. I know the pain and stress my child goes through in school, but what can I do? How can I help him through this? These questions have always bothered me.
As a mother, you first need to be calm and rational in the face of your child's predicament. This may be the first time in his life that a child has faced such a dilemma when he encounters problems in school life, so it is normal to feel lonely and helpless.
First of all, you need to have in-depth communication with your child to understand what the specific problem he is experiencing. Is it because of academic pressure, or because of social issues? Is it because of the unfair treatment of teachers, or because of the isolation and exclusion of classmates? Only when the specific cause of the problem is understood can a targeted solution be proposed.
Second, you can try to communicate with the teachers and school authorities at the school to find out what they think about your child and how they are being educated. If there is a problem of teachers or classmates discriminating against your child, you can report it to the school and ask them to take steps to resolve the issue. At the same time, you can also consult with your school's education specialist or counsellor to find out their views and suggestions on your child's problems.
Finally, as a mother, you need to give your child enough support and encouragement so that he feels that he is not alone. You can accompany your child through this difficult time and help him build self-confidence and courage to face difficulties. At the same time, you also need to teach your child how to properly handle relationships and stress, so that he can better cope with various challenges in his future life.
In conclusion, in the face of our child's predicament, we need to be patient, understanding and supportive, and take positive measures to solve the problem. Only in this way can we truly help children get out of their difficult situation and meet a better future.